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Health / Re: Ogun: 'stop Dumping Dead Babies, Faeces In Public Waste Bins" - Commissioner by Correspondence(m): 12:04pm On Mar 06
Dumping dead bodies of babies in dustbins is a heinous act that goes against the sanctity of life and basic human decency. Such actions not only disrespect the dignity of the deceased infants but also highlight a disturbing disregard for their rights and welfare. It is imperative for communities in Ogun State, Nigeria, and beyond to condemn and actively work against this practice, advocating for proper burial arrangements and support for mothers in distress to prevent such tragedies from reoccurring. Every child deserves respect, compassion, and the opportunity for a dignified farewell.

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Politics / Re: Construction Of Coastal Road From Lagos To Eight States by Correspondence(m): 2:12pm On Feb 27
I lost my job. Please assist me with any amount. 0015695250. Guaranty Trust Bank. Christian
Politics / Re: Edo 2024: PDP Declares Asue Ighodalo As Governorship Candidate by Correspondence(m): 5:35pm On Feb 22
I will vote for Obaseki
Crime / Re: Herdsmen Attack Adijah In Ugbokpo, Apa LGA, Benue State, Residents Flee [VIDEO] by Correspondence(m): 11:55am On Feb 16
Are you normal?



benuejosh:
The problem with the Zone C part of Benue State has always come from the neighbouring states of Ebonyi and Enugu which i think is always about land tussle.

The high level of insecurity from the South East can easily tell where the attacks gained entrance from. If the killers infiltrated the land to kill them it must be from the Eastern part of the Country.
Zone C part of Benue has suffered this for way too long now.

The governors of Benue, Ebonyi and Enugu must sit down to end this nonsense.

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Politics / Re: Stop Running Rivers State Without A Budget - APC Tells Fubara by Correspondence(m): 11:37am On Feb 16
He left his biro
Phones / Re: How To Check Your NIN Status & View Unknown Numbers Linked To Your NIN by Correspondence(m): 5:31pm On Feb 07
Good
Politics / Re: EFCC Revives 13 Ex-Governors’ N772 Billion Fraud Cases by Correspondence(m): 7:56am On Jan 14
Nice
Education / Re: Rwandan Varsity Appoints Nigerian, Ogechi Adeola Deputy Vice-Chancellor by Correspondence(m): 8:20am On Jan 13
bennybuhari:
Well done Adeola

Ogechi is her real name and should come first before her marriage name
Make you no start now because ara ga agba ndi ara. Igbo amaka

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Celebrities / Re: BBNaija Chizzy Survives Ghastly Accident (Photos) by Correspondence(m): 7:35am On Jan 09
[quote author=GanagiBitrus post=127847066]Thank God for Life.

Possible Causes:
1. Overspeeding X
2. Bad Road X
3. Incompetent Driver X
4. Poor Maintenance X
...

It's sent from his village ✓
Foreign Affairs / Re: Qassem Suleimani: At Least 20 Killed In Blasts Near Grave Of IRGC Commander. by Correspondence(m): 3:09pm On Jan 03
obedience4:



Latest info BBC
75_dead 174 injured

81 dead, 170 injured.
Aldjazeera news!

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Family / Re: I Want To Cancel The Marriage Plans. Is It Worth It? by Correspondence(m): 3:39pm On Dec 30, 2023
Another Feminis.t



Jewessgratitud3:
You men be demanding peace like you yourselves give women peace or breathing space.

You were wrong for cohabiting with someone you're not married to in the first place. This is how you people bring see finish for yourselves. You two would have been better off observing each other from afar and any girl who easily cohabits with a man is not a responsible girl likewise the man. Imagine she was cohabiting with her ex before and now you. What does that say about her? .

Well.. both of you are birds of a feather so you're not any better. Maybe You think dating a timid and uneducated girl will make any difference or enable you control her? They always happen to turn out worse. Just follow your heart. If you no longer feel at ease with her behavior, then do what your heart tells you.

If you feel you can condone her attitude, then go ahead with the plans but I can assure you that after the marriage you two will graduate to throwing blows and she'll never respect you.

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Family / Re: I Want To Cancel The Marriage Plans. Is It Worth It? by Correspondence(m): 3:36pm On Dec 30, 2023
The redflags are obviously showing

The lady hasn't shown you anything yet. By time you marry her, she will be showing you the way to deaths, one day for one behavior until you reach the point of death.(God forbid)

You haven't married her and she's behaving this way?

You better end the relationship now.

Go to your village. Get a young girl of say 18 to 26 years. That's the age that can still respect you and honor you and your family.






FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

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Education / Re: FG Increases Salaries Of Tertiary Institutions’ Staff By 35% And 23% by Correspondence(m): 1:44pm On Sep 22, 2023
Noted
Travel / Re: Ernest Azudialu-Obiejesi Orders ₦60 Billion Luxury Jet by Correspondence(m): 3:55pm On Sep 17, 2023
Hatre.d and jealous.y are you.r names.





skaramanga:
Ok
But their communities are a big mess with kidnappers, hoodlums and unknown gunmen terrorizing and over running their villages.

These Igbo billionaires are not wise aswear.

Buying 60 Billion Naira jet when you cannot spend a few million to secure your own backyard.

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Family / Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Correspondence(m): 7:18am On Sep 17, 2023
TimT:
Why? Is it not money she is using? Why degrading women?
Some men just carry empty head and call it brain...
Is it a crime let a married woman pay house rent?
Is it not thesame house they both stay?
So if something happens that the man cannot afford the rent, the woman will sit back and wait for what landlord will do, knowing full well that she has the money to pay?
Or if she is willing to pay, masculine pride shouldn't allow me to agree!!!
We so much hold high esteem of ourselves about marriages yet many are living in bondage...
You all are saying women shouldn't pay rent or feed the man, yet you all are saying "a woman who can't bring anything to the table isn't worth been married to"...
Confusion left and right...
No worry, just allow pride Nd ego allow landlord pack Ur bag throw ..



E get why

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Science/Technology / Re: What Is The Name Of This Insect Called by Correspondence(m): 8:45pm On Sep 16, 2023
It is called cockroach
Romance / Re: How Far Is Too Far? Single Ladies Pray In Wedding Gowns by Correspondence(m): 1:45pm On Sep 05, 2023
Some married women toil with their marriages.
They should watch this unmarried women praying to have their own husbands.

I married a nag. She doesn't cook. I do the
cooking myself. I go errands for the family. I go to market to buy food, come back and cook. But she will be the first to go taste the meat.

On December 8, I had a road accident that almost took my life. My wife still didn't cook. I limped to fetch water from within the compound. I limped to cook. It took about four months for me to recover.

Last Christmas, she went home to see her parents, instead of to see my own parents oo. Her parents warned her seriously about my complaints. Then in January, she left our home.

I have been alone since then.

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Travel / Re: I Have Lived in (or Visited) over 30 Countries. Ask Me Almost Anything (+ Pics) by Correspondence(m): 10:26am On Dec 31, 2022
I have BSc and Msc in Geology. Please what tech can I switch to in order to earn more money and be to travel like you ?
Politics / Re: We Have Recovered ₦‎30bn From Suspended AGF - EFCC by Correspondence(m): 3:02pm On Dec 15, 2022
In conjunction with the former VC of Michael Okpara university of Agriculture Umudike, Late Francis Otunta, he diverted my salaries and gave me an illegal suspension without any offense committed by me. I'm still on suspension now. God's judgement shall fall on him

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Politics / Re: Petrol Imports Gulp ₦‎17 Trillion, Refineries Stay Dormant by Correspondence(m): 7:40am On Nov 13, 2022
Ewooo
Romance / Re: Lady Cries Out As She Remains Single 10 Years After Cancelling Her Wedding Becau by Correspondence(m): 12:22pm On Sep 15, 2022
Ike gwuru nwanyi nkea
Programming / Re: Who Wants To Learn Python With Me? 90 Days Challenge by Correspondence(m): 7:01pm On Jul 10, 2022
I am interested. Please add me to the group. Zero eight zero three four nine two zero eight zero five
Technology Market / Re: Print Your Recharge Pin All Network,get Data Sme @240naira,e Top Up @good Disco by Correspondence(m): 4:58pm On Jun 28, 2022
Please do you mean that I can print a list of PIN of say 20 of 100 mtn recharge cards and other networks?
Politics / Re: Who Among These Can You Trust With Your Money? by Correspondence(m): 9:24am On Jun 20, 2022
Atiku

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Politics / Re: FG Cancels ALL Foreign Printing Contracts For Nigerian Passports by Correspondence(m): 4:52pm On Jul 11, 2019
FarahAideed:
To make sure Fulanis inscriptions on the passport remain intact and create scarcity for Southerners ..Nigerians get ready for passport scarcity in the south while it's available for Fulanis to grab in the north .
You find fault in everything because on the left side of your brain, there is nothing right. Then on the right side, there is nothing left

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Politics / Re: I Saw My Statement For The First Time Before Tribunal, Says Atiku’s Witness by Correspondence(m): 5:25pm On Jul 09, 2019
Ok
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men And The Craze To Marry Foreigners by Correspondence(m): 12:12pm On Jul 06, 2019
It's because it takes so much money to marry a Nigerian girl. They all want weddings: traditional wedding, church wedding, court wedding.

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Romance / Re: Should I Get My Fiancée Arrested? by Correspondence(m): 6:48am On Jun 18, 2019
Please take this advise
Deepfeel:

Hmm guy you try sha but next time when u are looking for a wife go for the ones with potentials, the one that will help u build the one that will not only receive but give also above all a sincere and honest one, look within not just the physical beautiful innocent appearance o, am sad that it took u too long to realize this particular girl is not just the one she's fake
Crime / Re: Eniola Aluko Shot Dead In London by Correspondence(m): 6:12am On Jun 17, 2019
[color=#990000][/color] you make write-up yet you do not write good English
Eberejesus111:


I heard that most British schools had one way or the other barred the teaching of Christ Jesus in their schools. Well this is the cause of mayhem, that is happening among their Youths, if they still fail to bring Christ Jesus in the schools, more harmful things, worse than this would begin to happen.

But not to worry, I prayed for such today, and God heard my prayer. They'll begin to introduce Jesus in their schools.
Family / Re: What's The Most Annoying Experience You Had With Your Dad? by Correspondence(m): 6:05am On Jun 14, 2019
Non

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Crime / Re: EFCC To Go After Those Using POS Machines Illegally by Correspondence(m): 5:57am On Jun 14, 2019
How can I get a POS?

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