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Family / Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by free2ryhme: 2:55pm On Jul 23
I was discussing with a friend yesterday. Our fore fathers marry their wives without knowing them and they grew in love building wonderful families.

Today the reverse is the case, as people marry the one they love but the rate of marriage failure is on the increase.

My question is should we marry the person we love or should we marry and grow in love with the person.

Do wetin come your mind as the world will not be living with you in your house
Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin And Wife, Maryam Welcome A Baby Girl (photos) by free2ryhme: 2:45pm On Jul 23
i beg make una congratulate me and my wife . we welcomed a bouncing baby boy too yesterday...

congrat jibrin

Congrats bro

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Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin And Wife, Maryam Welcome A Baby Girl (photos) by free2ryhme: 2:44pm On Jul 23
U re fool

Wicked soul

At least type correct english
Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin And Wife, Maryam Welcome A Baby Girl (photos) by free2ryhme: 2:43pm On Jul 23
Watch this must see video


Children of sodom and gomorrah undecided
Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin And Wife, Maryam Welcome A Baby Girl (photos) by free2ryhme: 2:41pm On Jul 23
lol bros abeg no vex. But it's jst d truth.

What is the truth?

Her future is not yours to decided
Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin And Wife, Maryam Welcome A Baby Girl (photos) by free2ryhme: 2:41pm On Jul 23
So who the news epp

It helps those that are happy

Wicked soul
Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin And Wife, Maryam Welcome A Baby Girl (photos) by free2ryhme: 2:40pm On Jul 23

My neighbor had a miscarriage and this people born. I'm sad sad

Rejoice with those that are rejoicing as you can't change what happened to your neighbour
Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin And Wife, Maryam Welcome A Baby Girl (photos) by free2ryhme: 2:36pm On Jul 23
Congrats! Lets welcome our future looter.

You can't address an innocent child that way


Fear God, wetin this pickin do you


Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin And Wife, Maryam Welcome A Baby Girl (photos) by free2ryhme: 2:35pm On Jul 23

Why u dey frown

Abi u dey forbid goodnews undecided


Politics / Re: Abdulmumin Jibrin And Wife, Maryam Welcome A Baby Girl (photos) by free2ryhme: 2:35pm On Jul 23
Suspended member of the House of Representatives, Abdulmumin Jibrin and his beautiful wife, Maryam have welcomed their second child together, a daughter. Jibrin who is a divorcee, already has three children from his first marriage and a daughter with Maryam. Congratulations to them.

Source: http://www.flexygist.net/2017/07/23/photos-abdulmumin-jibrin-and-wife-maryam-welcome-a-baby-girl/

cc; lalasticlala

Congrats to them
Politics / Re: 'Diezani & Orubebe Failed Niger Deltans' - Asari Dokubo (Photos,Video) by free2ryhme: 2:29pm On Jul 23
Una no talk this one when una dey form vexing upandan
Romance / Re: At Age 24 I Don't Have A Girlfriend, Have Not Been Loved By Any Girl by free2ryhme: 11:53pm On Jul 22
I spent four years in the university without a girlfriend, because am afraid to approach girls. I don't want to be rejected. people gossip about me that am gay. because am always in company of guys. even my male friends are even accusing me of been gay, which I know am not. The even joke with me with jokes like
I can't sleep in one bed with you and so on.

Now what I need is advice from Nairalanders on how I can get a girlfriend that can love me. Because very soon I will be going to national youth service. am depressed because of my situation I need help.

Guy stop lying u are just looking for attention.

Shld whether a girl loves your or not should not be ur priority in university

why is it only you that walks in the company of boys they talk about others no dey there like the others in the company so nobody gossip about them just you

And for four years you considered gossip? You get problem

You never go NYSC get paid unemployment you still carry the lie come nairaland

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Crime / Re: Libyan Deportee & Mechanic Steal Motorcycles in Delta (Photos) by free2ryhme: 6:48pm On Jul 22
Libyan deporteee undecided

Must he be addressed by his past deeds

What if he was not a deportee what would he be addressed by
Politics / Re: Shekau Must Be Captured Dead Or Alive Within 40 Days - Buratai by free2ryhme: 6:47pm On Jul 22
Story story story

Once upon a time, time time

The sky has fallen grin

End of story
Celebrities / Re: Vera Sidika: Yommy Johnson Is A Cheat, A Woman Beater And A Big Liar by free2ryhme: 6:46pm On Jul 22
Una no get work

Lazy things

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Family / Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by free2ryhme: 9:20am On Jul 22
She told me of being pregnant and later had a stillbirth at the 7months.

The background.
I met her when we were teens and have always loved her. She refused me sex and along the line, her neighbor gave me (who is her relation). She learnt about this and we had our first break up.
We both got admission into different universities and couldn't see again.
We later met again and settled with a condition that there would be no sex. This didn't go down well with me and I called it off. This repeated and there was even a time I walked her out of my house because of this issue and didn't give her tfare. My house is like 1hr drive from where she lives.
The issue:
I love this girl to the extent that anytime I thought of getting married, she will come to mind.
Now I have a good job and she's done with school. I proposed to her and she accepted it.
Is about 3 months now, she came on my birthday 3 months ago. That was all. She doesn't come always because she stays with her elder brother and can't leave house just like that.

Note, we haven't had sex till now.

About 2 weeks ago, I told her about how I got a girl pregnant and we had to abort it and that since then I haven't been myself. That it pains me to this day. We talked about it and she was sorry over it.

Yesterday, we had a very deep discussion and she revealed to me that she had a relationship at school. They were together for 4yrs. I then asked her if she had ever missed her period. She said yes. But not to this school boyfriend but another man. She wanted to keep the pregnancy but her parents refused because the guy is not a good person. The guy wanted the pregnancy but her family didn't want the guy to marry her. She finally had a stillbirth at the 7th month.

I was stunned. I know she's not a virgin, she told me but I was confused. Sex had always been our problem and I never expected that she had experienced something like this. Now she asked me that she hope she won't regret telling me this. I told her no that she won't regret but I'm stunned.

Please should I still go on with this marriage?

Make una stop to dey lie for these children

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Sports / Re: Nigerian Water SKI & Wakeboard Federation To Establish Facilities For Training by free2ryhme: 9:19am On Jul 22
The aboki wey dey beside her don't even know what they are doing and besides how can this sports be viable in Nigeria when other viable sports are dying

Those thieves are waiting to eat their dollars and destroy anything
Politics / Re: Rogba Fayose Graduates From Covenant University (Photos) by free2ryhme: 9:01am On Jul 22
Una no mention wetin he graduate with


Politics / Re: Alaba International Market Shut Down As Obosi Leads Igbo Coalition For APC by free2ryhme: 8:57am On Jul 22
Make dem no kill demselves sha
Business / Re: Jack Ma Visits Africa With 38 Other Billionaires by free2ryhme: 8:56am On Jul 22
they should invest.... not make us slaves

So what are your leaders doing

Investing or enslaving?
Crime / Re: Nigerian Man Bags Life Imprisonment For Beating Girlfriend's Son To Death by free2ryhme: 8:52am On Jul 22

White people ar too weak

Jst small slap can kill them


This same white people invented almost everything you are using as valuable in your life.

So who is weak
Fashion / Re: Okoroafor Chinaza Emerges The Nigerian University Carnival Queen by free2ryhme: 8:46am On Jul 22
Wetin be dis one
Celebrities / Re: Gifty: 'I Quit My Job In Ghana Because My Boss Asked For Sex' by free2ryhme: 8:43am On Jul 22
Gifty Brian Onyechukwu Ajumobi of the Big Brother Naija fame made a detour from a marriage she considered a misadventure but the 24-year-old actress has shrugged off the gloom of that experience.

In this interview with LANRE ODUKOYA, she speaks about BBN, her humble beginnings and how she came to the spotlight.

After these past months, if your mind races back to that time, what kind of feeling do you get?

What crosses my mind anytime I think about that experience is how fun it was, although at a point it was quite challenging. When I actually sat down and reminded myself of who I actually am, I adjusted myself to reality and decided to win every task. It was quite fun. That’s how I would describe Big Brother Naija2.

There were a few beautiful ladies in that house and there were also quite a number of good looking guys. Of all the good looking guys, is there a particular one that you like differently and for a particular reason?

As a matter of fact, I cherished everyone then and I still cherish them. I had and still have no special person that I actually set my mind on. Everyone was so special to me.

You bonded with some people and you did some revealing stuffs with one or two people…

I bonded with everyone, if you actually watched it closely. I related with everyone and I did stuffs with everyone down to ladies and the guys because I saw everyone as family. I said to myself that what I could do in my own house like bonding with family, let me just bond with them too.

Before Big Brother Naija, what were you doing?

I was into the entertainment industry. I was a model and an actress and I’m still a model and an actress.

Could you recall the names of some of the movies that you’ve done that are popular?

I have done a couple of movies. I would say Nkoli Nwa Nsukka season 2. It’s an Igbo film but I acted as a foreigner who came back from the States with her husband who is a rich guy. Then I did Egg of Vulture where I played the lead role. In Nkoli Nwa Nsukka, I played the sub-lead. And in Chocolate Pinging Salon produced by Uche Nancy, I played the sub-lead with Queen Nwokoye. I also played the lead role in Lisa’s Cross. There are quite a lot of them.

How did you get into the movie industry?

It was just by luck. I didn’t go for any audition. I actually told this story to the housemates when I was in the house. I drove out with a car that belonged to a friend of mine. So there was this guy, I didn’t know he was a producer. I was actually on my lane and then, his car dented the vehicle I was driving.

I got down and was trying to tell him that he was wrong. I was trying to stand on my right and he said, ‘I like the way you talk. Are you an actress?’ Then, I retorted, Oga, I’m not an actress. This car is not mine. It’s my friend’s car.

You need to re-paint and all that. He said we’ll see what to do about that and gave me his card and said he is a producer. He said he had produced a lot of movies and “I want you to play the lead role of my movie that I’ll be shooting in a few days.” So, I got interested. I called him and he directed me and I got involved in the movie. I’ve forgotten the name of the movie. That was in 2011 or 2012.

What’s the name of the producer?

I can’t remember. That was the first movie I shot. After that first movie, it took a while to get used to the industry.

What memories do you hold of growing up and having men run after you? What’s the most dramatic experience you’ve had?

After my step father passed away, things were a little bit tough. I’m a strong woman. I remember I asked my aunty for money for school fees and she denied me the money. This was someone who was a multimillionaire. I found it very difficult to forgive her.

I haven’t said this in any interview and I think I feel relieved saying this. So, I told my mum that we were not going to ask anybody for any favour. We were going to do this on our own. When I was schooling at the University of Ghana, Legon, I was working as a receptionist and I was getting a lot of stupid offers to the extent that the CEO of the company wanted to sleep with me but I didn’t allow it.

I actually had to drop the job because I couldn’t give what he asked for. My mum had to go to friends to give them what they sold then she could put her profit on them and that was how things were.

There was a story that you were once married and you quit your marriage. What really happened?

I’ve actually discussed this in so many interviews and I’ll still maintain my ground that I wish not to talk about it because it’s actually a dark part of my life that I wish not to ever visit again.

All what I can say is that I was 19 to 20. I was quite naive. I didn’t know what to do. I wanted to do what other girls were doing; get married, flaunt rings and all that. What matters is that I’m a survivor. I’m strong and I’m standing and I have a name.

What are your plans, after Big Brother?

As it stands right now, I’m still in the entertainment industry. I’m still modeling. I’m still acting. And I’m open to bigger endorsements and bigger jobs. Right now, I have intention of doing something for widows because my mum has been my inspiration.

She is my strength. It has not been easy trying to cater for four children. I’m the second child, but first girl child. She has been my strength, so I said one day I would try and start a foundation that has to do with widows. I’d use the platform to tell them that even if their husbands were dead, they could still survive.

Are you currently in a relationship or are you open to a relationship with men who may have sincere intentions?

The thing is that I’m not into any relationship. What I would say is that, right now, I’m focused on business. Whether men come or not, it’s fine by me. What I’m focused on right now is how to build a strong foundation, how to build a strong name for myself and my future kids, my family. Marriage would come but I’m not in a hurry.

What are the qualities you want in a man?

First of all, I want a very God-fearing man, intelligent and brilliant. He has to be handsome, respectful and humble.

What if he’s not rich?

The man needs to be comfortable. That’s a must. It’s a must I marry a man who is capable of taking care of his family. I want a man who can fill that space of a responsible man.


cc: Lalasticlala

Anything for attention


Education / Re: Nigerian Slay Queen Bags Law Degree From UK University. Photos by free2ryhme: 8:41am On Jul 22
So wetin make we do

Degree wey she no go use practice law cheesy


Culture / Re: Benue Bans Men From Spending More Than N100, 000 On Traditional Marriage by free2ryhme: 5:25pm On Jul 21
Good move.

Revolution has kick-started.

Enough is enough!

Revolution for marriage

Abeg, talk better thing
Business / Re: Aliko Dangote's Nephew, Kally, Graduates From UK University by free2ryhme: 2:44pm On Jul 21
Which one be Aliko dangote nephew?

The guy no get name

Abi na Aliko dangote newphew dey the certificate undecided

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Education / Re: Children Musical School Band Playing Father Father By Phyno And Olamide by free2ryhme: 12:28pm On Jul 21
Hope it get to front page
Education / Children Musical School Band Playing Father Father By Phyno And Olamide by free2ryhme: 12:28pm On Jul 21
An end of school year party is going on right now and the children school band is playing "father, Father by Pyhno and Olamide" every word of it.

Here is what is puzzling. School fees per term over N200, 000 per term, excluding school bus, music rehearsals, swimming lessons etc.

This is a school for well to do parents nice classrooms montessori computer and lab, nice school environment, play ground that is equipped and it is a primary school.

Most of the parents are Christians and would not allow playlist of these musicians in their home considering the vulgar languages and obscenity of their movie videos

My question is it right for a children school band with piano, trumpet sax drums etc to play these kind of songs especially when there are classical music composers these children could rehearse and use to build their talent.

Or is the music teacher deficient or the mentality of these teachers limited to Nigerian hip hop artistes as their own definition of music.

I need to read your thots on this issue
Celebrities / Re: Kemi Olunloyo Comes For Eniola Badmus "Eat Right Eniola" (photos) by free2ryhme: 8:35am On Jul 20
This woman don dey get mouth since dem release her from prison.

Hope no be only me notice this development
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Air Separation Nigeria Limited Recruitment For Graduates 2017 by free2ryhme: 2:15am On Jul 19
Air Separation Nigeria Limited Recruitment for Graduates 2017 | Application Guide and Requirements. See more details below...

Air Separation Nigeria Limited, a progressive, indigenous manufacturing company seeks to employ a hardworking and self-motivated individual for the vacant positions below:

Job Title: Account Assistant
Location: Lagos

To raise and process invoices, receipts and expense voucher transactions for daily transactions.
To maintain cash and bank – book daily entries.
To monitor cash flow administration
To daily post financial transactions to the general ledger.
To perform bank statement reconciliation and confirm customer cash lodgments.
Educational Qualification & Experience

Minimum of OND or AAT in Accounting from a reputable higher institution.
Age: Not above 28 years.
Technical and Behaviourial Competencies:

Excellent numerate and booking skills
Strong reasoning ability and good sense of judgement
Familiarity with accounting software packages.
Excellent communication skills.
Attention to detail.
Proficient in the use of MS Office particularly MS Excel.
Job Title: Inventory/Cylinder Monitoring Clerk
Location: Lagos

To perform audit checks on company cylinders in customers custody.
To conduct daily cylinder stock count and maintain stock register.
To maintain daily updated records (Bin Card) on cylinder movements.
To plan and organize audit visitation schedules at customers sites.
To report all discrepancies in cylinder holding during monitoring exercise.
To monitor and report damages to company cylinders or cylinder valves.
Inventory and store management; maintain and daily update the store inventory register.
To manage, monitor and control inventory of spare parts and equipment in the company store.
To participate in the monthly stock count and submit stock count report to Head of Audit and Compliance unit.
Educational Qualification and Experience

OND upper credit in Accounting or Finance.
Minimum of one year experience in Audit or inventory management

Not above 28 years.
Technical Behaviourial Competencies:

Excellent numerate and analytical skills.
Good verbal and written communication skills.
Attention to detail.
Proficient in the use of MS Office particularly MS Excel.
Strong reasoning ability and good sense of judgement.
Ability to enforce compliance to company policies.
Click here to Apply

Application Deadline: 23rd July, 2017.

When Air benders go recruit

Na dem I dey wait for grin

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Just Landed Another Job Via Nairaland!! by free2ryhme: 12:41am On Jul 19
Hello folks,

Humongous thanks to the great men and women putting up job posts on Nairaland. I am grateful

I am same guy who shared a story of how he was mysteriously asked to resign after series of dreams about his son.

The truth is I just landed another mega gig with an even bigger firm.

Few points: I was out of job for barely 1 month and I am posting this to encourage a few unemployed out there.
Do not loose hope yet!!

Prayer: Most important key. God has not finished with you yet.
Network-Dont fail to tell your friends, family, foes you out of work, you never can tell who has an information to share.
Update yourself: get enough certifications, take courses, online courses, whatever. please always update yourself. The trend is shifting and very quickly.

If your 2017 has not been going as planned, please do not despair, for we all can only do as little as hope and pray. And May God hear our fervent prayers this year in Jesus name Amen.

Congrats bro

But una no dey ever mention the job and coy wey employ una

Congrats once agains

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Romance / Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by free2ryhme: 12:22am On Jul 19
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.

Please I need advice

Why u dey waste boys time with your lies

Haba, fear God

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