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Education / Re: I See Membership Of Alumni Whatsapp Groups As WASTE Of Time: Am I Wrong? by denko(m): 1:23pm On Apr 17
What kind of herbs
Talkisneeded:
I'm always there, but I ever text until I was chosen to be the secretary...

It was tough that year...


I sell herbs Tho
Health / Re: My Su!c!de Note by denko(m): 10:06pm On Mar 31
Leo34rf:
New scammer way of soliciting for funds. Una well done o.
be humane

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Health / Re: My Su!c!de Note by denko(m): 10:05pm On Mar 31
You are still better than many people but you have weak heart. That part you chose wouldn't be the best if you can switch the channel of your thought. Life is full of surprises. Your moment is close but if are dead no more miracle or opportunity. If na debt people owe much debt than you. The only reason you are killing yourself is your friend, your parent and your siblings.
Fedup2024:
People of Nairaland. This maybe my last post here. I had to create this moniker in order to keep my identity. My view about this world especially this country is just that nobody loves you, you are on your own. In the meantime, I'm in a loads of debt currently owing people. I thought of this life not worth living anymore. I've read a lot and that made me freethinker. I don't believe in the concept of heaven and hell. To me, I think su!c!de is an option. What is essence of living a life without no solution. You aim but miss. You plan yet fail. Nothing works in this country and no one, no body is ready to assist you or even lend you a hand despite the fact I help people a lot even to my detriment. I discovered it doesn't worth it. I have nothing to fear again. I've passed my fear.

This life is not worth living anymore for me. I need a release.

My apologies to my parents and siblings for failing them.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Religion Aside. What Are Your Reasons For Supporting Isreal? by denko(m): 9:57pm On Mar 31
What are Your reason of supporting Hamas?
elhakiimed:
Me first:

I study in Europe with classmates from Isreal and Palestine, so its natural to feel conflicted. While I maintain a good relationship with both of them, I am not in doubt about my opinion of the crisis at Gaza.

Personally, I believe it's a genocide that Nato and UN continues to condone.


Also, I feel this period of Russian-Ukraine war helps to highlight the inequality, hypocrisy, and deprivation resulting from the Isreal-Palestine crisis.

For the first time, The West can see the irony of their government's international support.

I mean how do you seek support against genocide in Ukraine while sponsoring one yourself in Gaza?

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Burnley (2 - 2) - On 30th March 2024 by denko(m): 1:54pm On Mar 30
1-2 final score bet it with your house rent and thank me later Rated 18

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Celebrities / Re: This Woman Confirmed She Knew Someone Who Have Seen Bobrisky Poron Oko by denko(m): 3:46pm On Mar 27
what is probably oko
Romance / Re: Uju Anya Gets Engaged To Her Lesbian Partner by denko(m): 9:50am On Mar 25
EVEN ANIMAL HAVE SENSE MORE THAN THESE GAYS AND LESBIANS BECAUSE YOU HARDLY SEE ANIMAL GAY OR LESBIAN

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Family / Re: Why Is My Mother In Law Asking For My Genotype? by denko(m): 6:25pm On Mar 19
Oga stop bothering your small head and give her. anything you are look for you will find peace you will find wahala same thing just dont bother yourself.
gfelo:
Please nairalanders my girl friend had a baby for me 3years ago and I promise to marry her, but due to the nature of my work am not always around, suddenly the mother in law called me and ask me about my genotype that the school the went to enrolled my baby is asking for my genotype.

I can't really understand why the school is asking for my genotype.

Please doctors and teachers help me.

Mod please to front-page
Foreign Affairs / Re: Israeli Troops Raid Gaza's Al Shifa Hospital(photos) by denko(m): 5:17pm On Mar 18
Are you a Terrorist?
CoronaVirusPro:


STFU!

Fvck you!
Romance / Re: What Full Time Business Should A Nigerian Guy Start? by denko(m): 5:42pm On Mar 15
No sure Odd
PerfectStranger:
If you have up-to 1 meter in your aza, use am nack 2 sure odds for 3 times rollover.

Then japa with the proceeds.
Religion / Re: Photo Of A Mosque Beside A Church In Jos by denko(m): 5:11pm On Mar 13
They pay tithe but still richer than your murderous religious followers so what is now the point
NeoWanZaeed:
At least...mosque ain't force paying you tax called tithe
Politics / Re: Yet Another Food Truck Looted By Mobs In Abuja Nigeria by denko(m): 1:51pm On Mar 04
THE LOOTING OF VEHICLE WITH FOOD ONLY HAPPENING IN THE NORTHERNER NIGERIA
Crime / Re: I Drank Sniper On The 25th Of February by denko(m): 3:54am On Mar 04
In every situation you found yourself please dont kill yourself. Your problem are your own imagination stop comparing yourself with people. some start at 20 and die at 40 some even start at 45 and die at 80. please go and hustle you are very young. i started a professional exams that i am supposed to start when i was a teen at age 40.
TrustTheProcess:
You may be wondering what madness drove me to this but it isn't madness but a deep rooted depression that built up for over 15 years.

I'm 31 going on 32. A lot went wrong for me in my life. Some were mistakes of my doing while others were largely financial constraints for my family. I attended a primary school and secondary schools that would be the envy of many parents. I first realised something was wrong when I was sent home from school for inability to pay school fees. I was 16 and in SS3 in a full boarding school. My fees in 2008 was about 600k+ a term. My father rallied and got it paid so I could graduate. Parents tend to shield their children when there are financial problems so I was oblivious of it. I saw that whenever I brought brochures of schools abroad to my father, he'd ignore them. I had anticipated like many of my mates in school to further our education in the US, UK or Canada. It was when i came back to school to get my WAEC results that my dad informed the principal that I'd be applying to Yaba College of Technology. I was devastated but not deterred. I believed I could still achieve a lot there because I was bright and had a super result. I didn't write SAT or IGCSE but I thought I might write either a year after or do A levels.
That year, I wrote Poly JAMB before it was merged with regular university JAMB. I passed my Poly JAMB and was admitted into Yaba College of Technology. This is where my problems started. My now late p
maternal uncle was a student there back then and was told to monitor when the list of admitted students were posted. For some reason, he said my name didn't come out in the first, second, third and supplementary admission lists. After much probing, it was found out that my name was in the first list and the time it was discovered was well into the 1st semester so the admission was forfeited. I tried again the next year for UNILAG but I didn't get admitted for whatever reason UNILAG knows because I passed JAMB and Post JAMB. By this time, we could barely pay our rent and were barely getting by. I grew up a butter kid so I didn't have that hustle spirit. I just felt things would get better but I got a job at a business centre as a typist. Years passed doing one odd job to the other. School wasn't an option for me at this point mabecause we simply couldn't afford it and my siblings were still in secondary school. It was private but affordable. I desperately needed to up my game and I honestly believed it was up to me to uplift my family again.
I got so depressed because I wasn't heading anywhere. I owed more than half my salary before it was paid so saving was never really an option. I was just getting by. By this time, I was working at a petrol station as a fuel attendant. I strived not to cheat people and this made me the most hated amongst my colleagues. We were from vastly different backgrounds and upbringing and it showed. I couldn't hide it even if I tried. If I took a break, someone would sell from my pump to ensure I got shortages. My shortages piled up to about 50k and I cried bitterly. I later got admitted into a maritime school but couldn't complete my studies because of finances. I took up shift jobs and all my dreams and aspirations disappeared at this point cos all I wanted was to survive. I begun smoking cannabis which at the time seemed a great help to me at the time as it helped me accept my life condition. I was introduced to Yahoo but I despised the idea of scamming people. I just wasn't brought up like that. I instead took up selling cannabis as it seemed like an honest hustle even though I was aware of its illegality. This also didn't work for me because I just wasn't cut out for that kind of life.
At 29, with only WASSCE to my name. I wasn't getting any reasonable job offers. I hated my self and my life. In all of this, things didn't get better for my family either. We were a shadow of ourselves. Friends and family who would literally mob us daily were no where to be found. This was worse because both my parents were kind of breadwinners in their respective families. I would usually see my former schoolmates on social media living the dream, my dream. 90% of my mates were abroad and working. Some had married oyinbo and started cute families. The ones that didn't school there went to private unis here in Naija and are doing well. They travel whenever they please. I've seen two of my mates making front page on Nairaland for being outstanding in their respective fields. It made me bitter and want to die.
I've been harbouring this suicidal thought for about 3 years now. Why I hadn't tried was because I knew my family can't afford a funeral and it would literally kill my mom whose health had deteriorated. What triggered me was this past Christmas/New year. We barely had anything to eat. I am currently unemployed and live with my parents in a one bedroom apartment. You can imagine the drama that comes along with that. I always wonder when I see other youth doing well and ask myself if I'm being punished for something. This year is worse because of the inflation. I barely eat even though you can hardly tell by my physique.
Long story short, I found half a bottle of sniper at a public toilet and stole it. I mixed it with a bowl of okra soup and drank it. I didn't die. I guess God still has a plan for me. I've literally been waiting to die but today, I figured I'm not going to die just yet because the effect of sniper is almost instant. I decided to do it because I reached out to one of my mates abroad and he totally bullshited me. I felt I had nothing going on for me anymore. I can go for months and nobody would call my line except the occasional wrong number and immediate family. I never felt so alone in my life. My circle is literally made up of only my family members. Family is great but I still felt terribly empty. I figured people would rather donate to help bury a person rather than help when the person is alive so the burden of my funeral wouldn't weigh on my family. Two days after drinking the sniper I looked at my mother and cried bitterly. She wondered why but I told her not to worry. She said things would get better. I can only imagine the hurt I would have caused her even though I ensured nobody knew how I died because I disposed the Sniper bottle well. I currently don't feel any discomfort. I have passed urine and poo multiple times since I drank it. I guess I'm not dying soon, at least not by killing myself.

I left out quite a lot in this story trying to be as brief as possible. Suicide is never the answer. If you kill yourself life will not stop for you. Thanks for reading.
Politics / Re: Despite His Flaws, Tinubu Got This Right by denko(m): 1:35pm On Feb 29
Anything but another northerner was my choice that being said. This Policy is one of the best policy of a government the implementation is the koko
Politics / Re: Dollar Is Falling, Naira Is Rising, And The People That Update Us Are In Coma by denko(m): 9:31pm On Feb 28
What is the rate now
abc115:
Dollar is falling, Naira is rising, and the people that always update us are in coma.

Nairaland nna weldone
Politics / Re: FG Must Stop Arbitrary, Ever-increasing Customs Duties -peter Obi by denko(m): 4:55pm On Feb 21
I am not sure you can read and understand
yarimo:
Is like peter obi think his opinion is important in national issues oo grin grin grin
Politics / Re: Arewa Begs East To Join Protest Against Rising Cost Of Living by denko(m): 10:38pm On Feb 18
Coup. They cant because we will defeat them. i am not a Battist but i hate north hypocrisy
greenermodels:
The same Arewa that was very quiet during Buhari's disastrous eight years in power? They're joking,I just hope they're not planning a coup.
Politics / If You Know Your Heart Is Not Strong Dont View Nigeria Vs Ivory Coast by denko(m): 8:52am On Feb 09
Please if you have feeble heart stay away from sunday match between Nigeria and Ivory Coast the number of death we recorded in the recent match between Nigeria and South Africa is alarming.
Politics / Buhari Sold Crude Oil In Advance And Pocket The Money Before Leaving Office by denko(m): 9:27am On Feb 08
God will never forgive Buhari and those that brought him to power they will be miserable for allowing Nigeria to suffer this Great Hunger

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Politics / Re: Breaking News!!! Serious Message To All Nigerians!!!! by denko(m): 5:37am On Feb 07
This your story eeh, how did you depart from her after you have impregnated her was there a quarrel or you disappear just like that?
Vawulenciano:
All Nairalanders please help him with advise.


A friend narrated his story to me and I'm hiding his identity while bringing the issue to Nairaland to help me know what to advice him by speaking on it.
This is the story.



I need advice.
Between the lady that was there with you when there was nothing and the one who made you rich, which one is best for marriage and you are only allowed to marry just one.



I'm Ijaw from Bayelsa State.
I loved this girl. She loved me too. She told her father she want to marry me, her father say if she leave his house he will rent out the room he gave her.
She said no problem that she will marry me and she took her properties then pack to my house in another town but neighbouring Community and different LGA.
Her father kept his word.
Rented it to students for the place was University area and student rented it fast.
My father said he doesn't like the lady that I should send her away, me knowing that she lost her house for my sake told my father that I won't and when I saw that my father was bent on sending her away, I said instead of she to leave, I'll pack out with her and I did.


Then I went and build a basher at my own place for I have land and we started living there.
Things became so hard and we left that place and travelled out because nobody wants to support us from our both families.
We travelled to Benin with our last cash and started sleeping at front of a shop at night while we work menial jobs by day.
Hoping that we later go Lagos and rent better house after saving some money and we start life there.



After sometime, we missed each other and couldn't find each other.
This girl was already pregnant for me and we had taken blood oath back in Bayelsa that nothing would ever separate us.
She cut her self with Matchet for my sake and I did same then we joined the fresh bloods together.



Couldnt find her and later gave up because we missed each other.
Later I travelled to Ghana with a friend then I came back Nigeria and got work in Port Harcourt.
Later met another Ijaw lady from Kalabari and she was from Billionaire family and an only daughter.



After sometime together
I asked her to marry me and she said yes.
I had some millions in my account and she had some roles she played before I became millionaire.
Now, my other woman that lost for so long has come with a son and say we must marry for she trace me back home and my people called me for I and them settled and became family again.




The girl did not spoil the pregnancy and she has now brought back a boy.
What can I do, the other lady is saying she won't agree either.


All my ancestors I can remember only had 1 wife each.
My 5 fathers from great great grandfather to my father all had one wife.
I can't handle two.
One wife is in my family DNA.


Please I need help.
How can I settle this?
Family / Re: Advise, My Father Sold His House And Moved To The Village Now He Wants To Leave by denko(m): 3:46pm On Jan 26
Your old man is manipulating you, if this your story is true he is a wicked father who does not care and does not give a Bleep. but i advice you to do what you can and leave what you cannot, because this one na family issues.
AtoningBlood:
I need your input people.

3 years ago, my dad sold our house without informing anyone of us. Meanwhile, we all had things left at home, including my mum's items. He never told us where some of those things are till date.

He sold that house and went to the village, he immediately started having issues with the village people. Fight today, fight tomorrow. Everyone in the village I heard now disrespect him due to how he reveal his secrets to anyone who cares to listen.

My dad wants to leave the village to go rent an apartment in another state. His financial responsibility has been on me alone. My siblings abandoned him.

He's being nursing the idea of leaving the village and never informed me. Last november I spent almost 2 million naira fixing solar power and inverter for him in his house at the village and immediately after that he started saying he wants to leave the village..

I told my dad never to relocate to the village yet, that he should wait till his is older as he is still agile and all his friends are in the state where we lived or around. He also gets contracts once in a while so I don't bear much financial burden. But no, he failed to listen and sold our house and left.

My dad wants me to cough out another 1M to rent a house, he wants it big, 3 bedroom. I told him to look for a 2 bedroom but he said where would visitors stay.

I am not even comfortable seeing him in a rented apartment, what would my cousins say, they would mock us. I have some of them who are very naughty. He is bringing shame in us.

We have two properties and my husband wants him to come and stay in one, I vehemently disagreed because he will be controlling us, some of my extended family members will come visiting him and carry the news to the village, as well as discussing my own family and I don't want that. They contributed to what is happening to him now. Through him, some of them will come to stay and I can not start what I can't continue with. So I told my husband to dead that idea fast.

He wants to leave the village latest by February. How do I convince him to get a 2 bedroom flat? 3 bedroom would mean 3 mattresses, and everything triple. My dad doesn't like anything less. All the expenses will be on me alone. My siblings don't care.

I can't turn deaf ears to his needs. I don't want him in the village and I hate to see him in a rented apartment but that is what it is now.

I need contructive advice especially those of us with retired parents, how do you relate with their needs? I told him to think of a small trade so he won't be idle like he's been since retirement and he is talking about setting up electrical pole business, I laughed. Sebi he wan rek me. Same way he did not manage hid wealth.

Crime / Re: "How I Was Raped By My Husband’s Benefactor" – Bauchi Housewife Narrates by denko(m): 3:52pm On Jan 16
unfortunately is that fight that make some lunatics prick get harder.
EreluRoz:
Useless man.
How is it possible for a man to sustain an erection in that situation? I don't even believe someone can rape me because I won't succumb, I won't let you have your way till you lose that erection, I will bite, fight, spit, pinch and everything.
Family / Re: What Should I Do by denko(m): 1:40pm On Jan 15
Just read what you type again if one bustard does that to your sister you will happy.
Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

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Politics / Re: Never Allow Weak Man Lead A Political Empire by denko(m): 10:00am On Jan 13
This your analogy will not pass the test of time after 2027
Biggie225:
APC will continue to rule Nigeria. I don't see them losing their grip on power any time soon.
Gej as a person is the real reason why the PDP lost the seat of power. If not for Jonathan, PDP would have been in power till today.

PDP did worse than APC, the rigging, looting and abuse of office PDP did the worst.

If PDd had forced Gej out and then produced a powerful candidate to challenge Buhari in 2015, the story would have been different today.

You can't defeat an incumbent government. Impossible in Africa. That's the Fact.
Empires are built on sweat and blood.

This is the biggest lesson I learnt in my life.
I detest weak men, men that are easy to crack.
Power is taken and not given.
Power is meant for the Great and not the weak.

Today American Democrats are fighting to remove Trump from 2024 ballots. Because they knew that he was a great threat to them retaining power beyond 2024. The reason is because he's a courageous man.
Nnamdi Kanu is in detention today because he's a threat.

Russia has Putin, China has Xi Jinping.

Tinubu is a strong, smart and courageous tough man. Leading a team of rugged men.
Politically he's a Genius. He hardly shows resentment of others, he carries everyone along with his political blueprint. Even here in south East, we don't know where and how to attack Tinubu because he's an intelligent man. And that's where Buhari failed as a leader.

And again Nigeria is an Empire that may never work.






Politics / Re: Breaking: Ex- CBN Gov Godwin Emefiele Refunds N4trn To FG Coffers by denko(m): 9:37am On Jan 08
Lies
Politics / Re: Plateau Massacre: Kukah Warns Of Ideological Warfare Against Nigeria by denko(m): 7:15am On Dec 31, 2023
You called Kukah coward, the platform that he uses to speak the truth even a sitting president with all the security dare not. must you condemn without a genuine reason.
Free2Fly:


He's afraid to hit the nail on the head!

The agenda he's afraid to mention is the islamic agenda. Hes's a coward and i hate cowards.
The earlier non-muslims become bold enough to accept and confront this truth, the better for them.
The obnoxious islamic agenda of destruction, displacement and replacement of non-muslims via jihad must not be allow to see the light of the day.

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Politics / Re: Dangote Refinery Receives Third Shipment by denko(m): 11:58am On Dec 29, 2023
1st Shipment hang 2nd shipment hang we are now in 3rd shipment. only input no output.

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