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Education / Re: What Is The Opposite Of The Word 'Opposite'? by DozieInc(m): 11:45am On Feb 03, 2021
The opposite of "Opposite" is Similar or synonym.
Politics / Re: Throwback Photos From The Burial Of Aguiyi Ironsi In 1966 by DozieInc(m): 10:35pm On Dec 26, 2020
Ezeama400:


The bolded is not true.. Gowon abolished regional government and created 12 states.. Your lies and propaganda can never be true despite repeating it million times..

[b]Before Gowon became head of state in August 1966, Nigeria was a federation of

1) 4 semi-autonomous Regions
2) Each Region had resource control
3)Each Region kept 50% of whatever accrued within it, paid the Federal Government 25% and the rest 25% went into a General account that all the Regions including the Federal Government could use for developmental purpose.
4)Because the 4 Regions were semi-autonomous, it made the centre week and prevented any Region from dominating another

Today, we have

1)36 states that have little or no resource control
2) A powerful Federal government that now pays the states
3)Fiscal federalism is dead

How did we get here? It was Gowons promulgation of Decree 14 on the 27th of May 1967 that caused it all. It was this same decree that forced Ojukwu to declare the Eastern Region a seperate country called Biafra 3 days later and this led to the war. It should also be added that decree 14 was a violation of the Aburi agreement that both Gowon and Ojukwu signed in Ghana.


Decree 14, abolished the 4 Regions, replaced them with 12 states, took away resource control, reversed fiscal responsibility and made the federal government all powerful

It was seen for what it was by Ojukwu and the Eastern Region, a calculated attempt by Gowon and his Northern cohorts to dominate everyone.

Suddenly, the North that was one Region, had 6 states while the South that was 3 Regions had to share 6 states between them. This effectively made the North the dominant partner[/b]


Subsequent military administration's led by Northerners subdivided the 12 states Gowon created, and gave the North more states and local governments than the south

Today, the North that was one Region has overwhelming advantage over the South that was 3 Regions

1) The North has 19 states while the south has 17

2)Of the 109 Senators in Nigeria, the North has 59 while the south has 50

3) Of the 360 house of rep members, the North has 191 while the South has 169

4) Of the 774 Local Governments in Nigeria, the North has 419 while the South has 355

This undue advantage given to the North, starting with Gowons decree 14 which changed the structure of Nigeria, is what led to war and created the mess Nigeria is in today

Know your history..

I am done with you.. Bye


Politics / Re: Ahmad Lawan: Ignore Senators' Jumbo Pay, Focus On Our Work by DozieInc(m): 8:44am On Nov 21, 2020
Mr Lawan; to whom much is given. Much is expected.
Pets / Re: Please Rate My Newly Bought Caucasian by DozieInc(m): 11:14pm On Nov 08, 2020
Tylerblaze9:
Ok... So after so much deliberation to choose between a rot and cauc I have decided to go with a Caucasian... Please dog gurus please tell me how percent pure is this my Caucasian, the seller told me its pure breed but ano believe.... She is very playful..
Caucasians are intelligent, protective and family friendly breed. They could be pet or guard dog. Will chose them anyday. You have got got yourself a lovely dog. I have one too, she is all grown up now.
Politics / Re: Military Operation In Oyigbo, Rivers State Leads To Humanitarian Crisis - by DozieInc(m): 9:59pm On Nov 01, 2020
The humanitarian crisis in Oyibo, Rivers State is real. For a week now there is 24hrs curfew, nothing goes in or out. Someone I know lost his child because no way to get his pregnant wife to the hospital for delivery. Their doctor had to come to their home with police escort the next day. On getting to the hospital she delivered still birth, the doctor confirmed that the baby was already dead in the womb for almost 24hrs.
Quite sad.

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Politics / Re: Lekki Shootings: Army Kicks As Judicial Panel Summons Officers, Soldiers by DozieInc(m): 9:24pm On Nov 01, 2020
Why is the Army acting like lunch of Chronic illiterates.
Family / Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by DozieInc(m): 11:05pm On Oct 04, 2020
IamD18:
If only people will leave sex, cheating and money to focus on important things during courting, we won't have people in miserable marriages or high rate of divorce.

Anger management, personalities, addictions, abuse, level of mutual understanding, friendship, goals, genotype, differences, family background and histories are very very underrated in relationships these day.

Sex, money, birthday, hanging out, cruise, sexchat, cooking and gifts are the only things existing in 99.742% of relationships in Nigeria.


Family / Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by DozieInc(m): 6:00pm On Jul 29, 2020
festacman:
Absolute lack of commonsense from the wife. If she and her mother-in-law were about to enter the car together, the wife sits with her husband in the front with mama at the back. But in this case, the mama was already in front seat before stopping on the way to pick the wife, commonsense would have inspired the wife to respectfully go to the backseat and even say no if mama offers to move, . But obviously, the wife lacks wisdom!
Wisdom.
Politics / Re: Kalu, Gbajabiamila In Closed Door Meeting At Kalu's Aso Villa Residence (photos) by DozieInc(m): 4:47pm On Jul 20, 2020
emperor863:


Those you call "afonjas" and "almajiris" will not vote for Igbo. Nigerians would not vote for people that refer to their country as a zoo. Apc would never give its ticket to a group of people who hate the party. Any political party that presents an Igbo is doomed. Nnamdi Kanu has sealed this.

All the same, politics is a game of iinterest and numbers. A power block is only making an attempt to enlist OUK into their fold, nothing more than that.
Lol... What power block?
OUK is a force to recon with. Nothing short of the presidency.

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Crime / Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 8:39am On Jul 02, 2020
rupeelicious:
This is the problem I have with this consent thing they talk about.
How does one obtain this consent?
The atmosphere gets charged between two adults, one touches the other, and they respond and graduate to the next level till they climax.
When again and how is the consent to be got?
Who obtains this consent from the other? Man? Woman? Thought women said we all are equal? Shouldn't they be equally accountable too? What now makes her a victim and not the man?
Sometimes though I think the people who judge these cases take their decisions in favour of women so women out there won't refuse to open their legs in future........ Smh

You have made good points.

One thing I know. Giving someone certain privileges without some level of responsibility on their part will certainly lead to abuse and misuse of such privileges. This is what is playing out here.

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Crime / Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 12:05am On Jul 02, 2020
abbey621:



Out of the over 100 cases that I mentioned, 38 of them involved prior social relationships which means they were dating or very close. The concept of consent is fluid which means a lady might give a guy the go ahead one minute but as soon as she says STOP, you MUST STOP! Whether you've been knacking her for years or married does not matter, even if she posts photos of the two of you doing the knacking on social media DOES NOT MATTER! What matters is that she can prove she told you to STOP. In this particular case the guy already CRUCIFIED himself by admitting he was also drunk. So even if she was shouting and kicking saying STOP, he wouldn't understand hence the motive and ability to rape has been technically established.

Let's also not forget, the woman doesn't even need a victory in court, the mere fact that such allegations warrants a court case could have the doctor unable to practice again. He is already losing in the court of public opinion and based on his recent tweets, he is at least guilty of breaking his oath of "DO NO HARM" grin grin grin
Let's say they were both drunk and the man was the one telling the lady to stop but she continued anyway and sex happened.
In this case who is guilty?
Crime / Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 10:41pm On Jul 01, 2020
ThinkFreely:
So if rape can happen and rape can also be falsely alleged, as woman how do you suggest the issue of consent be addressed into order to avoid rape and also serve as evidence for false allegations?

I want you to come up with a valid agreed “consent” that can be used as a standard against a rapist and a false rape allegation because I noticed the “consent” thing is very unclear and ladies want to reserve the right to determine what should be a “consent” and what should not.
Crime / Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 4:03pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
one spotted lol.I don't have any experience with any,just stop defending rapist
Sometimes it seems people are paid by Nairaland to be controversial or outright outlandish just to generate more comment.

I rest my case.

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Crime / Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 3:46pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
Thank God it's not naija,the randy doctor by now knows hes in a deep trouble,that response alone is enough to nail him.Only women can understand the manipulation that happened in all of this.Read j111333's statement
You already judged the man guilty?
And lady is innocent?
Your experience with randy doctors though

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Crime / Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 3:03pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
what is insensitive and biased about the statement,its just the bitter truth.Go up and read what J11113 typed above and make sure you adhere
Should the Doctor be assumed guilty until proven innocent? Or anyone that doesn't buy into the lady's story be labeled a rape apologist?

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Crime / Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by DozieInc(m): 2:49pm On Jul 01, 2020
Rozz:
From comments here, most of these men are rapist,they have one time or the other rape innocent girls because they are ignorant of what consent really entails.Most of you should be ready ooo if any of those ladies you rape decided to speak out,dont come and be telling us we were both drunk.
The most insensitive and biased statements I have read so far.

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Crime / Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by DozieInc(m): 10:37am On Jun 30, 2020
Ishilove:
There is nothing in the text message that indicates the second lady was raped. Since when did 'necking' become rape? Fine, you didn't want that kind of attention and you shouted and he stopped. Since when did that become rape? If us ladies should cry rape at all the men who have tried to sleep with us then more than half of the men walking around will be charged to court.
A randy man making passes at you doesn't mean he is a rapist.

I'm also not sure what her grouse is precisely: emotional abuse or rape??
Interesting piece.
Politics / Re: Charles Amaechi: Governor Wike Commiserates With Rotimi Amaechi by DozieInc(m): 9:08pm On Jun 13, 2020
Family matters

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Sports / Re: Marca Claims Messi Could Be Facing A Losing Battle Against Ronaldo by DozieInc(m): 10:33pm On May 26, 2020
Though I love Ronaldo. But I appreciate the competition between Messi and CR7.
They have written their names in gold.
I respect them both. They have nothing else to prove.
Romance / Re: My Encounter With A Highly Intelligent Girl. by DozieInc(m): 8:30am On May 20, 2020
jelel6:
Reading your story, I'm only impressed about two things.

1. She came on time to the venue.
2. She offered to pay part of the bill even though you were the one who invited her on the date.

Why that is impressive is that it means she's got values and morals about what is right and wrong. And she expresses such values through her actions.

Hopefully, she keeps upholding such values even when people don't reciprocate such gestures to her. Because you Op have no personal values you live by. You only remember to respect yourself when you're forced to.

So true
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by DozieInc(m): 10:35am On May 19, 2020
Preferito:

Wow! This is so disheartening. Love has really waxed cold. But I think the type of foundation given to the youths of nowadays is what's causing this. The Bible stated that the woman is an help meet to the man. This means that when the man is incapacitated she should be able to augment him. She should not compound his troubles. I see no reason why a woman will be troubling a man because he is trying unsuccessfully. Had it been that he is not trying at all then she could have charged him up. Before exhibiting any nasty behavior towards your husband you need to remind yourself the reason why you married him at the first place. To be honest men are now an endangered species and all these things gives me cold feet towards marriage. Why can't the women of these days be like our mothers? I started hawking since I was in primary 2 all the way till SS3 along with my older siblings because my dad was trying unsuccessfully. But there was never a time I did see my mother insult him. Neither was she in any way ever promiscuous. We were in it together and we pulled through. Why can't the women of these days have the will to build with their husbands? This reminds me of the popular quote that says it is only women and children that are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved base on what he can provide. May God order our steps in the right direction.
Amen...
Family / Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by DozieInc(m): 8:37pm On May 18, 2020
Ybaby:


Those men are myopic. That is like a woman disrespecting a man because she bore the child.

Each party brings a certain resource(s) to the table and they are equal but different.

It is only an silly man that will disrespect his wife because he pays Bill's.

In saner climes the wealth is shared into half when dissolving the marriage - you know why? Becos if the man had to baby sit and nurture he will not have so much wealth and much more.

What a woman brings to the table is intangible eg peace, love, dinner time, family together time, spiritual time and when you force her to concentrate on the tangible guess what she can no longer bring the intangible.... so peace is the first to fly out then dinner time follows, picnic and family togetherness is gone.

She hates the man for it.

A woman must have her own money, own her own business or job but if her boss slaps her butt - a catered for woman will slap him back right away but if she is the bill player she takes it and becomes his girlfriend sef then the man comes on NL and says he is being cheated on.

We discuss the effect but the root is because she needs to make ends meet. A married woman should not be desperate to make ends meet. Put her in that situation and .. we have threads where seemingly kind wife turns to Dracula.

Leave your wives money for her. She does not have the capacity to feed a grown man, cloth him and shelter and it does not matter how much money she has.... she does not have the emotional capacity to do this and still see the man as her crown... he becomes her bathroom slippers and NO MAN except shameless men like @emmaodet can take the disrespectful eyeing of a woman who is feeding them. If you are feeding your wife and she eyes you.... you can look away and spank her during runtime but if she is paying your Bill's. It goes right into the soul.

This is my take.


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Politics / Re: Welcome To Fire, Prof Gambari - Simon Kolawole by DozieInc(m): 5:00pm On May 18, 2020
Babatunde40:
If you read all through that post, send me your CV. You need a job
I read through the entire post.
Celebrities / Re: E-Money Leaves Police Custody After Six-Hour Interrogation by DozieInc(m): 10:12am On May 13, 2020
kutchs:
Police wants to interrogate him for his flamboyant life style? When did it become an offence to live flamboyantly if you've the means to sustain it? Why haven't they also probed the abject poverty of millions on the streets of Nigeria?
Romance / Re: Have You Dated A Big Girl Before? Here Is My Experience With Them by DozieInc(m): 5:01pm On May 11, 2020
safarigirl:


Thanks for this

The reason why many girls hold off on being generous with guys, is that guys instantly assume that because she is making her own money and not asking them for anything, then, they don't need anything.

Every girl wants to be spoiled and taken care of by their man, irrespective of how much she earns, but women who make their own money are rarely understood like this. I know someone that has been 'dating' some guy for months now, and because she makes her own money, only thing this oga can do is scold her for spending money on necessities. Her phone recently spoilt under lockdown and she had to get another one, no be say money dey, cuz her work has been heavily affected by this pandemic, only thing bros could say is that she should stop wasting her money. He doesn't give her a dime, only monitors how she spends her own money.

Being a big girl doesn't mean you want to go it alone all the time, but a lot of Nigerian men don't know that. They just count their blessings because nobody is asking them for money for airtime and hair, in the long run, na the big girl go lose, cuz she doesn't ask for stuff and the man doesn't have sense to contribute without being asked. Same problem guys have.
Interesting
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DozieInc(m): 5:52pm On May 09, 2020
One4me:


Homehow, Women like to paint a very 'one-sided picture' of marriage, that justify their attitude to break up the marriage, in the Western world!

How many Women in Africa will ask for divorce, because their husband did not cook food ready for them, whenthey just got back from work and he has been at home all day? Almost non (rightly or wrongly, is another debate)!
What this confirms is that the laws in the Western world encourages women to break up the home willy-nilly.

Again, hardly will you see a woman who will tie the knot in marriage, with a man who is jobless throughot their courtship (except for some of those "Rich Mamas" who just need a tomboy for exercises grin
What this shows is that almost all men are working before marriage, are hard working but something may happen along the way that makes them lose their job and they are still trying to get another. They are not "lazy men".

Again, in most cases, when a wife goes to work, it is to increase the income of the family though mostly it is to make her financially independent.
When a man works it is simply to provide for his family. Most women dont put their income from their owrk, 100% at the disposal of their family and husband, like men do when their wife is not working!
This is what causes conflict in most homes. Your (husband) Money is "our Money" but My (wife) money is "my Money".

Most Men who are out fo job, willuse the free time to take care of the Children, take them to and from School, cook for them,, exercise them and have dinner ready for the wife, when she comes back from work. That is the standard practice from most men, except where there is already a conflict on ground and the man deliberately decides not to help out (this is an aberration and he is doing it intentionally to fight back on a disagreement that is brewing but it is certainly not the norm).

Men generally are very helpful of their wives because Men are protective and see it as part of their duty in the family.
Women are not like that, they feel they are entitled to whatever the man does for them and usually dont show appreciation for it, afterall, its his duty!
As for the Chinese and Indian, l think trying to say they are pretending, is to try to undermine and rubbish a good trait of these people.
How long can anyone pretend in a marriage? Why can Chinese and Indian Women pretend (if that is the method to save their marriage) and Nigerian/Black Women cant also pretend, just to keep their home intact?
Are Black/Nigerian women better than these Chinese and Indian Women who on the average, earn three times more than the Nigerian/Black women (who are mostly Nurses and Care workers, compared to Indiand and Chinese women who are mostly into I.T and other top earning jobs)?

Thing is, pretense or not, these indian and Chinese women know the value of staying in marriage, they value their marriage more than the Child Support, lone Parent allowance and Alimony that drives the Nigerian/black woman, but most importantly, they know the long term eefect of breaking up their marriage, on their children and offsprings!
Go to any jail and compare the percentage of black people in jail, with that of Chinese and Indians and you will see that the Chinese and Indian women got more sense than just pretending for the sake of it!
They dont even have to pretend because in the Western world, they have equal access to the Courts that the Nigerian/Black women use, IF THEY WANT TO USE IT.


The end they say, justify the means, that is why the "black generation" will continue to be a servant to the "white generation", their Mothers are at the root of it. undecided
Sensible write up
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DozieInc(m): 4:15pm On May 09, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:

Is Christ a slave to God? Are Christians slaves to Christ? I'm sure you will say No! Likewise the relationship between a man and his wife.

Submissiveness is not slavery. In every human relationship there is always hierarchy with one person sitting at the top in authority. All are equal humans but there is first among equals.

Your Line manager is an employee like you but he is your boss by his office and you must submit to his authority in official matters.

Your class captain in school was your classmate but his position as class captain placed him at higher authority over you and you must submit to him on class related matters.

The husband is of higher authority to the wife and she must submit to him in family matters.

It is called first among equals!

Some of you don't even understand slavery! Slavery is what is obtained in the West whose laws are skewed to takeaway the right of men and place them at disadvantage position to women. The laws that oppressed men and place them at the mercies of women in their homes.
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DozieInc(m): 2:02am On May 09, 2020
Eniolakiite:
My view is many Africans don’t have a good cultural identity.

We move to Germany, we behave like them. We move to UK, we behave like them immediately. We move to US, France...and so on and we keep behaving like them. It’s unfortunate.
I see Indian men and women who immigrated here who still act their values and culture irrespective of how much dollars they earn or where they work.

But Africans, immediately they cross that Atlantic ocean like this, we change everything and no originality again. It’s unfortunate.

Stop changing your real self because of change of location.
lovely

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DozieInc(m): 1:16am On May 08, 2020
humilitypays:
The op is writing jargons!! Complete nonsense!!



He should change the topic to:

My Bad Experience Dating Nigerian Women Living in America!!!


Most Nigerian guys living abroad are their own problem, they are the reason Nigerian ladies show them pepper once they land abroad.


These guys will never tell these ladies the truth of what they do and how much they earn.


They will be saving money for months or years and maybe after some years they gather the cash which is hard currency, change it when they land Nigeria and it becomes huge money in Naira and they start to spend it anyhow forming rich guys when they are just nobody in the US but because of exchange rate difference and good environment they stay to snap pictures and post online to deceive these Naija based ladies, these ladies assume them to be rich guys working with US President lol.


On arriving the US after they use money they don't even have much to entice and lure these ladies into marriage, these ladies discover that these guys are like the downtrodden people, the lowest of lowest in the US and you know women, they feel betrayed and start to harbor anger against these guys that brought them to the US and these guys will never tell people the truth of what happened, they will start telling people that the Nigerian girl they married and brought from Nigeria no longer respect them, how can she respect you when u lied to her from the beginning and used fake life and lies to lure her into marriage
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DozieInc(m): 1:06am On May 08, 2020
humilitypays:
Op, in as much as you made some valid points, I am sorry to say you are assuming a lot of things based on your personal experience and also making up things by exaggeration.


America is not as bad as you paint it for guys when it comes to dating women or getting married to American based Nigerian women or exported ones.

8 of my childhood friends who stay in my own house whenever they return back to Nigeria before traveling to their villages or destination in Nigeria are all living happily in the US with their wives whom they married from Nigeria; mostly their old girlfriends and some ladies they married after they relocated and none have any issue. In fact their wives still respect them and accord them the respect they deserve.

One is a nurse, his wife still serve him food even when they return too and she too is working as an insurance broker.


Another is a force guy and married to a nurse and she respect him just like a Nigerian wife in Nigeria respect her husband.

Then if I come to my family side, all the ones married and living in the US for years with their wives have no issue.


This thing is about the lady you married.


Even in Nigeria some ladies disrespect their husbands, we read hundreds of such stories here on Nairaland....so its not just about America that the ladies you are making reference with changed, they are bad ladies with bad upbringing and didn't cherish the men they married that much, maybe they married them for some hidden selfish reasons best known to the ladies alone.


America or UK or Canada does not change Nigerian ladies, bad Nigerian ladies who live pretentious life in Nigeria due to poverty, etc make it seem so when they leave Nigeria.


One of my friends I am talking about, the wife he married from Nigeria and took to the US don't wear trouser till date because she was a staunch Deeper Life girl born and raised by a strict parents and she is still a dedicated born again Christian over there no change.


The last time they came back, I was just smiling because of her, if you see her, a practicing medical doctor in the US, she looks like mgbeke that has no kobo but you need to see her achievements and investments and still she respects her hubby even in the US and they are living a wonderful life.



Please stop corrupting already corrupted Nigerian ladies and making them feel they can treat guys anyhow abroad, this your thread is a negative influence, it is nonsense.


And for guys taking care of their home, doing dishes, cooking etc, of course modern Nigerian guys in Nigeria do that.


I do my laundry, I cook my meals, sometimes I wash my cars myself when free and have the strength, I clean my house....only foolish guys today will marry and over labor their wife while watching football and allow your wife to overwork herself in the name of forming big boy.


My elder brother that works with a top IOC babysit his own kids....the last time his wife gave birth he is the one that babysit the baby, changes his diapers, wear him his rompers and more. He also helps his wife in several other ways like doing laundry all thanks to washing machines today. So stop painting Nigerian men in Nigeria as lazy men or archaic or as men that maltreat their wives its a lie because many men in Nigeria treat their wives like queens to the envy of their friends and relatives, it depends on the man you married and also on the lady you married. Not when you marry mami iwota Lady pretending to be human and she starts to misbehave you blame it on America or exposure to western life.


Yes some Nigerian ladies change on tasting western life and culture but it still boils down to the lady, marry a virtuous woman and you won't worry even if you take her to Queens palace.


All you wrote is your own individual experience and circle of friends don't generalise it okay angry

Another valid point
Romance / Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DozieInc(m): 12:46am On May 08, 2020
emmaodet:


Bro i understand you clearly and let us look at it this way -
If we say the african culture or setting is backward simply because a man has the ability to chase out the woman if she commits then same can be said about the western culture which is the opposite of african culture that it is a backward society that encourages and empower women to chase out men when they commit or Even when they didn't commit.
Atleast, you will agree with me that a woman can just pick up a phone and call the police, inform them that the hubby wants to kill her or molesting her and they will kick his ass out.
Please tell me, is there any difference between a man that can call his family to kick his wife out in nigeria and a wife that can call the police to kick her hubby out abroad? Am just flipping the scenario, same story but different players.
So if you agree nigerian culture is backward because the law is tilted towards men then you need to agree that the western culture is Backward and Archaic for tilting towards women, children and animals before men.
We shouldn't let the hate we have for nigeria becloud us.
Best comment I have read on this thread so far.

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Family / Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by DozieInc(m): 2:42pm On May 07, 2020
Millenniumlady:
The man just played himself he'll leave to regret the curse of his actions.......how dare you take side With your mother when i'm your wife which automatically makes me your new mum sad......Ladies never you marry a guy that's so close to his mum if you want a successful marriage.
Being his wife doesn't in any way makes you his mother. You have a significant role so does his mum.
Hope you are not one of those that don't wish to meet their mother-in law?

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