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Family / Re: Help: My Father Is Killing My Mom Gradually by MadCow1: 1:17pm On May 05, 2020
MrCork17:



Bro. Is your mum lightskin? smiley

grin

This is 2020 and you are still loco.. grin


Stay crazy my Man.

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Family / Re: Help: My Father Is Killing My Mom Gradually by MadCow1: 12:56pm On May 05, 2020
Lekan239:
My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.

It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.

Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.

My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.

So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.

2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.

So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.

After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.

Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.

Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.

Sad Story.. But here is the truth, 27 years no be 27 days.. It will take more than all of her kids put together to pull her out of that marriage. She is stuck. It's not physical but mental.

I will advice you find a way to start recording these acts of his just for posterity.

Try to restrain yourself from confronting him.

Your mother is a broken woman and is just one amongst millions of married women like her.

If you are a praying Man, pray.

But above and beyond, until you are sure of her welfare, don't do anything that will make your mothers life anymore difficult than it already is today.

All you can do now is hustle triple hard to find your come up.. When everything is soft, take your mother out of that toxic environment for like 6 months and watch the life in her return.

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Crime / Re: Residents Beat IBEDC Staff For Trying To Disconnect Their Light. by MadCow1: 2:25am On Apr 30, 2020
That area no go see even sunlight for the next 6 months.

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Travel / Re: What's The Best Skill To Learn Under 6 Months For Me To Migrate To Europe? by MadCow1: 1:48pm On Mar 09, 2020
Learn Olosho... cool
Travel / Re: Opay, Max.ng May Go As Lagos Decides On Okada, Tricycle Operation by MadCow1: 9:35am On Dec 31, 2019
Ban those muthafuakers..

Keke inclusive.. Thise Niggas ruin peoples cars everyday

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Religion / Re: Adeboye: I Will Build A Church As Big As Ibadan Before I Die by MadCow1: 2:53pm On Dec 15, 2019
naijacentric:
The Most High will bless you i was mad when i saw deeper life own at gbagada na time o n dis same mumu dat support dem will tear dem all up yahoo men in suits dey would soon expire


I am not particularly familiar with the Gbagada area of Lagos... I was visiting a friend in the area and Google Map was leading me through the neighbourhood.. Bro, after going through windy narrow turns inside inside an area that wasn't particularly upscale, I happened upon that monstrosity of a building.. My jaw dropped, my heart sank and I was utterly speechless.

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Religion / Re: How Do We Identify A Righteous Person? by MadCow1: 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2019
BlueAngel444:


U mean righteous people don't exist


They dont.. Even your bible said so
Religion / Re: Adeboye: I Will Build A Church As Big As Ibadan Before I Die by MadCow1: 9:07am On Dec 15, 2019
keep building them..


One day, Nigerians will wake up from their slumber and tear dem all down.

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Religion / Re: How I Embraced Sexual Purity And Chastity - My Journey by MadCow1: 9:06am On Dec 15, 2019
Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni Moshood

The other day, I stumbled on a thread where someone was asking why people have chosen to abstain from premarital sex and all of that. Then, it came to my mind to even write something about my own experience. Don't worry, I will make this one brief (perhaps the long version will come years from now when I will probably write a book about my life).

When I was a little boy, despite that my immediate environment wasn't one that encouraged full blown spirituality (in God), I usually feel the hand of God on me, and I'm usually conscious of His presence. As I approached the adolescence period of my life, as expected, sexual urges started coming, and I was also with the desire to express these emotions. Despite that the devil stationed other young teenage females around, I found myself being hindered continually from defiling myself.

While I was still contemplating, as a very young teenager, if I should taste sex once, or wait until marriage, everything changed after God visited me with His offer.....

The Host of Heaven paid me a visit as a young boy, and the offer was: Walk before Me and be perfect, and in return, I will give you...... In return, I will make you....

After reflecting deeply on which way to go, I decided to go for God's offer, since I discovered it is more beneficial to me. So, it means I have to fight to ensure I won't fall into temptation and displease God.

Interestingly, God made it so easy for me.. When I see young people lamenting that their sexual urges are "driving them insane", I will be like, is this not the same sexual urges that I have? The same sexual urges I have, that I'm fully in control of?

The best decision I made in my life was deciding to embrace God's offer from a very young age and walk with Him. I keep enjoying pleasantness in all regards. I keep enjoying His Grace in awesome ways. I keep getting great things others struggle for, easily.

In fact, one of the rewards was writing to encourage others to embrace purity and chastity. I have been writing since I was a young teenager, and my books and articles are being bought and read in different parts of the world - even in faraway places like India! I became the person that people Google Search his name to know what he offers. And of course, I'm sure God is still taking me to higher grounds.

Because of that decision, I can boldly say it anywhere that I haven't indulged in premarital sex and I'm undefiled. And guess what? I'm very fine! Very healthy. I won't defile myself, and so, my messages will keep touching the world with fire, and bring people to the will of God through Jesus Christ.

Beloved, just as God gave me the offer, He is also giving you the offer to walk before Him and be perfect. If you align yourself with God by accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and you decided to devote your life to Him, He will give you dominion over sin, the devil, creation (financially, health wise, family wise, etc).

Jesus said: "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)

Like me, you can live an undefiled life. Don't believe the lies of the devil that you can't control these urges. Stop allowing sexual immorality wreck your life. Flee from all appearances of sin.

Jesus wants an eternal communion with you. It is your destiny to serve God in Spirit and in Truth through Jesus Christ His Son, and have dominion over creation. Open yourself to the Lord. Call upon His Name, and He will help you. God bless you.

Prolly Gay
Religion / Re: Are We Truly Safe, When We Commit Sin With Condoms? by MadCow1: 9:04am On Dec 15, 2019
Yes
Religion / Re: How Do We Identify A Righteous Person? by MadCow1: 9:03am On Dec 15, 2019
There exists no such person.

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Religion / Re: Stephen Rathod: Pastor Adeboye Donates 60% Of His Income To Charity by MadCow1: 9:02am On Dec 15, 2019
Liars..

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Politics / Re: Kano Girls Must Finish Secondary School Before They Can Get Married - State Govt by MadCow1: 9:12pm On Dec 09, 2019
Now invest heavily in Basic Education and make it so efficient that by the time a girl in Kano get to SS3, her eyes and focus are purely on going to the University.


That would make this all worth it.

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Politics / Re: DSS: We Didn’t Arrest Sowore In Court — His Supporters Were Only Acting by MadCow1: 1:08am On Dec 08, 2019
GeoAfrikana:


Kindly share a link to the video

VIDEO: The scenes captured grossly contradicts the position of the DSS, who tried to turn the facts on its head in a statement on Saturday.
The agency is yet to give a concrete reason for its rearrest of Sowore. #FreeSoworeNow https:///EEAOIc6SEA

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Politics / Re: Amaechi: I Was Not Beaten In Spain, IPOB Evil Plot Failed Woefully by MadCow1: 1:03am On Dec 08, 2019
raker300:
Amechi was the one that said we should stone our leaders if they don’t perform...

Why the fuss then?

He is one of the few performing ministers to be honest.
Politics / Re: DSS: We Didn’t Arrest Sowore In Court — His Supporters Were Only Acting by MadCow1: 12:59am On Dec 08, 2019
GeoAfrikana:
Lalasticlala, other side of the story.

Emotions and sentiments apart;

First, sincerely when I watched the video yesterday I was confused. I didn't see any persona that looked like a DSS officer. I've once had an 'encounter' with DSS officers.
They escorted the corpse of a federal icon from Abuja to our village for burial. They arrived early in the night, witnessed the burial, shot guns in the air and drove off.

It was an intimidating experience. They were so organised and gallant. Their men were heavily built and their guns were sophisticated. No one in that video is similar to the typical DSS officer in my imagination.

Secondly, the word REVOLUTION that Sowore used is enough crime against him. I'm almost certain that if someone tried a tenth of such in the US he would be corpse in less than a month. Or at least be undead in Guantanamo.

Note: I'm opened to objective counter-arguments. If you rationally, objectively and politely debate my points then I'll listen to you. I'm willing to engage in intellectual debates.

But if all you have is insults and curses then expect no response from me.

Thanks for reading.

I shared your view until I saw the video where the skirmish started from the hallway.. In that video, you could see Falana turn back when the commotion started. He burst into the room where Sowore was being held down by a Man in a suit. If you look at the video and followed it from the hallway into what I am guessing is the courtroom, you would see men with the DSS black vest all around the hallway leading to the room. From that video, it's hard to believe this version of events the DSS is putting forward.

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Politics / Re: Akin Alabi Reacts To Sowore’s Rearrest By DSS by MadCow1: 2:11pm On Dec 07, 2019
Vacora:


I am afraid it was an unlawful arrest. It is not legal either due to the flagrant abuse of due process. There were no reasonable grounds provided at scene and the necessity to do it during a live court hearing is frowned on all over the world. Also what offence exactly? Shouldn’t his legal team be made privy of these fathom charges so it can be challenged in court?

Abuse of the system? DEFINTELY.. Illegal? I don't think so..


They apparently took him in on a separate matter. Now his Lawyers have to go through the same hurdles again to secure his release on said new charges.

I use to be a supporter of Buhari, but I think even he himself is pushing it on this Sowore matter. The more the FG keeps playing these games, the worse it will get. This isn't like the Dasuki or Kanu matter. Sowore like Kanu isn't going anywhere.. Fighting him in this manner lends fuel to his fire. If he dies in their custody, this shit will surely hit the fan.

The Judiciary also needs to take a stance. How can the DSS invade a courtroom to effect an arrest in the middle of an ongoing session.

Nigeria matter tire me sha..

#CountryForSale..

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Politics / Re: Akin Alabi Reacts To Sowore’s Rearrest By DSS by MadCow1: 11:09am On Dec 07, 2019
Ehn must collect..

The re-arrest isn't right, but its legal. They released him on one chatge and re-arrested him on fresh charges. Its called playing the system.

Sowore na pikin wey say ehn mama no go sleep.. Wetin the pikin no sabi be say ehn mama dey Night Vigil. grin

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Car Talk / Re: Can a full Grown Cow Fit In The Trunk Of Your Corolla? by MadCow1: 10:48am On Dec 07, 2019
Toyota manufacturers go don madt

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Politics / Re: Sowore Accuses DSS Of Trying To Assassinate Him by MadCow1: 1:17pm On Dec 06, 2019
Baba Booo is mean sha
Politics / Re: Do Our Political Parties Have Ideologies? by MadCow1: 8:11pm On Dec 03, 2019
Yup..

In America;

Democrats - Pro immigration , pro-abortion, pro-socialism,
Republicans - Anti - immigrations, anti-abortion, pro-capitalism,


In Nigeria;

APC - Pro - Hausa/Yoruba.
PDP - Pro - Niger Delta/Hausa.
APGA - Pro - Ndi Igbo.
AAC - Pro - Ndi Social Media


Thanks

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Business / Re: How Do I Raise Fund For My New Business? by MadCow1: 2:17pm On Nov 07, 2019
obillyj:
Lately, I have summoned the courage to start up a business. I have several business ideas but had being afraid to make the move because of all that is involved. I am ready to do so now but faced with the challenge of getting funds.
I will need about half a million to kick off and don't want to start with loan.

Do I need to write a proposal and submit to my prospective helpers or do I just meet and explain to them. I hope also to raise the fund from family and friends. How do I go about it please.

Thanks.

Tg

How much money are you looking for?
Celebrities / Re: Lady In Tears, Demands The Release Of Mompha (Photos) by MadCow1: 4:57pm On Oct 30, 2019
When your side piece is loyal.. grin

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Politics / Re: Bayo Omoboriowo Renovates School Building, Donates School Bags In Ekiti (Photos) by MadCow1: 4:54pm On Oct 30, 2019
subcbouy:
Nevertheless, somewhere, somehow, governors couldn't attain paying minimum wages of #30k, money that is not hers. Applauds good gesture.

The number of States that can afford this 30k minimum wage as it sits today are not up to 5 in the entire 36..

I didn't say his gesture was bad or not worthy of being applauded..
Politics / Re: Bayo Omoboriowo Renovates School Building, Donates School Bags In Ekiti (Photos) by MadCow1: 3:06pm On Oct 30, 2019
When they daid he donated Bags, they should have added Nylon or Polythene before the Bag..

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Education / Re: Usman Danfodio University Students Reading Under The Moonlight by MadCow1: 3:00pm On Oct 30, 2019
Atleast its full current..
Politics / Re: Wike Inspects Projects Under The Rain, His ADC Drenched by MadCow1: 8:30pm On Oct 14, 2019
I still dont like this Man.

His projects will cost Rivers People millions to fix in the not too distant future.
Crime / Re: We Move From Village To Village To Rape - Teen Gang-rapists by MadCow1: 2:23pm On Oct 09, 2019
They must be MOOOOOVING MAD.. angry

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Webmasters / Re: Website Designer Wanted. by MadCow1: 1:50pm On Sep 27, 2019
Thanks to all who responded. I shall be reaching out to ALL of you soonest.
Politics / Re: Oyo Dry Port: Seyi Makinde Inspects Ongoing Construction At The Site - Photos by MadCow1: 1:41pm On Sep 27, 2019
Initial Gra Gra..


Just give it time..

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Politics / Re: Inappropriately Dressed SARS Officer Leaves Nigerians Dissappointed (Picture) by MadCow1: 1:31pm On Sep 27, 2019
So virtually all SARS team members dress like this or a variant of this.

What is even more amusing is the double standards. The same SARS officer will arrest a Civilian and label same a cultist or Con man if they dressed just like they do, yet they don't see the irony of their ways.

There is a team now that has targetted my area and mount their checkpoints in the darkest and blindest spots of the road. Imagine driving home by 12pm on a weekend and at a dark blind portion of your route, you run into multiple guys dressed just like him without any prior warning or indication that they are the Police.

The people at the helm of our affairs seem to have a very totally different vision for how a good Nation should be.

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Webmasters / Website Designer Wanted. by MadCow1: 12:21pm On Sep 25, 2019
Hi......

I am in search of a good web designer.

I will be needing proof of previous works done by whoever applies for this job.

If interested, do send me a private message with your contact information and any other detials I might need to know and also indicate here (On Nairaland) that you have done same and I will reach out to you.

Thanks & Best Regards..

M.C

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