Nairaland Forum

kandiikane: Whatever it maybe, whether the bible was written for white people or not, that is not the case. A woman's hair must be on point. There is no point making up your face when your hair looks like you shyt.


I don't know which girls you hang around with but if you have good weave you can still sweat and exercise without ruining it.

kandiikane: All these men here complaining because the weave is chopping their money.

Ha!

Anyway, women don't weave for men. They do it for themselves. You have to understand black hair is not something you can just leave like that as a woman. Women always want to look good for as the bible even said that the hair is where the beauty lies. Even if the face is a mess as long as the hair is done, attention can be drawn from the face to the hair.

Wearing weave doesn't mean she wants to be white or asian, we are lucky as black people we can wear any hairstyle and it will make no difference to us as blacks. When white people do single plaits or dread, it looks odd on them.

I personally wear weaves and wigs to change hairstyles from time to time, look different. I had my hair cut and I still go out with it.
I don't wear my wigs at my partner's house. I don't see the point of it.

I don't do things to impress a guy.

@pleep but she still has her hair permed so she ain't no different.

kandiikane: Lol@jallowbah trying to prove something.

My point is black women can do any style but if another woman from a race does it, it's not the same.

It's something people will question.

I know in many cultures they do it for religious purposes but dreads has become blackified lol

~Royal~:
Kandii and her Infinite supply of subliminal shots at Jallow Lmfao

"Can't Dance"

"Your Man probably has a Black Gambian Wife on the side" (LoL)

"Jallow Trynna Prove Something"


...lol

@Topic.....Men don't give a damn about Weaves. It's all to impress their female friends...

Personally when i visit a chick late at night for some Azzz i request she tie her hair up in a scarf.

CAMEROONPRIDE: its gross

~Royal~:
Niqqahz in here straight up Lyin.

pleep: Is funny how almost every single black man says he hates weaves....

afam4eva: I always tell any lady that cares to listen that i hate anything artificial but secretly i admire it like mad.

kandiikane: atleast that someone doesn't have pubes on their head.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Lol @all those Africans women trying to justify their insecurity...drop the weaves period

kandiikane:

Not before you drop your balls.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Lol @all those Africans women trying to justify their insecurity...drop the weaves period

pleep: Its the chemicals seeping into their brains!

MsDarkSkin: @Kandii do you wear skunk hair? lolz.

Last time I check synthetic hair was made from @rtifici@l
f!bers ...n0t horse hair.

and fyi anyone who sees me with the braids can see it's not real hair.
They can see where it is braided in. Unlike some girls who perm their natural hair
and try to blend it in with the hair that they cannot sprout from their scalps.
Again, to each his own. I don't care for tracks.

kandiikane: Lol, mzdarkskin, I'm not trying to say weave is better than micro braids but as I've said before there is no difference even if you can tell with braids.

As far as I know, many from other races can't tell the difference between extensions and natural hair on blacks. When I was in hospital just recently the xray lady said to me, "omg, I wish I had hair like yours it's to thick and long." I had to correct her. I had braids then.

Maybe, braids work for you but it doesn't work for me and many alike because I pulls my front hair and leads to bald patches just like the picture you post. Weave works for me because it grows my hair due to the cornrows and just leaving my natural hair alone.


My point= there is no difference between braids and weave. I don't see the point in being ok with braids(whether horse hair or synthetic fibres) and not with weaves. They are both illusions even if one is more obvious than the other.

Seeing your last post now, it's good that you advise women about the damaging effects of weaves but tbh, as a woman you should understand how hard it is to maintain hair and some rather just hide it than deal with it. Plus, many don't have the resources to maintain the hair.

I just recently met a lady and her hair is no more than 2inches. It just never grows even with the help of the best products around. She can't even pick it to cornrow so she wears wigs or wig caps.

Can you see my point?


Sorry, for the long post but even though you're going natural, you've also got to look at both sides of the coin.