immortalcrown:
Reporting her to any authority is a waste of time if the contract was not documented and signed.

You returned 20k because of 7k. This is not wisdom. 7k is not even enough for expenses if you want to report her to any authority. Also, she is probably richer than you and can bribe her way out if reported.

You better rest and rely on God to touch her heart.

Exactly on point. Op, has no common sense at all. You got paid 2ok out of 27k he returned the money, op, I wouldn't knw what to tell a man at ur age to get sense.

Mhizzard:

your deduction sound truly.however,how do we identify our frenemies

The truth herein is that, you can ONLY trust urself. Most friends hang arround u, 'cus of what they can get from you. You can have that trust with a friend, but dine with him with long spoon. Never give him ur whole heart.

ogawisdom:


You are quite a sensitive man sha because this issue is a very light one to me. She is only saying that you love your mum more so no offense there BC it's normally true & she is probably jealous.

Why should she apologize for stating her observation?

Exactly. For me, I'll not make any kind of issue over this. Your wife supposed to be ur best friend and as such, don't sleep over issues like this. Though, some ladies got character issue, just like men too. Your ability to understand that marriage is a university you cannot graduate, the better for both of you.

A woman is a weaker se-x and u can ONLY try to be patient and tolorant with them. Once u get it wrong by marring the wrong woman, you're into a very long journey. Op, u knew her b4 now.

Mhizzard:
The purpose of them demanding for ransom from his family is for him to get release from them.but no,they cut his yet-fulfill-promise life short.it quite unfortune,someone who would have been planing how he would celebrate chrismas&new year.may his soul rest in peace

It must have been someone that knows him that planned for his kidnap and eventual death that followed.

Never disclose to anyone ur travel plan/details, unless ur immediate family 'wife nd kids'.

He must have recognized any of them, after collecting the ransome, they killed him.

They will all die painfully.

dawnomike:
Why is there always a Bush that they always run to...

I knew they would end it with "they ran into a bush".

What of the unspecified amt of money they stole? They abandoned their cars and byke and was able to run into the bush carring allong such large amt and u as officers couldn't get them? Na waoooo.

May His name be praised. He cursed himself and recieved instant judgment.
Never fight Israel or curse God, as u all have seen the result of the fooli...sh man's ignorance.

santaclaws:
You need to tell all these to someone close to him, like his family members or his mother. You need to let him know that if he doesn't change, you may not be able to endure him anymore...

Also, if you have a decent pastor (not fake ones), you can explain to him so he can counsel you and your husband.

Let her not try to involve any pastor on this as the pastor will end up expossing their secret to other church members and that could end up, messing up the marriage.

Op, if u nd ur husband are the type that club arround, here nd there, u've to blame urselves, 'cus both of u are same.

It's a matter of time, u'll end up doing same. You cannot change a clubber. Too bad.

Righteousness2:
Make no Mistake!!! This is a Sign from above.
How can you curse Whom GOD has BLESSED!

Nations and people should tread Carefully with the nation of ISRAEL.
ISRAEL is GOD ALMIGHTY Signet on the Earth.

Just like Balaam who was Hired by Balak to Curse. His Donkey Had to talk to Him to make him understand that the assignment he was Hired for was a very Dangerous one.

The Covenant is not a Joke.
The Covenant is a strong covenant.
The Covenant is a life Covenant .

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May His name be praised. Never play with God's people. God has proven Himself to the world, live.

One thing is this; no one can reform the Nigerian police, even God Himself, cannot reform them, but rather, destroy them out of anger.

If IG gives a directive for his surbodinates, not to go againts the ethics of thier profession, the criminals amongs them cannot do that. If they want to extort you, they will not look back. There are still clean officers among them, but the bad eggs are mostly the rank & file. Only minute number of them are clean.

Most of them that rose from rank nd file are where you find the bad eggs.

A police officer having to intimidate a civilian while armed, in order to extort him, is that not robbery? Most are robbers on uniform.

mrrandomguy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iUntCNV17Eo?si=QeotvwetMpCvIFw9

WATCH TO THE VERY END

A video is trending online where a female Biker from the Netherlands was stoped by men of the Nigeria police. The officers asked the woman for money.

However, a superior officer ordered his men to leave the female biker alone. The video stopped at that moment, showing no evidence that the female biker was extorted.

Unfortunately for the officers, they were arrested by the police authorities who are ready to make a scapegoat out of them.

Op, yo no get sense at all. Since you too sabi, why not go to IG and now order him to release your father 'cus, I believe one of them is your father, hence ur defence. F...ol like you.

Do you understand the implication of thier action to the outside world? Anyway, sense no common.

The receptionist did not take the name of the lodger 'cus he/she has pocketed the money. He/she must be held responsible for the death of the lady. He/she is an accomplice to the crime. How can a male partner walk out of the hotel without the knowledge of the hotel staff.

Ladies, u love good life with someone who takes u to an hotel, be ready to pay the price, which is death.

No rip for her.

SweetBuns:
Tell her to leave that house ASAP
That aunty is a big time manipulator.
By the time the senior kid finishes up with whatever he/she's up to, this once in a lifetime opportunity would be long gone
And who's to say that she won't come up with some new excuse as to why she shouldn't leave when the kid finally comes back?
It's not as if she's even treating her well in the first place
May God not let us come across people who wants to hold us back for their own selfish reasons

On point. She should go for the job asap if she love herself.

VeryWickedGoat:
Because it involves bringing in money and the pussy is the strongest money magnet in the world.

On point. Their motto 'go out there and get their a/c at any cost nomatter what'

kenzoid:
Old news
It happened around 2019 or 2020

Exactly. Very old news. Op, your brain should go 4 re-examination. Stale news.

The life of the common man in Nigeria, doesn't matter/worth anything to our leaders. How can u bomb innocent muslim faithfuls holding their prayer and maybe claim ignorance? I am a christain, but cannot support this.

Lost my eldest brother too in benin almost same way. Don't want to think about it.

See who get sense baa. Only a man with no sense can even sleep with this overused pad. Even with her kind body outlook, I bet you that she sme....l.

Beremx:
I see nothing wrong with it. She's helping to make the first lady beautiful.
Still better than carrying handbag or food for madam.

Exactly on point.

I don't see anything wrong here. Her aid is a female police officer and not a man. She has done nothing wrong.

Things has fallen apart and the center cannot hold.

Now, it is for Every foolis-h man's food. Food is Ready Restuarant. Come in and taste.

It can ONLY be GRACE & MERCY of God 2ru HIS JESUS.

jesusjnr2020:
It's always an amazing sight whenever I see such ones passionately and unashamedly serving God with the days of their youth, especially in such a wicked and perverse generation.

It inspires hope for the future and suggests that not all hope is lost for the younger generation.

May God continue to strengthen and keep this young man spiritually hot and firing on all cylinders til old age if the Lord tarries. In Jesus name!

Ameeeeeeeeeen.

Person no go look for client again? Having a big god by these holes, they must be ready to use their limited liability holes, when it matters most, to service their clients.

FreeStuffsNG:
He actually created the problem by mopping and destroying significant amounts of the old notes

You're right. But with the new cbn governor in charge now, why must we experience same problem that made Nigerians called for the head of Emefele when he came up with his own policy?

Nigeria's problem is beyond repairs. Our leaders are our problems.

Within this same money scarcity, the politicians will be in their houses and put just a call to their banks to deliver #20mill to their respective homes.

Sleekfingers:



Something like this happen at Polaris forex bank adjacent the cathedral in Marina. We were on the queue, when a guy In front of me was about to enter, a lady that was not on the queue said, it was her turn, they started arguing. Before we know it, she slapped the man.
The young man didn't waste any time, he slapped her 4 hot slaps. All of a sudden the security and some men started saying, Na woman na, you no suppose slap her back. I was so furious, that I said, what right does she have to slap the guy in the first place.

You're a man. You did the right thing by deffending the guy.

MadamVanessa:





Men are no longer men anymore. Weak and timid. So emotionally ridden.

Our forebearers will be turning in their graves with much disappointment to see the numbers of weak emotional ridden dingbats calling themselves men walking now in the world.

Even our great grandmothers will be ashamed of how this generation of ladies has turned their private holes into a manufacturing co, a limited liability companies, where they trade their bodies in exchange to be alive.

I've a Very Big god is their slogan.

Have they taken the statistics of politicians that steal the wealth of this nation? The surrest way to steal money in this country is to become a politician, join their cult and become a Pen Robber. Youths get involved in crime and stuff like gambling 'cus their leaders has failled them. You finish university whereby parents go through pain to see their wards through school and a government that never contributed a dime throughout their upbringing, will now impose a mandatery NYSC service of 1yr and after serving their nation, they will be pushed to the street without any form of job to go and die.

I pity the youths of this country. No hope for them.

Op, this story doesn't sound right to me. Fiction.

Op, this a very old story that has been posted on this forum. Why bringing it here again?

Rossikk:
I don't understand why we need these whites or Asians around to be building our roads in this day and age.

What do they teach civil engineering students in all the universities we have?

The officials that gave out the contract, want to get their own cut in dollars, just like NFF does. Corruption by polliticians. That is just their reasons for getting the white guys to handle the jobs.

Bea1234:
https://www.nairaland.com/7925065/gave-friend-job-link-shocked

Read the post in the above link.



This guy is one of the biggest fools roaming the earth.

Had it been it was a woman, the idiot would have double the money in 10 folds. I wish I can get in touch with that friend of his. I feel so bad rn.

The guy is just a demon. Just 1k tf, he hung his phone on him. In his life, he cannot get any form of favor from any living being.

westlius:
I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job.
2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant.
I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview.
This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call

Infact, devil is better than you are. Karma will hunt you for ur wickedness and in time to come, u will look 4 favor, no being will help you.