What is your business who he chooses to marry?

On top assessments wey una dey do for the children instead of showing them how to do it

I guess it depends on why you got separated or divorced in the first place.

If there was domestic violence, I don’t think there’ll be anything to miss if the person is reasonable.

[b][/b][b]

Dufil:

If you want a different feeling, try a different thing. But be warned about guys or married men, who may use this against you in future. Discreetly have fun and avoid stories about your husband. The way to a woman's heart is her ears. Shut down your ears about things that make you crave for him. Open your ears to something new and you will get over it in the shortest time. I'm based in Ibadan.

You’re based in Ibadan, as joy giver wey you be nah?

Chiquitq:
I've been there. Not divorced but separated. It's been over 6yrs. It was easy despite that the relationship was extremely toxic. I mourned for the wasted time and abuse tolerated. I was bitter about financial and material things lost in the course of the union. I was distraught by the embarrassments and insults metted out to my family and friends. I relocated to a new city and started totally afresh with my children. Got a job and started a business.
The man that I was married to was the evil of the earth and a fraudster and womanizer. To top it all, he was grossly manipulative. Being extremely manipulative made it hard for me to leave early or even set boundaries thoroughly.

When you say this your husband left suddenly, I believe you totally. He might be a narcissistic. sociopath. That's what he did to all the women he dated during our marriage. Many did not know he was married. He would promise them heaven, use them and disappear suddenly from their lives. Read more about narcissists.

Don't be in a hurry to remarry and if you date again, don't be in a hurry to procreate. I chose celibacy as a means to be totally free and live my best life. I have concluded that all relationships are challenging judging by other people's experiences and mine. On few occasions, one may be lucky but I'm too lazy to and lack motivation to try again. That works for me but it might not work for you.
Find a hobby and most importantly, improve on your finances and network. You would be fine in the end. Many nights, you would have flashbacks of events and be bitter but time would do justice. Try to have as little contact with him as possible. If he wants to speak to his son, doesn't have to be through your phone. Don't allow him to Hoover his way back into your life because he would just hurt you a second time. Stop listening to gist about him. It would help you to move on.

Once relationship or marriage no work for una, the word narcissist go full everywhere.

I’m not saying that your partner wasn’t wrong ooo but why is that?

If you said nobody died in EndSARS, then who were you planning to bury?

#Hypocrites

verybadmouth:

Person wey no get money to chop wey die. Dem go just dig hole troway am. No ceremony oooo

No be lie sha but people sabi comot money bury who hunger killed

Omo, business go good for funeral undertakers in this administration oooo.

The kain hunger wey dey now go push business for these guys.

FreeStuffsNG:
Not all Igbo hate the Yoruba and Yorubaland. I am sure of this fact 101%! My only issue with those minority of Igbo is that they don't speak up because they are scared. It is their silence that gave room to those ignorant of their positive vibes to dominate the narrative. I know many of my Igbo friends, especially the childhood friends, who will rather converse with me in Yoruba language than in English language. In fact, my Igbo friends overseas do it even more so that foreigners around them don't hear our conversations.

These minority of Igbo with excellent relationships and experience with their Yoruba need to speak up more and showcase how they have been blessed by their love for Yorubaland so the hate-filled Igbo can realise how they are hurting themselves and the Igbo tribe's reputation and relationship with the Yoruba.

Those Igbo who love the Yoruba and Yorubaland will always live in peace in Yorubaland, respect the Yoruba culture of respect for elders and leaders, pray for peace and prosperity of their hosts and Yorubaland will in turn bless them. They are the ones who are already Yoruba even by adoption. They will not go into politics of lies, hate and bigotry against the dominant political interests of the Yoruba not because they don't have a right to do so but because they cherish the Yoruba and want to make peace. They are not cowards but exposed, emotionally intelligent and wise people.

Meanwhike, this is the best time to invest in Lagos and the neighbouring SW states. Invest in Lagos today.
Check my signature for free stuffs!

Mynd44
Rules 2,3 and 8

My first question, are you one of those that taught PO a lesson?

Even if you get work, who eat no suppose wash him plate?

They are teaching PO a lesson.

Una never even start dey see the shege

They never see anything.

See people that want to teach PO a lesson

Solumtoya:


They need NIN

Thank you

Good morning people,

Please what’s the procedure for getting a Nigerian passport for a child born in the U.K.?
Do they need the mandatory NIN like adults or can theirs be done without it as minors?
Thanks

Diligent1:
If I have the opportunity of having this amount, I will first buy a land and build a room and parlor self-contained then the remaining amount will be invested into my passion business.

You'll buy land and build a one room apartment with 4 million Naira?

You don't know what's going on!

Gemma11:


Not every black Nigerian person 'came' to the UK. Some of us are born and raised in this land. My parents were paying Uk taxes long before I was born here in London. I am now also paying my own share....na you get bad belle..lol

Anyway the reason why I contributed to this thread was just to help genuine students and Nigerian immigrants answer questions about life in the UK not those who want to play ojoro to fleece the system.

How did your parents arrive here?

In your mind, you're the privileged few but forgot that not too long ago, your parents did the same.

Tomorrow, the offspring of today's students won't allow others rest.
Well, if you like be born in No. 10 Downing Street, when shit hits the fan, you're a black man and would receive the same discrimination with your passport.
Rest my dear

Josh121:


Oh can you tell us your story on how you got here and start paying tax, let me guess you also came as a student . Bad belle

Ignore that fellow.

I don't know why some Nigerians are pained that other Nigerians are labouring to establish themselves.
As long as you're not into crime, I'm proud of all Nigerians using all legal means to secure a better future.

Some of these guys shouting have been here for long, agreed. However, if you check their history, they also came as students or their parents also came in similar fashion. Now, they are the moral guardians of who should come or not.

One silly one the other day was pained that going to the UK isn't a thing for the elites as it used to seem some years back. Now, any one can plan and land here.
You can imagine how some humans reason.

babajeje123:
Please help me, how can I get earlier dates for my driving pratical test? The dates available are in February 2023.

I downloaded and paid for testi app but I manually got a nearer date for myself before that app.

I'll say just keep checking their site for cancellations.

No go hustle, sit down there and be blaming the poor lady for your misfortunes.

I guess the man was running an unregistered mortuary.

Nigeria police wan knack the matter akpako so they can extort the man well.

Simply investigate the man, charge him if found suspicious or channel him to do the right thing and get regulated and registered.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Why wait for a better man in terms of earning higher? Do those things yourself.

I advise the better men to go for women earning like them and not marry down to someone that is waiting to be upgraded.

kode12:
-

So, if person come kpai the dog use am do suya, they go kill am be that?

bigtt76:
Oooh you de waste time go hospital for acute acne? Bro go to Mecure labs and do allergy tests jaaaaare. But truly, your body might be allergic to nuts and something you are eating.

You don't mean it.

After the allergy test, what would he do next?

That baby is kindly asleep, why disrupting the sleep?

Babies no dey follow your timetable ooo

eniola1010:



Brother please i have another question

1) the nhis will cover most of my medical bills as a tier4 holder right? Because i have some minor minor medical issues i supposed to have checked here in naija but i'm just pending it till i am over there

2) also, once someone has worked legally under sponsorship for 5years, one is entitled to apply for ilr right?

3) lastly brother, i am going alone, i'd like to bring my gf too but not now, whats the best method u advise i follow. Marrying her hurriedly is not an issue.

If those minor issues are not emergency, please check them in Nigeria and maybe continue care here.
You fit dey waiting list for most specialties here, you visa go finish. Except you don't mind that sha

WhiteWolfe:
Hi, I need a babe in Manchester o. Nigerian lady ready to settle in less than 2 years, who is also in Manchester. I will be relocating to Manchester in October

You wan make we keep the babe for airport for you or do you prefer we waybill her when you've arrived?

BATified2023:
If igbos can do this to themselves think of what they will do to u when they have the power


These people should not be allowed to have power cos they can’t handle it,I just can’t imagine killing a fellow human being cos of oduduwa republic

Imagine peter obi having power,don’t u think these people will do more than Fulani?

Imagine how their fellow igbos are hailing them, do u think these same people will blink an eye if u are killed?
Do u think these igbos hailing him for killing a fellow Igbo will blink an eye if it were to b u who isn’t an Igbo?

An adage says person wey tear him own cloth go burn your own

Before u argue watch d video first

You are a fool!

Lexusgs430:



The question you need to ask yourself are -:

- Is it worth leaving my comfort zone, for an unknown
- is this a sensible gamble
- If things go soar, would I be happy to start afresh
- Are the factors forcing me out, not manageable

Lastly, nobody can advice you to relocate, it's ultimately your individualistic decision..........

Fortune favours the bold..... Fortune favours the brave ......... Fortune favours the strong......

Are you BOLD, BRAVE & STRONG enough..........

Our people say, that we stand in the compound of a coward's house and point to the ruins of a warrior's house.

That Bold, Brave and Strong, make the Oga think am well oooo. @Legendoo

I greet you Sir.

mizGene:

Nope, there should be a second center in V.I, a private travel clinic set up, but it is usually just as busy as IOM.

I think that IOM sends people there when they overflow.

I'm not sure you can just walk in there and use it for UK visa purposes