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Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 5:03pm On Mar 11
Perpelini and Opiosky

You keep asking for personal experience yet about 6 peeps have shared their stories, wetin come remain.

You also asked for religious verses which was produced, so do justice to these submissions na
Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 4:55pm On Mar 11
kandiikane:

It is because they naturally have nothing to do, no assignments nothing. All they do is to wander the earth and start claiming people.

Gosh!

The part I read about being attracted to smell is freaking me out and woulda loved to ask but I'd rather stick with my "ignorance is bliss stance"


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kandiikane:
Me I siyam with my korokoro eyes oo. Nor be dem my friend's cousin's girlfriend's mother's friend kind of thing. grin
Plus, I went to this future teller or baba whatever you want to call it and he said, quoting loosely 'you have this thing in your family. It does not allow you to stay long in a relationship or marriage or with the same person. You will be with a person and you will be happy but all of a sudden, matter dey spoil and reason nor dey to explain why matter spoil.' I started to look in my own personal relationships and I am like blood of jesu! Na lie! E no go happen. I started thinking back to when I was a kid and I remember this dream that has stayed with me. Saw myself at my school gate on a bed cover in blood with a woman or man, cannot remember. Anyway, I have had such dreams since (mostly female) and now I have gone to the point that whenever I am having such dreams, I turn it to a lucid dream so I can have control over the person and I will be like oya, so you wan take my body? Na lie, I must enjoy this too. grin
Got the most messed up dreams though where I see my old cat turning to a le.sbian woman.


Lol @ enjoying the lesbian ones, ouch you just made me laugh & mistakenly snort water up my nostril, choi e don tay wey you don marra, lol
Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 4:16pm On Mar 11
alutacontinua: Do you mean busybody was right?
As in chibabe is timothy's wife shocked shocked shocked

No Ma'am, I refuse to believe they are related!


I refuse to believe a marriage is in crisis amidst the pointless pointscoring bickering taking place on the same thread.


@jesussaves2012

O ku e ku Olorun e
Family / Re: What Do You Do When Your Inlaws Dont Have Your Time? by Busy_body(f): 1:37am On Mar 11
Ewuro5: ^^^ Yesuuuu shocked shocked shocked... *facepalm* duh .. silly me

BB come here, been willing to take that detective course, you've cracked 2 intertwined mysteries in a jiffy shocked grin ... how much did you pay for the starter pack? cheesy cheesy

Ash tag asseenontv cheesy

Ewuro face ya work ooooo

No be any detective thing oh, lol, i am talking from experience. Life is the best teacher. Shebi dem even tell the OP some things, me i was told everyone was dead... I still do aproko go snoop. Dem for show me pepper but me sef let them sabi say "emi o ki nse omo lo ile lo gba esi rara", and that moreover I am now etched in the palm of God's hand cheesy

I also love rubbing their nose in it that it is all thanks to them I found out about Almighty God and Jesus Christ last year, that if not for them, na hellfire and eternal damnation sure pass cos i dey struggle to go to Church sef once a year cheesy





Mynd_44: You ought to be doing thanksgiving.

cool


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Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 1:08am On Mar 11
tbaba1234:





This is a personal case (relation) so i will speak in general terms. She had this thing when she talks to the Jinn at night,often loudly. I experienced this more than a few times, really spooky stuff. She would also faint a lot, more than normal. It really got to her.


This is true of the person i know too, especially the fainting part.

Blood of Jesus.

Mewa nbe labe orun sad
Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 1:06am On Mar 11
tbaba1234:

It could be for something flimsy, They like your smell or something.

Shuo, smell loun loun, that's weird shocked
Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 1:04am On Mar 11
fellis:

What books did you read?


I read a bit on Amazon/kindle. I didn't read indepth, just glossed over a few because all i wanted to know was whether it was superstition. I no get that kain liver embarassed But now i use google which throws up a lot of information.

fellis:
Spirit children in what form? Is it something like ogbanje/abiku?

I am not too conversant with the yoruba terms, but you are close cos some of them are sent to earth for a short term only.
Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 12:44am On Mar 11
fellis:
Jinn can act as spiritual spouses? And here I was thinking that it is not possible. This is fascinating.
Please tell me more about this woman and how the jinn affected her.

They will war with the earth husband, bully him, try to run him down emotionally and financially, and even extend the same treatment to the children of the earth husband. Sometimes they even send spirit children.
Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 12:40am On Mar 11
fellis:
Jinn can act as spiritual spouses? And here I was thinking that it is not possible. This is fascinating.
Please tell me more about this woman and how the jinn affected her.


Only watched two nollywood films in my life cos i thought they were all hogwash, realised about a year ago that what happens there is real and not even 50% of what happens in real life is covered in those films.

So i started reading about white people's position on "black magic". It is real. But they don't dabble into "dark energy"(well openly sha) because they know the end is not good.
Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 12:23am On Mar 11
Ewuro5: Ko ni ra Pyrex fun awon to shue... *brings out dagger * cheesy

@Ypepe start counting sheep or play with Ogas balls..( count then back to back wink)

Sheath your sword biko Ewuro.

He is a Christian and only preaching the gospel. Free him, his conscience would soon trip him up wink


jesusman2014: and when did I mention about how women ruin their marriage in all my posts on nairaland?if I ever made any ill comments about women the curse of the lord should be upon me but if I did not then the curse of the lord should be upon you...bastards,I do not blame you,this is a faceless forum and that is why you have guts to talk to me anyhow you want..ewu gambia...oloriburuku somebody...better go and repair your home instead of trying to console yourself with all those crap you have written,you wey dem still dey help manage your marriage sef come nairaland dey advice person?oshi o da....you can continue ranting like a dog,I do not have time for bitches...once again sit on my middle-finger....
Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 12:18am On Mar 11
jesusman2014: if you read all my post since on this thread then you would now that have never spew trash about women,check all my posts and I was even the one supporting the women and even had dis-agreement with other men concerning the topic,so you are talking to the wrong person
Besides my last comments was just a sarcasm,or can't you see the smileys?or are you blind?it shows a lot about your moral up-bringing and it would be very silly for me to start exchanging words with bastards and un-cultured sluts of a mother like you.have a good day.now I understand why some people were saying they have turned the family section to a joke,just listen to the way you talk to someone on a faceless forum,that speaks about the ill-mannered attitude of some of the women we have on the family section,only few practice what they preach...ODE.
Why you dey take my comments personal?I made the comments in a general way but I knew guilty fools like you would definitely display her stupidity and you have just succeeded in doing that,oniranu...I hate doing this but I will never allow a low life woman insult me for no reason...omo ale jati jati.***spits on her***sit on my middle-finger....if you have insulted everyone on nairaland before and you succeeded then guess what?you are dealing with the wrong person,do not be fooled by my monicker,I will show you how to use your common sense next time...***spits on her once again***


Only been here less an hour.

Besides not everyone carries marriage on top head like crayfish, so shut your gob angry


jesusman2014: if you read all my post since on this thread then you would now that have never spew trash about women,check all my posts and I was even the one supporting the women and even had dis-agreement with other men concerning the topic,so you are talking to the wrong person

Besides my last comments was just a sarcasm,or can't you see the smileys?or are you blind?it shows a lot about your moral up-bringing and it would be very silly for me to start exchanging words with bastards and un-cultured sluts of a mother like you.have a good day.now I understand why some people were saying they have turned the family section to a joke,just listen to the way you talk to someone on a faceless forum,that speaks about the ill-mannered attitude of some of the women we have on the final section,only few practice what they preach...ODE.

Jeez, I have never seen so much venom and bile in a post shocked Yet you claim to be a Christian and try to ram it down our throat every second!

#EndtimeChristian God is watching you in 4d.
Family / Re: Cousin Turn To Heaps Of Money Under Blanket!!!!what Should I Do With The Money. by Busy_body(f): 12:07am On Mar 11
Na wah for family section thread these days

Is this due to Senator Yerima lowering the age of marriage to age 9 tongue


@OP
If you don't know you should run, you need to be desensitized from the overdose of oyinbo action movies you have been overwatching. See qwueshon oh cheesy
Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 12:01am On Mar 11
fellis:

They don't. If you start seeing yourself in different dreams with some spiritual husband or wife it is most likely because you are a forever alone loser in real life that desperately desires the companionship of a partner smiley


Hasty generalization fallacy.

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Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 11:56pm On Mar 10
^^^gosh can't watch that tonight. No sleep be that niyen shocked

Oh so its not something they are born with!

***scratching head***

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Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 11:42pm On Mar 10
^^^And she claims she is not reading and is even coming to post to say so, buahahahaha cheesy

Ewuro5: Ladies please com'on sad
jennykadry: Oh no, not the two( amongst the few )I actually get along with...BB and Beevan go and cuddle your husbands, let peace reign. Come back after you have tried the squeezing technique in bedimatics

Its aiight ladies. I don't fight women, don't have time for their hysterics and theatrics, moreso this "beaver" on a hamster wheel... My blinkers only goes on and my gloves come on if they are bullies cheesy So seriously there is no cause for alarm at all. I promise you two kiss kiss

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Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 11:36pm On Mar 10
beevann:


***Yawns,stares myopically at the incoherent shi*t,resumes munching*****

Good one wuss. Keep the senseless cop-out coming, drowning-rat-clutching-at-straw cool

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Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 11:34pm On Mar 10
ypepe:
Its not about d @op any more rather some silly dudes who think u can eat ur cake and have it. Any issue concerning a man whether d man is acting silly is always justified.
U tell them life isn't so. They should better wake up to reality.
The same group will equally twist mouth if its a woman issue.

But people have started mocking the OP as well... these posts are still there...

ypepe:
@op has been advice well at d beginning.
No need repeting d same thing over and over again.

It is the OP and the owner of Nairaland's prerogative to decide when a thread has ran its course. Besides not everyone guns for the "first to comment" shenanigan...

ypepe:
Some posters point(dudes) were wonderful cos I'm sure they r into d union and know what marriage is all about. Not nl warriors.

I have never been into any male/female clique. So fairplay to you and whatever floats your boat.

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Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 11:34pm On Mar 10
tbaba1234: Do they exist? Yes

Sometimes spiritual creatures (Jinn) do take a liking to certain human and could go as far as possession. Yep, that exists too.

And Exorcism exists too, spooky stuff though.







Hmmm, haven't read to that point yet! I didn't know they possess people like that shocked I actually heard they pursued their soulmates from other realms to earth, hence reason for their clingy jealous behaviour shocked
Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 11:24pm On Mar 10
beevann:


You are talking b*ullshit,go and sleep,too lazy to read still undecided.I can imagine your face twitched and contorted in pains as you type that nonsense,i managed to read a part where you wrote "The mind boggles ", your mind can boggle all it wants, not my concern.



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Why do you feel obligated to read my post? Is it a do or die affair to read my post out of the millions of posts on this forum? Again na by force to read my post?

ANSWERS ON A POSTCARD JOBLESS DOLT cool

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Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 10:56pm On Mar 10
beevann:



Why can't you simply give yours and move on like we did instead of typing that sermon? I couldn't read all the stuff you wrote there, it's too long undecided.

Give what

You ignorantly referenced an angle of discussion i introduced on the thread wrongly So you wanna dictate what parameter i should respond or is your grouse that you are miffed that i responded undecided

Gosh the mind boggles undecided As if dem put knife on your neck to read, abeg swerve commot undecided

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Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 10:45pm On Mar 10
fellis:
No they don't smiley

They are real as the nose on your face. Not kidding.

Been researching on it from white people's perspectives of such.

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Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 10:40pm On Mar 10
beevann: Even if OP's husband is same as this Timothy dude ? why exactly is he tormenting his wife when she has or intend to send her sister away for peace to reign?well,nah them know as their own love dey take sweet them,make I face my hot okro soup, this weather too cold.

ypepe: What biz has that thread with this?
How were they related?
So d wifey is d one to bear d blunt of their indiscretion if at all its 0.0001% true?
More reason to wipe his sorry a*rse!
I said it b4, such men r darling outside but mr seseseko at home.
Yep u can reject ur sis in law sleeping over if u find urself havinf unruly tots towards her and maybe d wife defied and told the sis to sleep over. She has realized her mistake,apologized and yet even God can't be this heartless.
Make d woman kuku dey cook and serve him his favourite meal, afterall na man. If its a woman that this happened to, some would hv suggested he bring woman to their mat bed.
Anyway, what u wish for,can tolerate comes ur way



What y'all fail to realise is that if the OP wanted divorce she would not have any need to come on Nairaland.


We all know the hubby is acting childish like babyface333 said, but what is harping on this like a broken record going to solve? What effect is this having on the OP afterwards?


People that come to post their issues here are looking for how to mend bridges with their respective partners so its best to leave sentiments at the door and not get emotional. It solves nothing. So any advice proferred should come with a sense of reasoning in tow...


Instead of dwelling the OP's husband calling him childish, heck some people have even started abusing the OP on the sly too for being dumb in love, etc, why don't people kuku come out and tell her to divorce him so all this merry-go-round can stop and the thread can close and everybody can go home nau!


Hence reason it is better she explores all possible means of communication to get to the root cause of the matter...hence to start off with (1) I remonstrated with her to stop giving the stories in dribs and drabs (2)I delved into whether it was only that Sister or her family in general he was against...and if the OP comes back to say that was/wasn't the case, further questions such as does he only throw such tantrums for this issue alone? Was he like this before you guys married? etc, could then be fielded to the OP....


Shuo

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Family / Re: What Do You Do When Your Inlaws Dont Have Your Time? by Busy_body(f): 9:52pm On Mar 10
Miz_JaY: I have been married for a year plus now and I haven't seen my husbands parents since the marriage neither have I really talked to them on the phone yet I live in same town as he's father & some of he's relatives. I called he's father sometime ago & tried visiting him but he wasn't in town. he's parents seperated since he was small which made things bad in the family& he ended up not growing up with any of them even hes siblings as they were seperated too which really affected all of their r/l ships as he isnt close to neither d parents nor siblings. He usually blames he's uncles & aunties for d seperation & vowed that none of dem will interfere in he's own life so they wouldnt destroy hes own home too. And most of them have noticed that hes strong headed when it comes to that so they keep their distance too because my husband doesnt take any nonsense from hes relatives. most times he doesn't want me interacting with he's family members.Sometimes I feel like dey don't even exist & I'm sure dey feel same about me because we hardly ever ask after each other. I've always been d quiet type and hence don't really push myself on people. Should I be on my own or try to still make some efforts to visit them? Some have my number but don't call me except I call them especially he's father. D man has never called me once on fone I'm d only one who used to call him once a while before I stopped. I don't even know he's mothers whereabouts now.


Your husband is communicating with you, so pay heed and listen to him. In his own time he will open up to you and tell you what's up, so until then LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE and leave the nollywood-esque background of your husband well alone before you go and open a can of wriggly worm you cannot handle...

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Family / Re: Seperation In Marriage by Busy_body(f): 9:38pm On Mar 10
SAM1979: 4 years in marriage wt a kid while expectn another baby in 2 mths tym. My wife has bluntly refused to set up business and has neva earned a kobo in 4 yrs of marriage. Efforts to implore her to start up small-scale business has earned me insults & abuse. The Mother has alwaz encouraged her evil deeds. i dnt go visitn her parents afta d abuse on my 1st visit . Am into small scale private business to support d family. Lately, am seriously considering divorce & to take custody of my daughter. Is divorce on grounds of idleness, abuse and insult permissible in court. Wht might be required of me as obligation thereafter? This lady caused several problems which led to loss of my banking job and a small protocol contract i wz doin later?


Hmmm, why has this epidemic been overlooked for soooooooooooo long in Nigeria
Family / Re: Spirit Husbands And Spirit Wives by Busy_body(f): 9:34pm On Mar 10
They exist.

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Family / Re: Fascinating Facts You Never Knew About The Human Brain!!! by Busy_body(f): 9:16pm On Mar 10
Awww, wharra heartwarming thread kiss
Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 8:48pm On Mar 10
Ewuro5:

cheesy cheesy cheesy

Abeg I dey work..make I face my work oooooo grin

Ewuro face ya work has a nicer ring to it than Uche grin

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Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 8:33pm On Mar 10
Ewuro5: Detective Busybody grin

Eku ishe oluwa grin

Oti o, it must not be true

It can't be

It shouldn't be true loruko Jesu Kristi anobi Sulai shocked

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Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 8:27pm On Mar 10
http://www.nairaland.com/1654682/cheated-wife

timothy001:
pls pals when i was still having cutship with my wife. I did something silly and that is, i slept with my wife younger sister. Nw we are happily maried with children. The same girl of wich i have that afare with has parked 2 our house and the sister didn' t know any thing that went b4. Bt each day it kept on bordering me cus my wife does nt desarve that treatment. I feal like confessing bt i dont know how she may feal or if it may distroy the love she has 4 me or even the relationship of her and her sister. Bt i' m always ashamed of those time i had with my wife sister and seeing it as been ungreatful 2 my wife cuse she love me greatly.pls advice needed. No insult pls


This dude lives in Malaysia though

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Family / Re: Hubby To Continue The Quarrel After Love Making. by Busy_body(f): 8:19pm On Mar 10
Mrs Awesome: Yeah....the SIS. Seems hubby is so uncomfortable around the SIS....you know. Or the SIS wants the hubby and the wife happens not to be aware of the background game......assumptions.......
Girl settle the underlying stuff Abegoooooooooo.
And And do your SIS or rather relations see your hubby as a money making machine.....or something......assumptions.
Meanwhile , open the legs only when the malice have been settled.


Exactly there is a lotta stuff happening underground she needs to focus on.

I sincerely hope it is not the Sister though shocked

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Family / Re: He Beats Me With Wire,until I Couldn't Sit Anymore-eight-year-old Housemaid. by Busy_body(f): 8:07pm On Mar 10
Feraz: Honestly, it's quite sad that certain times, we use excessive beatings to correct certain 'anomalies' (Not like I could read any from the original post). I mean, what would warrant these kind of beatings in the first place? Like Kanwulia said, tomorrow, she may turn out to be abusive and the cycle continues. Not surprising though because like I said before:

A madam catches a househelp talking outside with the opposite sex at night while doing some chores like fetching water, she starts beating the househelp right in front of the guy. (she doesn't know if the guy is asking for directions to locate someone in the compound).

That's why I would never subscribe to the idea of having a househelp. If you're given a child, why not make it a point of duty to ensure that the child goes to school from his/her parent's house and sponsor everything related to school from there rather than bringing him/her over to your place when you know you won't take care of the child? Will you treat your child/children like this? Humans instead of helping just resort to wicked deeds that will make the devil look like a saint. undecided

This is so true sad sad sad Human being are so wicked.

This girl started being an househelp from the tender age of 5 cry
Family / Re: What "Helps From Hell" Really Means by Busy_body(f): 7:46pm On Mar 10
Jeez not this backward topic again sad

Wasn't slavery abolished eons ago?

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