You for try put the different fares for comparison.. Either way, it still pays to promote our own.

Take her back..
Just make sure you quote this post again
Learning the hard way dey sweet to read

Gadafii:
How has dangote crashed price of diesel by selling at over 1k, same diesel that sold for less than 900 last year?

Maybe price crash has another meaning we don't understand. Let him come and explain.

Nigeria will get better

chaddy16:
We will all witness a better Nigeria together in our live lifetime. Insha Allah

A better Nigeria for those who wish her well.

Whatever anyone wishes our dear country shall befall the person, amin.

That we have passed the age of believing and currently in the age of knowing or realizing.

What truly makes life worthwhile? Is it seeking gratification for the flesh in the material world or aligning with the soul to unravel what the physical senses can't perceive?

While the illusionary one leaves you ever wanting and accumulating at the detriment of your fellow being, the magic of the real are way beyond words.

"mystery behind existence" is one subject I'd spend significant time pursuing.

Thanks OP

How a guy still gets disappointed in ladies is what baffles me.

Without enlightenment we are nothing...

Read everything you can find on it. And live it.

Keep a descent vibe and they'd naturally gravitate towards you.

Honesty is key

You get them more when you no send.

Carry thier matta for head and your name is sorry

The wise ones know this.

Lolz ... So the senate didn't get from the 22.7 Trillion abi? Be playing

Frigga13:
David Mark and Saraki..

Men that piloted the senate ship.. without fear or favor.. neither Rubber stamp.

Akpabio has long turned himself to a boy boy.. of a Yoruba god

Remember when Akpabio was Akpabio.. till he went Apc and became a fool

God heal Nigeria

Ahh!! You forgot Chuba Okadigbo so soon?

Sirmwill:
You are on your way to becoming an advanced human 😇

He won't understand

You pack bus after scoring one goal in first half and with 66 to 33% ball possession....as if we were 2 men down...and you wan lift cup... 😂

That's before even diving into the spiritual benefits which far outweighs the physical benefits if done sincerely
Nice one OP

immortalcrown:
Whether your intention to marry her is right or wrong depends on how she became a single mother.

Epic

Blackestjunior:
Bllleeepp

And poor Nigerians too should explain thier source of Poverty

hahahahaha

Funny

Heart warming. The crave for truth brought me here

Too many I had to keep a journal

People truly don't want the truth. The many lies they've been told and taught are more comforting.
Thank you for the courage to speak up
You're not alone

Op I really salute your courage to bring up this topic. I've learnt over time that not everything can be discussed... especially the mysteries of other realms. It's all hidden for reasons.

People are in a rush to give PBAT second term.

Very few know tomorrow's shocker!

Leave tomorrow alone and enjoy this moment while you breathe.

Forgive her, but don't marry her for your own sanity sakes...

It's not the conscience pricking her...it's because you suspected and found out the truth eventually. Forget all those crocodile tears.

Except you can live with the memory, then marry her and see if another thing she doesn't know won't come over her again and again with Oga Sugar daddy or someone else.

Your choice though

Moneyyman:
That stupid talk of "happy wife, happy life" is what brought men to this stage. Men are expected to keep their wives smiling even when it goes against their nature. Men are expected to do EVERYTHING their wives ask and suggest, but many of these women won't even move an inch when you make suggestions.

To you, my guy, I'll advise:.

1. Find time to sit her down and explain all you have mentioned here. Do it calmly and don't raise your voice at any point. You'd be surprised to know that she often does them without realizing it. Women are just wired to be manipulative but that's not an excuse.

2. Tell her that you want to see an improvement. Demand it.

3. Be patient but be firm with her. Don't rescind your decisions simply because she's cold and angry. If she acts cold, you act normal. And make sure she apologizes for each time she gives you a cold shoulder! She must apologize before you move on!

Women hate apology and shl gradually start calling herself to order just to avoid apology.

4. Next, start distancing yourself from her people. Not in a bad way, but stop relying on them for advice or prayers or whatever makes you so close to them. Instead, try to move your family close to your own side. Let your wife too start going to pray with your mother and siblings and let's see how she likes it.

5. If she ever tries to manipulate you with sex, don't ask more than three times! And ensure you keep evidence of asking her. If she withholds sex, don't eat her food but play your other roles in the family.

Women think they're master manipulators but they just haven't met a man that wants to call their bullshit. Be that guy.


N.B: If the marriage later spoil, my hand no dey ooo. na just advise I give.

The marriage no go spoil... women don't respect simps.

Dialpad:
I condemn rape or any form of sexual abuse in its totality, I keep wondering why lagos state give these men life sentences.

10 to 15 years depending on the severity should be ideal.

While I agree that some of them may be irredeemable, second chances should be considered especially if they are first time offender.

Just my own opinion

Are you a father?

Nazgul:

Tell her to inform her husband of her visit to your house since she's convinced that she's doing the right thing?

Why won't they (she and the husband) come together? Since it's a harmless visit

The enslavement is more mental than physical.

Sadly enough the larger populace are in similar position

kelvinakproko:
You called her on phone around 10pm in the night and she told you she wasn't fine. You asked if her mother was around, she said 'No' that she had gone on a business trip and she was the only one in the house. You told your friend living in her neighborhood to check up on her when you called severally and she didn't pick up again. When he got there, her door was locked and her neighbour told him that she travelled in the morning of that very day.

After not taking your calls, you dropped a message that someone checked up on her and she wasn't around. She wouldn't pick until the evening the next day. When she picked, she said she went for an interview but because it was late she spent the night in a friend's (girl) place and because she hadn't told you about the movement earlier, she felt you might get angry if she told you she was at a friend's place. She added that she's been scared of taking your calls because she didn't know what to do.

You know she's lying but she asks for forgiveness. You remember the financial sacrifices she's made on you for the past one year. Her contribution when things were rough for you until things became fine for you. You just feel like letting go but something deep down in you, you just want to know the truth but she wouldn't say it but cries for not believing her.

You don't play games. You really love this girl and already planning to wife her.
She loves you by the actions and efforts she makes up till the moment but your mind always goes back to it. You keep on bringing it because you just want to know the truth but she insists that you should forgive her and let go of the past? What do you do?

Do you forgive her without knowing the truth or Forget all her sacrifices and end it?

So what are we forgiving?

Primebuilders:
See the way this writtee is demonizing Emefiele. Instead of him to say Dangote was implicated in the efccprobe he is writing it to say Emefiele trow Dangote under. A crime committed by two of them. Emefiele was supposed to shiled him because he is Dangote and a northerner

Exactly...

I'm not seeing any bus, let alone "throwing".
Or you don't want Emefiele to say what happened?

You're even contemplating after all the red flags. Just don't come here and open another thread after the wedding.