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Politics / Re: FG Proposed +n35k To Workers Wage…. Minimum Wage Now … by byna: 4:48pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
Politics / FG Proposed +n35k To Workers Wage…. Minimum Wage Now … by byna: 3:26pm On Oct 02, 2023 |
With this new proposal to implement N35,000 across board to all FG workers over the next six months, Does this mean the new minimum wage will now be N30,000 (existing ) + N35,000 (Proposed) = N65,000. Do you think Labour should accept this offer? |
Nairaland / General / 5G Internet Finally In …….. by byna: 1:39pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
5G internet finally in the heart of the city of Warri delta state as seen on my phone this morning. Did anyone else living in warri notice this ?
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Health / Re: This Is The Reason My Marriage Is Crashing by byna: 5:29pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
gasparpisciotta: Ok you mean, seeking counsel? |
Health / Re: This Is The Reason My Marriage Is Crashing by byna: 5:28pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
boom99: Amen sir |
Health / This Is The Reason My Marriage Is Crashing by byna: 3:55pm On Apr 18, 2021 |
Met my wife 10years ago. We have 4 kids now. All these while, my wife had had this toilet infection which she has been treating without results. We have been to the best hospitals and done several tests, swabs and scans. It was diagnosed as UTI. It comes with painful urination, painful sex, lack of libido, complete vaginal dryness, lots of frustration etc on her part. While I have been a faithful partner over these years. I have believed God will intervene in this crisis. I have gone for my own diagnosis and nothing was found but I was asked to use sone form of cream for a few days. Now, the problem now is, My wife now has a complete phobia for sex as it would usually would lead her to pains mentioned earlier. We have tried native herbs as well. Hundreds of thousands have been spent both in modern and traditional herbs without remedy. It disappears for some days and appears days after sex. If not tackled with some vaginal creams could lead to sour and whitish diacharge and lots of pains after a few days. Our sex life has been a war. I have to literally ask, beg and persuade my wife before we can give a trial. Now, she has given up. I dont know how long I can continue to remain faithful. Each passing day has seen me spending more time at work and project just to redirect my energies. My wife really dont have sexual feelings anymore. I am afraid of what could happen if there is no intervention coming speedily. Pls help with useful contributions and please response only from the married. Thank you la la for this platform. |
Crime / Before You Consider Relocating To The US Pls Read by byna: 7:20pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
In less than 12hours into the New year 2020. There has been 11 (eleven) gun shootings across various cities reported as at the time of filing this report. The city of Philadelphia has recorded the highest homicides of 355 in 2019 alone. On the 31st of Dec, 2019, which is barely less than 24hours ago, 93 shootings were reported across the various US cities!!! Gun control has been a major threat so far in the US states. Just last sunday in a church in Texas, a gunman shot and killed a parishioner and another was injured before members of the congregation could pull their guns in defence and killed the shooter. Hundreds and thousands of persons were killed in 2019 alone. https://www.gunviolencearchive.org/last-72-hours?page=4 |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 11:12pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
My bro, those facts are immaterial. It's normal. If this things goes to FP with the true facts my wife would surely know I created this thread. So those facts should be predictable. Cheers Lalakas: 1 Like |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 11:00pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
God bless you sir. All you said is very true of my wife. Imagine I initiate morning devotions. If I don't the. She prays privately. I initiate almost evergthing. She is VERY stubborn. She has told me and I've seen. She is too Strong willed. I take it to God in Prayers. Let His will be done. profmallor: 1 Like |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 10:57pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
My wife has sworn she would never openly apologize severally. I have always been the one initiating but at this point I felt overwhelmed and needed her to apologize. Besides it's harder initiating when u knw the other is the one wrong. generationz: |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 9:09pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Blecco6:If am wrong I settle at that moment. I try to tease her with romance and thats all. I expect same from her. Imagine showing up for sex when am thinking of serious discussion 28 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 9:06pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
extremelygolden: My wife will ignore you if she doesnt want to talk about her past mess. She has her pride. I've always ignored and accepted her sexual apologies. It I just noticed she needs a different tacties 5 Likes |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 9:02pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
izaray: The malice is coded o. Am not sure the kids know sef. They might just notice daddy doesn't come to watch TV at the sitting room but stays to watch in his room. My wife is just stubborn! She wants to be treated as a queen. Don't dare scold her 24 Likes |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 9:00pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
themaestro08: You are correct. We dont communicate much. She prefers to communicate with immediate family more on phone than with me 1 Like |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 8:57pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
omochelsea004: Without ironing issues, how do we learn from our mistakes then. She has has ego and pride. Allowing her settle with sex wont change her. She needs to understand that. We are only keeping faces, not like quarelling pat say. I still go errands for her hoping for her apologies when I return but she go still lock up 20 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 8:55pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
J111333: God bless you bro. Afterall sex is not a big deal after all these years. I prefer make up sex after reconciling not before. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 8:49pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
tee59: It wasn't easy even as she got closer but I was determined to change the narrative. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 8:47pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
oglalasioux: I have beat her once and she enjoyed it. Infact she wanted it. She once told me she wants me acting fierce, it turns her on not being too gentle. But me as a gentle man, d thing tire me o 72 Likes 4 Shares |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 8:45pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
thesicilian: The point is, she offends you and doesn't e en care how you feel. She waits for her hormones to come up and she shows up for sex while am dying for an apology or ironing out. How da hell am I suppose to substitute remorse with sex?? 60 Likes 5 Shares |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 8:43pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Pettyprincess: She would be the last to apologize if at all. I'm not enjoying the malice but at least am eating my served meals. I think she has an over bloated pride. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 8:40pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Ordinarily you can't just get in that sexual mood without having a feeling respite. Sexual chemistry requires alot of synergy. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by byna: 7:35pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys). I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking. I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served. Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first. Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate. So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding) So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out. She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down. I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation? Mature minds pls 226 Likes 22 Shares |
Politics / Re: Goodluck Jonathan Observing Election Rallies In South Africa (Photos) by byna: 10:52am On May 06, 2019 |
You dey mad gan Balet: 1 Like |
Crime / Why Housewives Are Hostile To Female Housemaids by byna: 6:21pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
I noticed Madams are generally hostile to female house maids. Could it be related to instilling fear so they dont mess around wife oga |
Autos / See Why You Shouldn't Remove Your Engine Thermostart by byna: 11:32am On Oct 15, 2018 |
Its a norm for the roadside mechanic to convince you we have a harsh weather here and you MUST remove your thermostat to avoid engine damage I'm here to dispute that falacy. Countries look like Australia is even harsher than Nigeria during their summer periods and beyond. China has almost same temp with major parts of Nigeria during summer as well. The engine was designed to work optimally at a particulate which must be attained before the fuel and oil consumptions can be optimal. Removing the thermostat allows for increased time before this temp can be achieved. Unless the thermo is stocked, then in this case you can replace it and not outright throwing off. You endanger the engine by running without a thermostat. If the thermo is working properly , it actually saves fuel and increases mileage. Reduces wear on the engine sleeves . Above all, the thermostat actually helps to reduce overheating by allowing the engine maintain a particular temp while circulating round the water line system. I hope this helps arm you next time the mechanic insist you remove your thermostat completely. Rather have it checked for consistency and replace if it fails. Cheers 1 Like |
Investment / Re: FG's Savings Bond September Offer Closes 7th September by byna: 8:09am On Sep 05, 2018 |
wandeay: You invest into FGN bond. For instance you want to invest 1m @ 10% for two years. Your 10% per annum equals 100,000 per annum. Divided into 12 months gives N8,333 monthly. You will receive alert of N8,333 for the next 2years and get your 1m + the last N8,333 on the last month. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Any Man Who Says He Loves His Mother More Than His Wife Is Ignorant-nigerian Man by byna: 1:57pm On Aug 23, 2018 |
Lordbooster: Don't be a candidate of He'll by sharing people's Nudes. There are better things to share brother |
Romance / Re: Reason Why The Bumbum Is Always Dark by byna: 7:06pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Black bum is common nah, why make me feel unease Somebody give me that cr7 and ref yelling pic 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Reason Why The Bumbum Is Always Dark by byna: 4:29pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
BoboKush:ur own black too abi? 1 Like |
Romance / Reason Why The Bumbum Is Always Dark by byna: 4:20pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Pls my people my woman always dey yab me say my bum too black though I'm light skinned. Please any doc in d house, why is the bum always black from birth?? 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: For The Married Only.. by byna: 6:50am On Jul 17, 2018 |
Well, the truth be say, if I wanna avoid my wife, I have to keep a straight face so I won't have to admire her at all cos if I look a her twice, omo my johnthomas go disgrace me sharperly. I can maintain with her by been less friendly ,talk less and mingle less. But then, it would appear I'm having misunderstanding wit her but I'm she would not still bother to discuss with me if I'm bothered, she would rather continue with her house duties especially ensuring my meals are always ready on time. |
Romance / Re: For The Married Only.. by byna: 6:46am On Jul 17, 2018 |
chemK: Adapt in what ways pls? Continue asking for sex or slow down to accommodate her? |
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