Ask him - DO NOT FORGET - about his past relationships. Be sure he is moving on from them before you even start asking other questions.

Efty baby, leave that man now-now so, gurl.

Let me tell you where i have been and where i am. I started dating this guy and a month later, i looked under his bed and found a marriage certificate. My good side told me LEAVE this moment and put the certificate on his bed so he can know why you left. But I did not, and i made up a million excuses for his sake. I said to myself that he had married the girl ( who is in anoher state) just to get his papers. And i closed my eyes to the love notes and love cards she had sent him just a few months back. I felt hurt, but i stuck to the relationship because he was a handsome guy and I thought I was in love with him.

It's been 7 months into our relationshp and he does not call like he used to, we don't even hang out at all. He doesn't ask me to come over to his place, we see each other jus like twice a month. And i still like him a lot, and the hurt is a lot lot stronger. If i had left the day i saw the certificate, I would have been over him by now. But here I am, streeses out because i am in love with someone who does not give a hoot about me. So, Eefty babe, leave while you still can.

2FINE4U, I LUV T.I. TOO. MY BEST FROM HIM WILL ALWAYS BE "RUBBERBAND MAN".

ON A PERSONAL NOTE, MS 2FINE, YOU LOOK REALLY CUTE IN YOUR PICTURE. REMIND ME OF SOMEONE I HAVE ONCE HAD A GLIMPSE OF, NAMED ILEVBA.

STAY PEACHY, GURL.

I think you can be best friends with a member of the opposite sex, but there will always be the sexual thing hanging in the air. Experience is the best teacher.

Seun and 2fine, y'all are just being funny! I laughed really hard, but in truth, let's see what to do, I have been in the very same situation before, but the dude and i had actually exchanged passwords. I confronted him mouth to ear ( that is, on the phone, because he was in another state and we could not meet face to face). And of course he dnied it. But i knew what i had seen, and i was not to be taken for a fool.

I loved him alot, so i hung in there a little while. But then it got worse and i decded i was worth more, i had to leave his ass ( even though the sex was rhe best ever).

So i left the dude. And ran head-on into a worse situation. I am seeing this guy who is married, but he doesn't know i know he is married. But there's more to that, some complications.

anyway, the original plan was just to tell you to leave that guy/girl. ( he/she, him/her, girl/boy). You know you deserve better. - or, do you?