freecocoa: Hmm OP,I would say stick with her and see if her feelings towards you grow or depreciates.

Coming to love someone doesn't just happen,it takes sometime,you need to get to know who you are dealing with before you can finally decide if you wanna continue with them.

Just use your head and don't force it,don't try to impress her too much,just be yourself and you'll be fine.

A-ZeD:

hi koko

Mynd_44: The truth is that the only reason she is back with you is out of pity. When a girl openly tells you that, you should have enough sense to be able to read it

freecocoa: Hello,good to see hear from ya.

Umar Sanda: Fellow Nairalanders, am in a relationship wit a girl of 23yrs old, am 28, we started wel around may dis year, n i was able 2 meet her sister who leav in d same town with me, she spent sometimes with her sister here before moving back 2 her base, stil in d same state.

After she moved back 2 her base, i notice some changes, like she dnt call as usual, n if i dnt call, she wont complain like before, n wen i complain she wil ray she is sorry.

Last week, as we were chatting, she said she cant marry me n dat she is breaking up with me, and when i askd her why, she said she dont love me, n dat she have tried but couldnt love me, so when i ask her if 2 month is enough 2 decide, she was speechless.
We manage 2 come back together,so i askd her if truly she dont love me, n she said yes, but she like me.

We have both agree 2 continue and let love grow between us, bt ma worry is am i doing the right thing to give her time 2 develop her likeness 4 me into love? Pls advice me.