angelhair: I wish you guys would get off her back. @op, I understand because I have bn in ur shoes. When I was married, my husband started d beating during our honeymoon! I was doing laundry a few months into d marriage and I saw a condom in his pocket. It wasn't for me because I was pregnant then. I hated him. I cursed him and I wanted to get back with my ex.
You guys can never understand what she is going thru to make her think that. My dear op it does get better. Hang in there my love and tell it all to God. He really understands what you are going thru and he will make things well with you. Take care luv!

I think I now understand wat cud b goin on wit her provided her situation is similar somwat 2 urs. Its gud somtyms nt 2 b parochial in thinkin and try 2 understand y pple say or do d thins dy do.

4 dose who r stil waitin 4 d picture of d snake, don't u kno dt dy av made it clear dt u can't c it? He sed dt his bro helped him kill it such dt d snake cease 2 exist n d snake cud no more pose 4 its picture 2 b taken. Nevertheless, dy md a mistake - dy didn't tell us y d pic of d lady wasn't posted 2. Let me guess - oh, she is bereaved of her 'awesome child' n, thus, couldn't bring herself 2 snap a picture. LWKMD!

Also, the statement lyke: 'Its reflex' and a host of others r nt sufficient enough. Simply put, the suture joint in the head is practically fixed n unmovable. However, the lower jaw cud move. Wen a lady is applyin mascara, she tends 2 stretch the muscles of the face so dat the eye lashes cud b conspicuous. D muscles of the lower jaw also move in sympathy with dose of the upper jaw. Futhermore, note dat d muscles r attached 2 d bones by means of d tendons. Ds results in the apparent unconscious opening of d mouth which som refer 2 as a reflex.

I com n bow 4 NLanders wen it coms 2 posting comments. Evrybody go just dey talk anytin wey hin belly move am 2 talk regardles of d fact say their argument may not even b founded by established facts. E.g. 'When d mouth opens, other parts of d body opens by reflex'. 2 b continued later

I concur wt every1 dt the man's act is despicable and totally disgusting, bt is d lady a 'victim'? By 'victim', I mean do u really think she is completely innocent considering her age and som other factors found by reading between the lines of d post (e.g. she said her father was MAKING LUV 2 HER 4 months n pls consider d story of her last visit 2)? In a situation lyk ds, we tend 2 easily tag som1 'd perpetrator' n d other 'victim'. Is not ds a typical way 2 show dt pple stl do things by d book n vey parochial in tot?