Nairaland Forum

So I'm moving to a new town and upon another's recommendation, I stopped by this small store that sells items from africa and the carribean which was surprising to find because the population of both groups is very small here. I was excited to find all the products I usually order online like black castor oil, black soap, and pure shea butter. This all natural routine is excellent for my hair which is mostly natural in the front and back because of my five month stretch from relaxers. Ladies what are your favorite products to control your relaxed, natural, or relaxed&natural( I guess transitioning technically) hair I still need a product to control my edges because gel isn't working anymore !

The power lies with your husband not her. She can't approach him unless he let's her.

The price of gas is super cheap. Its 3.30 where I live.

Child please. Nobdy can even take this seriously.

austinsmat: for std's is mostly spread by women because if men in infected with std's it show within weeks but women incubate it years with littke syptoms and spread it to men at free will

not true at all it can lie dormant in men as well

austinsmat: cash fun there and everything end there i dont see cheating in it if she is keeping the stuff after marriage

very inconsiderate but maybe marriage is not for you or op

austinsmat: but if the man is protecting himself no problem after all body is not firewood

if someone has RESPECT for the one they are with then they won't throw their feelings to the side

Yes! Cheating is cheating. Why would any real man want to lay down with dirty wh..... and bring their diseases to the one he claims to love. People always want an excuse to step out of line smdh. Think about if she wanted to cheat? Would you be happy?

Too old too fat. She can sit her self down.

Look y'all laid down and made that baby so get up and take care it.people are so irresponsible today. Babies DO NOT ask to be made.

Girl call the police asap on that child molester with his nasty self.

koozy: I feel for you. But take time out to find yourself again. It's important u let this nigga go. He doesn't want u. Cut your ties with him and unfortunately his family. Go out and live life. Get to meet people, hard as it may be. U will find someone u can confide in and hopefully start something special with. Don't feel sorry for yourself. U need your GOOD friends to help at this time to help build ur confidence. Go and groove and do thing u enjoy doing and before u know u will be over the arsehole!

As for all that covenant sh1t. BS ma. Say after me: B... S! This is what is holding our society back. Religion and superstition removing us from ourselves.

Just my two cents. Hope u find happiness soon

superstiton yes but religion no. Her faith and religion is what she needs to get past this. That bum will find himself in the karma line soon enough.

That's a weak pus.sy man for you girl. They will say anything to get you in the bed. He is still very immature but as long as you keep having contact with him, he will never stop using you. Cut him off for life and you will be better for it.

How do you feel about boo bear?? my ex insisted on calling me that dumb name.

DailyNews:

Thats y most men use & dump many ladies nowadays...the traditional thing ladies do, the rules...makes men think ladies are things to be bought & discarded wen done with! Change ur mentality & see what the outcome would be...if he is a real man though!

1. Nobody can use you unless you let them 2. Like I said before men should step up and pursue the woman. Too many men want to be the woman smmfh.

the patient is funnier

Bwhahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

Cuz men should do the chasing. Women are the prize. I've seen guys get the big head after a few females chased them. Its not pretty. After a while then it should be mutual.

Martian:

to what?

satan and those who work for him. Look at the world. People are doing anything and everything.

Jenwitemi: How would they follow God when religion is so much in their faces? Or are you saying they should ditch religion in order to follow God?

no because it is the bible that people should organize to worship God. Ditching religion would be a bad move and can leave one weak and vulnerable.

All shades of black are beautiful. Apparently God thinks so too.

Are there laws in nigeria regarding food safety and sanitation The United states department of agriculture is very strict on it here. If you don't have an organization in place then write to local leaders about getting something started cuz that is disgusting.

Emazua1: I sketch varieties of dress styles and designs,have been doing this for a while now and lots of encoragement and praise had been accorded to me by friends who had seen some of this designs.I wish to sell some of them but don't know how to go about this,does any1 have an idea please.

host a fashion show with your work. Then open an online store or regular store and invite magazines and newspapers to do an interview with you. Also start a blog.

Nollywood movies are soap operas to me. I hate US ones and novellas are all in spanish with barely any black ppl. I guess you can get a cheap camera, some actors, and go to work. Put your stuff on youtube.

They say you can't turn a h.o.e. into a housewife.

sucezTP: I fink diaz more 2 virginity dan wat most men take it 4..though, body no b firewood bt, a man who cannot hold his body now, wat is d assurance dat he wld hold it even in marriage if it happens dat d wyf traveld 4 a while...

In my own opinion, i fink datz her principle n if truly u love her, u shld stay wit her n neva fink of loosin her to some1 else, cos i wil tel u dia r pple out dia who cherish virginity..no complicatns 4 virginity if d cervix is wel opened b4 birth odawise she might av to go 2ru CS.

amen sister! I agree one hundred and fifty percent!! If I can't trust you now, then what can I do later when I can't Be Intimate cuz of a new baby or an illness!

It is common belief here among the blacks that many of our black celebrities were killed as blood sacrifices. Examples are aliyah, michael jackson, and whitney houston. Others don't believe it at all.

c.fours:
Which one were you?

I was a first born so I felt like I had way too much responsibility growing up. I talk to the last born in our family and she says she feels she was stepped over and bossed around way too much. The middle children felt ignored.

What's your birth order and how do you feel about it? does it affect how you raise your children/will raise your future children?

first and I feel the same way you do. First born are mini parents.