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Romance / Re: A Friend Trying To Snatch My Girlfriend by bendazum: 3:16am On Mar 05, 2020
burner44:

I'm not usually at homegot somehing doing, i come to my friends place whenever I'm free and thete we see


It shows the level of closeness between you and this girl. It also shows that's she's just a casual girl to you.

If she meant a lot to you, there's no how she won't know your place or your family.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Between My Teaching Job And A Bank Security Job by bendazum: 5:32pm On Mar 04, 2020
Kenlinks546:
Take the bank job, wen u start, tell your supervisor to fix u into night duty. you can still teach if u r hardworking 40+20k =60k

You must be wicked. So on top the daily toils, he will still toil at night.

He will be sleeping on duty. I guarantee it.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by bendazum: 1:18pm On Feb 29, 2020
Is it really okay to state that the reason for resignation is that you've found another organisation?

What's your views?
Health / Re: As A Surgeon, What Is The Most Dangerous Thing You Have Found Inside A Patient? by bendazum: 12:16pm On Feb 23, 2020
paparazi1:
As a senior Nursing Officer, I have also witness the removal of gauze and small abdominal pad from the abdominal cavity of a lady that previously had a cs, though there was sepsis, she narrowly survived, with third intention healing. That is why the surgeon and the scrub nurse must adhere to ethics by making sure the counting
of pads, gauze sponges and other materials used for the operation must be counted before and after the operation
before closing the cavity of the patient which used to be the norm.

'Used to be the norm'?

Are you saying its no longer the procedure?
Health / Re: As A Surgeon, What Is The Most Dangerous Thing You Have Found Inside A Patient? by bendazum: 12:13pm On Feb 23, 2020
Manaria15:
When you have only one doctor doing everything, when I had surgery, at General hospital, the doctors were about 3, excluding the anesthetist, what one could not see his colleagues will see it, it was a team work, and I didn't have any further complications to the Glory of God. From the day I decided to have the surgery I refused private hospital, even though it took me months to be booked, it was worth the wait.

Are you saying that general hospitals are better than private hospitals?
Health / Re: As A Surgeon, What Is The Most Dangerous Thing You Have Found Inside A Patient? by bendazum: 12:04pm On Feb 23, 2020
Olumighty123:


A very unusual mistakes, how on earth do people forget stuffs inside a human during surgery ?

Possibly to make more money during the next operations.
Health / Re: As A Surgeon, What Is The Most Dangerous Thing You Have Found Inside A Patient? by bendazum: 12:03pm On Feb 23, 2020
proclinician:
In one of my shifts as a resident a woman once gave birth through CS and after discharge and she was supposed to be healing, her abdominal cavity was swelling up and painful and the area in the abdomen that was stitched was bleeding and pus was coming out. She was rushed in when her hubby felt something was not right and a CT scan was ordered. There in the abdominal cavity were some unusual foreign bodies which in a normal human viscera shouldn't be there. She was put into the theatre for an operation and immediately she was opened up there in the abdominal cavity were two gauze sponges used to soak up the bleeding but retained after the CS with massive antibody-antigen reaction taking place there. It was horrible but thank God she lived she was lucky enough sepsis did not occur

You are saying your hospital left the 2 guaze sponges after the CS?
Travel / Re: With N20M, Should I Travel To USA Or Stay In Nigeria? by bendazum: 11:58am On Feb 23, 2020
itsme01:


the stability I am talking about is not really about short term pricing and value or ability to get huge dividends, since he is travelling , a stock of a blue chip type with years of being listed on the stock market, plenty of asset and performing properly, would be better in securing his money, rather than a bank that can liquidate at any given time

Whether short or future terms, there's nothing stable about Nigerian stocks.

Forget talk.
Properties / Re: My Hostile Neighbor by bendazum: 11:57am On Feb 23, 2020
Froshloaded:
grin grin
Okay Baby,
So you will stay and be looking abii


Getting police to lock him up is more sensible than committing murder in the name of retaliation.

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Travel / Re: With N20M, Should I Travel To USA Or Stay In Nigeria? by bendazum: 8:19pm On Feb 22, 2020
itsme01:


smiley


Split your money into two, invest half into stocks of a very stable company, NB , MTN, FirstBank, GTB etc and use the rest to relocate to US and start your new hustling, if you can make 20 million hustling in Nigeria, chances are you would make 100 million in US because US is for smart thinkers and not dull people.. incase if things don't work out in US you can always fall back to your 10million naira stock

PS: before listening to people telling you to do business, 90% of all start ups in Nigeria don't survive the 3 years mark, forex changes, bad government policy, fraudulent staffs and all would finish your capital

.

For your information, there's nothing like a stable stocks.

Wait until government wakes up on the wrong side of the bed and decide to close the company or insurgency decides to blow up the company.


I remember vividly how shares worth #150 that year fell down to #34.
Properties / Re: My Hostile Neighbor by bendazum: 7:57pm On Feb 22, 2020
Froshloaded:
Your Neighbor is a Madman, grin grin


Modified
But if I was you oo
The man will be getting drips and stitches in the hospital

You can't be him. That's how one guy almost made me commit murder.

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Properties / Re: My Hostile Neighbor by bendazum: 7:56pm On Feb 22, 2020
Davash222:
Op, you sef dull, walai.
Your fellow man hit you in your wife’s presence and you couldn’t do anything. Shame no gree you to say when next he hit you again, you’re going to lock him up. You’re even waiting for him to hit you again. Imagine
You’re too calm on him hence he’s taking that leverage. You fight fire with fire! You’re a young man, you need to exercise your young blood on that man, that’s the only way you’ll have peace in that compound.


Please, don’t allow your fellow man to mess you up in your wife’s presence.

Just one push can send that man to the after life. He's looking for a scape goat to kill him.

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Politics / Re: Hanan Buhari Denies Ordering DSS To Arrest, Detain Okolie Over SIM by bendazum: 6:55pm On Feb 22, 2020
Charleys:


So you are calling Hanan Buhari a sleeping dog.

Shege banza.!!

Go school, you say "No". See how you are reacting on an idiomatic expression.
Family / Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by bendazum: 6:45pm On Feb 22, 2020
Originalsly:
In his eyes.... you are history. You went digging... how can you say you didn't expect to find dirt?... weren't you digging expecting to find something? Then you transformed to a digger... digging at every opportunity... and overreacting to your findings... no matter how small or innocent. Don't you think you were putting a strain on the relationship?...on the marriage? Some men can't stand drama and you are very dramatic... a drama queen. That's not what he bargained for... so basically... he's out. You seem to be the type who do not consider advice... but do things the way you see fit. Such people learn the hard way. Blame yourself for marrying someone because you were in love with him only. Younspilt the milk.... why be crying? My advice... get a mirror...look into it.

Spilt which milk?

Don't just start.
Its enough that the husband is cheating on her, why blame the husband's behavior on her. You can blame her for not quitting at the onset when she discovered the slime she was marrying.
Education / Re: Animal Newborns, What They Look Like(Photos) by bendazum: 2:03am On Feb 22, 2020
KingRex1:

Whoa looks human

Like you?
Politics / Re: Biography Of Ibrahim Gaidam, Senator Who Introduced 'Repentant Boko Haram Bill' by bendazum: 12:18am On Feb 22, 2020
Afrokan:

We need to serious discuss restructuring now.
The north with its population of impoverished stack illiterates cannot continue to waste resources of the south on its misadventures.
Islamic extremism, high population of illiterates, insecurity are all products of foundations laid by northerners, the south should not keep paying for the sins of the North both with the resources of the south and the blood of young Southern soldiers.
We need to restructure

If Boko Haram members are recruited from Niger and other countries, how do you integrate them into your country?

What if they decide to go back to their old ways?

Is it not a way of increasing the population of the north with its consequences?
Romance / Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by bendazum: 6:21pm On Feb 21, 2020
Freehuman:
Age is just a number. Go guy.

Age is not just a number. Nevertheless I believe shes of age: an adult and biologically viable.
Romance / Re: Checking Her Phone Has Cost Us Our Beautiful Relationship by bendazum: 7:27pm On Feb 20, 2020
Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.



Okay, according to you, she was flirting with men.

What I don't understand though is posting your chats online. What for?

You don't expect me to call her names. If you feel you are done, move on.
Family / Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by bendazum: 4:47am On Feb 20, 2020
Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

Your husband is acting like a child. Some are looking for an issue. He has children already and still throwing tantrums.

If he went to school, he will realise it is his fault for giving you X chromosomes.
Politics / Re: Laetitia Naankang Dagan's Last Moments On Social Media by bendazum: 10:12pm On Feb 19, 2020
Yankee101:
ABBA Kyari mails leaked, director dies


I'm not saying they are related

Just saying. She was killed 2 hrs or so after leaving the office after working late into the night

Not saying you are wrong. Her post "The more you look, the less you see" marks her as a curious person.

Did she see the islamization agenda?
Politics / Re: Laetitia Naankang Dagan's Last Moments On Social Media by bendazum: 10:07pm On Feb 19, 2020
Awol1:
She was busy making money and advancing her career.

Didn't even have time for love.

Little wonder she's single at 47.

I think it's time I deleted Facebook and WhatsApp.

Now banks will codedly take her sweat. So painful.
Family / Re: How Do I Ask My Cousin To Leave My House? by bendazum: 9:00pm On Feb 19, 2020
NevetsIbot:


I don't know about who'll win the fight but I wrestle and take other self defense classes.


We'll see how it goes

He can't fight you if you tell him to leave nah. You don't necessarily have to fight him physically.
Crime / Re: Laetitia Naankang Dagan Is Dead! Assassinated In Abuja by bendazum: 7:56pm On Feb 18, 2020
SLAP44:
This is propaganda from Afenifere to discredit this good government so they will force the good service chiefs to be changed.

It won't work.

How stupid you sound. We are talking of a human being's DEATH and you are talking politics.

How can a person of that calibre not have security?
Did she decide to eat security allowance alone?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by bendazum: 5:52pm On Feb 18, 2020
Olalekandelaz:
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Where is the school located in Ado?

Don't tell me you are considering it.

The money is peanuts. I have been in similar situation. You will just be frustrated. Working but not having anything tangible to show for your efforts.
Romance / Re: How Much Would You Have In Your Account Before Thinking Of Marriage? by bendazum: 4:41pm On Feb 18, 2020
favoryte33:
Imagine stirring at your account balance & nodding your head saying to yourself, now I am ready for marriage.

How much do you think would give you that 'ginger' to propose to your girl? Abeg I no dey talk of "give girl belle & marry".

At least #500 000.
Once I love her and she loves me, we can cut costs. No bridal train, just best man and chief bridesmaid, once church service is over, na to share takeaway food for everyone.

Collect am, dey go your way, or drop gifts if any.

Another way is to hire considerate event planners.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is N30,000 Monthly Salary With Accommodation And Feeding Okay For A Graduate? by bendazum: 4:24pm On Feb 18, 2020
Abadsheddy:
Please, I need your advice. I was called for a job and the company said that they are paying #30000 per month with free accommodation and feeding. please is this job offer OK for graduate. I need your advice please

Its not enough. Even cleaners in sane countries earn more than that.

I can call that charity. You can't have that job if you wish to marry.

Its very pathetic.
Politics / Re: Bayelsa Violence: Police Extend Curfew Until Sunday by bendazum: 5:48am On Feb 18, 2020
Samfloxin:
There is no curfew in Bayelsa. My friend there said normal activities are going on big time. This curfew is only audio curfew.

Better stay safe than sorry especially if that friend invited you out at those hours.

Why is APC so prone to violence?
I can remember PMB once said that the baboon and the gorilla will be soaked in blood if he lost to JEG.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by bendazum: 11:40pm On Feb 17, 2020
Olu3939:
Vacancy for Primary School Teacher (Primary Two)
Location: Ado Ekiti, Ekiti State
Salary: 30000
Accommodation: Available
Qualification: B.ed/B.A/B.sc/HND
Interested? Send CV and cover letter to christfieldschool@yahoo.com

Not much.

Unless its for NCE.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by bendazum: 5:31pm On Feb 17, 2020
abelee:


If you are interested in this position and that of Government/Civic Education, Please come to Triplecross High School tomorrow with a copy of your CV and your application letter. There will be a written test conducted tommorow by 10am

Address: 14, Wempco road, Ogba, Ikeja, Lagos
Time: 10am
Contact: 08144134447, 08026148081

How much?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by bendazum: 5:31am On Feb 17, 2020
Jeweltz:


Most of you school owners or proprietor are just unfortunate set of people. Very wicked. You cart home millions while graduates Workin for u are left to battle with 20k monthly salary. Only God can judge you people

No wonder people inquire how much salary they are expecting before embarking on a long journey and torturous discovery.

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Crime / Re: Man Commits Suicide By Hanging As Girlfriend He Trained In School Dumps Him by bendazum: 5:19am On Feb 17, 2020
puremaker7:
instead of me to use my hard earn money to sponsor my Girlfriend in school, I will rather use the money to buy enough condoms to Bleep a lot of prostitutes

...and catch AIDS finally.

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