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Romance / Re: SHE Started Having Sex Two Weeks After Her Husband's Death. "Right Or Wrong? by Denise216(f): 11:51am On Oct 06, 2015 |
The body wants what it wants, it doesn't do away just because the usual facilitator dies. |
Culture / Re: 10 Reasons Why Homosexual “marriage” Is Harmful And Must Be Opposed by Denise216(f): 11:17am On Jul 21, 2013 |
thoth: I don't require acceptance for my perspectives anymore than the OP should. None of the points, particularly the ones I've chosen focus on, are legitimate premises for opposing same-sex marriage in any given society. Lets take your example of plants/herbs used as contraceptives/abortion inducers; This was not their original purpose in nature but humans found a way to use harness its properties for a desired consequence. That is Applied Science by definition. What you're expanding on is Pure Science. There is a clear distinction between these terms. I don't know if you're expecting some long reply but its unnecessary. |
Culture / Re: 10 Reasons Why Homosexual “marriage” Is Harmful And Must Be Opposed by Denise216(f): 8:01am On Jul 21, 2013 |
thoth: Your issue is more so with my gender than my post. Just keep in mind that you having an issue with my biology is just that, your issue-not mine. Moving on. Applied science has allowed mankind to survive and thrive in conditions unheard of in the last 5 centuries. The natural consequence of pregnancy, a basic human function, has even been averted. There were valid reasons to believe the earth was flat, the sun revolved around the earth, and that certain peoples were meant to serve others by divine or natural law. All of these perspectives were proven wrong. You can expand on man's relationship with nature or "God" to include nuances but the fact remains that Nature, and the non existent God, are no longer viable reasons to intrude on the rights of tax paying citizens in any society. |
Culture / Re: 10 Reasons Why Homosexual “marriage” Is Harmful And Must Be Opposed by Denise216(f): 6:49am On Jul 21, 2013 |
thoth: Starting with a "Do you mean that" is an attempt to misrepresent. Procreation isn't a valid premise to dispute the virtue of same sex marriage. That is my perspective, no more, no less. And yes humanity has conquered nature and there is no contradiction. The human need to understand nature isn't driven by curiosity, it is to conquer it for the use of sustaining the species at best. Everything else your in reply in regards to nature is filler. Sometimes I wonder if expanding on unnecessary/unrelated details should even be considered a qualified rebuttal. Until you can prove that there is a God, and you can't, it really doesn't matter if you believe me or not. If anything it's an arrogant attempt to place priority on your personal perspective on my time. I wouldn't suggest doing that, it's intrusive. |
Culture / Re: ... by Denise216(f): 6:00am On Jul 21, 2013 |
We really need a moment of honesty here. Few black people anywhere are ready to embrace the sheer humanity of Africans in antiquity. Any real depiction of greed, despair, lust, jealousy, deceit and other emotions/desires/actions would be considered offensive despite the fact they were omnipresent and the driving force behind (West) Africa's major civilizations. Most of African history is taught and repeated by Blacks, even on the continent, from a tainted perspective to prove Black ingenuity and subsequent progress to non-Blacks, not a celebration of unique cultural synthesis and adaption among Black People before European and Arab influences. If a Black version of medieval fantasy were conceived and adequately funded it would be rejected; considered sleazy, demonic, and exploitative. So the idea that Blacks "just need their own" or a sense of pride is less than objective-and a convenient excuse. |
Culture / Re: 10 Reasons Why Homosexual “marriage” Is Harmful And Must Be Opposed by Denise216(f): 5:11am On Jul 21, 2013 |
The premises of nature and procreation are weak and inconsistent. Procreation: Consider the global human population, only a small percentage in comparison can even afford to sustain the children they make, creating an added burden on limited resources. Humans have no need to further produce offspring. In fact children these days are no more than a means to secure financial resources for women from government a/o willing males. This is true in developed and undeveloped regions. Nature: Humans have conquered most of nature but we champion it all while we type/txt our responses on cordless electronic devices in air conditioned rooms with artificial light sources. Humans living in areas contrary to their evolved physical characteristics is in of itself against nature. Oh, and there is no God to offend or dictate morality. Sorry kids, Sky Daddy is a myth. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should A Girl Date Or Marry A Guy She Is Richer Than? by Denise216(f): 2:42am On May 27, 2013 |
shizzle11: Actually it never existed and Limerence as a condition is never rare. |
Romance / Re: Should A Girl Date Or Marry A Guy She Is Richer Than? by Denise216(f): 10:34am On May 26, 2013 |
True2myself24: Why not? True love has little to do with money No such thing as "True Love", just sustained Limerence. |
Culture / Re: Black Women Humiliated On National TV by Denise216(f): 10:51pm On May 06, 2013 |
Black men don't care about weaves that much. It's just a decoy subject. |
Romance / Re: Why Don't Black Men Protect Black Women by Denise216(f): 8:42pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
pleep: I think we should all move past all this "protection" "head of household" stuff... its not compatible with modern society I totally agree. |
Romance / Re: Why Don't Black Men Protect Black Women by Denise216(f): 1:12am On Mar 31, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: Oh man this is going to fun! I won't say your question isn't valid, its just not the right question. Black men can't protect themselves from each other and even that gets its own special list of excuses. And if you look closer at the groups you've listed, those men are trying to "protect" those women FROM Black men (culture inclusive). In the United States the protection of women and children was a unisex effort, in other words Black men have never, ever bared the burden of protecting anyone. We have accounts of Black women organizing watches, arming themselves, and even creating protocols for handling threats to their person, families, and property. So sometimes I have to giggle when Black men make it seem like they're withdrawing protection and provision from Black women when they've been in (or accepted) a position to do it in the first place. I think a lot of Black women forget that Black men don't have the same default setting as other groups of men. 1 Like |
Culture / Re: The 40 Something Nigerian Woman Who Is Not Married by Denise216(f): 6:30am On Mar 15, 2013 |
It's usually smarter for a women over 40 to diversify her dating pool; color, ethnic group, Western, etc. A few perks for doing so: No overbearing/intrusive Mother In Law No cultural rut (most people only cite culture when its convenient, trust me) No pretenses, so you can be yourself Being black takes 10 years off the appearance, even more if the lady is fit. She could use her age to her advantage by being cultured, wise, and self aware-something few younger woman can pull off. No need for a cautionary tale spun by passive aggressive men. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 11:21am On Mar 03, 2013 |
kwangi: Wow! ^ Is a better example of "running in circles". I guess the point is to get me to focus on defending my emotional or lack of emotional state instead focusing on the issue. I find this happens a lot with male debaters when they can't support/defend their own premise and the opponent is female. Stay on topic, defend your premise, or concede, either way is better than the stunt you're trying to pull. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 10:15am On Mar 02, 2013 |
kwangi: Na wa o! You took offense to an observation that doesn't impact your faith or ability to practice it. You still consider it an "attack" and for no good reason other than it made you uncomfortable. Deal with it kiddo, they're saying worse about Blacks in Brazil. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 2:28am On Mar 02, 2013 |
kwangi: ^^There's really nothing in my post that's difficult to understand! I'm not running in circles, I'm not just giving you what you want; support for your offense. It's not an attack, its an observation that has no affect on your ability to practice your beliefs. You have this idea of how non-religious/non-spiritual people should conduct themselves. You're also projecting; being offended doesn't grant you victim status and that is something you having a problem accepting. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 1:22am On Mar 01, 2013 |
kwangi: A bit extreme? That's an attack! It's not an attack just because it makes you uncomfortable. Religion is a political economic system, no more no less. I used the word "belief" out of respect for people its more than that. Your problem is that they aren't hiding what they believe and for some reason you feel entitled to an explanation. Go figure. |
Romance / Re: Handsomeness Of Nairaland Men by Denise216(f): 3:30am On Feb 28, 2013 |
Louis007: Check me out! Nice stems kiddo. |
Celebrities / Re: Janet Jackson & Wissam Married Last Year by Denise216(f): 3:18am On Feb 28, 2013 |
SELFWORTH: NL is full of stories of no benefit to anyone. If she was Nigerian you'd be all over this and it still wouldn't benefit you. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 3:14am On Feb 28, 2013 |
kwangi: The answer is no to all your questions. Atheism isn't a religion and you're perception of condescension as an attack is a bit extreme. I think you might have an issue with the lack of humility and unwillingness to hide their lack of belief, even daring Muslims, Christians, and Pagans to violate their right to express themselves freely. I find it quite brave. |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Muslims: How To Make Your Husband Happy by Denise216(f): 3:02am On Feb 28, 2013 |
Mr_Anony: The golden rule predates religion (polytheistic and monotheistic) and so does the concept of crime and punishment. I'm always puzzled by the assumption that religion is responsible for our basic code of ethics in humanity when in fact it's the opposite. If you'e looking for a debate I'd be happy to accommodate you. |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Muslims: How To Make Your Husband Happy by Denise216(f): 1:53am On Feb 20, 2013 |
Glad I'm an Atheist. I guess treating each other as you'd like to be treated is too complex. |
Romance / Re: Why Are Nigerian Guys Not Romantic? by Denise216(f): 6:46am On Feb 03, 2013 |
Mindependent: Honestly, guys abeg tell me? Na so e hard?! (Nigerian) Women aren't demanding it. This is based on your premise that they aren't romantic of course. When women make something a premium that is what men will acquire. Women like wealth/financial stability so men work for it. If (Nigerian) Women establish the standard of romance and demonstrate their desire by only entertaining romantic men then a prevalence will follow. There is also the burden of making sure there is an incentive. Feminine, healthy (skin, hair, nails, teeth, figure) women would be that incentive. It's old school but we're not talking about occupation or education. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: What Do You Love Most About Your Parents? by Denise216(f): 6:14am On Jan 07, 2013 |
They never tried to dictate our goals. They would question our intentions, to make sure we weren't flaking, but never said something was "a bad idea". So I thank my parents for not being dream killers. They were very diligent when it came to us understanding our worth and identity, something that helped us so far. And finally make sure we understood the value of self employment. Don't get me wrong they loved us, kept us safe, all that. But the satisfaction of saying something belongs to you and creating opportunities so that other people can plan their future is so indescribable. Of all the things they did I believe that was the most valuable lesson growing up. |
Culture / Re: Do You Believe In Gender Equality? If Yes/no, Why? by Denise216(f): 1:29pm On Jan 04, 2013 |
الملكي فوق الله: i Use to watch Married With Children all The Time as a Kid I miss those days too. |
Culture / Re: Do You Believe In Gender Equality? If Yes/no, Why? by Denise216(f): 11:52am On Jan 04, 2013 |
Some entertainment (and irony) for the discussion. Watch the whole thing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ien5m-KCXUw |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 4:54am On Dec 28, 2012 |
kwangi: They don't. What kind of proof do you want or expect. In what form? I usually look for a consensus in the form of an organization or platform with an agenda. This would meet the standard of evidence as far as proof. As far as your question; I'm not familiar with the Nigerian Atheist perspective no Pagan belief systems. Do these Pagan beliefs compromise the safety and security of the people, in or outside of it? Does it hinder social progress or influence legislation? Those are usually questions that Atheists ask when assessing a religion /belief system. Nigerian Atheists might see all beliefs systems in that regard. What do you think? |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 4:40am On Dec 28, 2012 |
kwangi: That might be the case. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 12:23pm On Dec 14, 2012 |
kwangi: Like I said before almost everybody understood the quote and it's context. There is nothing to argue there IMO. And again, for the record, you considered Miller's quote an attack, not me. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 12:05pm On Dec 14, 2012 |
kwangi: Like I said before almost everybody understood the quote and it's context. There is nothing to argue there IMO. I also said there is no proof that they don't. Considering their size, compared to Christianity and Islam, it could be a drown-out. The charge that Atheists "attack" Pagans was pretty far fetched. Pagan beliefs don't conflict with secular living and practitioners don't demand their beliefs be the root for social conduct. Most Atheists stand where religion (in practice) attempts to infringe on society (legal systems-this includes sanctioning death/violence/abuse, education, healthcare, politics, and the economy) in secular nations. Some examples of the dialogue/attitude between Atheists and Pagans: http://www.pagandiversity.com/witchcraft-spells/atheists-what-do-you-think-about-wiccans-witches-witchcraft-and-spells http://www.politicususa.com/fundamentalist-kristi-watts-upset-that-atheists-do-not-hate-wiccans.html http://www.city-data.com/forum/atheism-agnosticism/1132236-how-do-atheists-feel-about-wiccans.html |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 3:23am On Dec 13, 2012 |
kwangi: Relax. I think almost everybody understood the quote and it's context. Don't project, you used the word "attack". Pagans aren't exempt from critique just because they don't offer them, there is no evidence to prove they don't either. Christianity and Islam are to religion what Blacks and Whites are to Race. There are plenty of other racial categories just like there are other religions but these are the groups that represent opposites that need to be negotiated in society. |
Nairaland / General / Re: How Would You Describe Your Personality Outside Nairaland? by Denise216(f): 11:36pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
The same. I'm as expressive and provocative in the real world as I am on this forum. |
Religion / Re: Why Do Atheists Take Religion More Seriously Than The Practitioners? by Denise216(f): 11:18pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
kwangi: What did you think taking religion" more serious than the practitioners meant"? Your OP didn't state or imply in context that Miller's perspective was an attack, just that you found it to be true. Miller is pointing out an inconsistency, an observation not an attack. Moving on to your question-thank you for asking-"why they attack people who follow religious doctrines and the doctrines in question." Because religion and people who ascribe to religion aren't above scrutiny. Atheists give themselves the same liberty to condemn religion (and its followers) as religious people give themselves to condemn unbelievers and believers of a different doctrine. There are no victims here. <This point is crucial because once an accuser puts themselves in the role of "victim" they not only remove their accountability, they elevate themselves above the rest of humanity. 2 Likes |
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