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Food / Re: Is This The Most Underrated Grain In Nigeria? See Pic by mrjojo: 5:31am |
This is quinoa or bulgur wheat (it a super food) high in fibre, low carb |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Vaughan Gething To Become Wales' First Black Leader by mrjojo: 6:43am On Mar 17 |
anonimi:Because black is a dominant gene! Anything mixed with black is black Megan markle for instance, her father is white yet that didn’t stop a thing, even her son archie with Prince harry is already a subject of racism 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Nobody Should Do This To Any Woman by mrjojo: 7:51pm On Mar 10 |
she should Adopt a child and live her life to the fullest. Everyone is not destined to be married! |
Travel / Re: Another Plane Crash In US Claims Several Lives Weeks After Wigwe's Incident by mrjojo: 1:56pm On Mar 05 |
I will never be caught on a Helicopters or single engine aircrafts.The statistics are scary! |
Romance / Re: "Guys, What Is The Biggest Gift Or Financial Sacrifice You've Made For Love?" by mrjojo: 12:30pm On Mar 05 |
Paid her Msc Tuition in the UK. |
Family / Re: My Ordeal In The UK With My Wife by mrjojo: 1:40pm On Mar 02 |
edimina: First, People don't Change!!. Your wife has shown you who she is, but you keep making excuses for her, which I totally understand. Your Madam has no atom of respect nor regard for you! In fact, she is en route to getting you totally emancipated, and you wouldn't be able to do anything about it, thanks to the environment you are in. For 36 years, your madam has constantly been seeking attention and validation; as you claimed, she is beautiful; she has heard that all her life, she's had attention all her life, but that has dwindled with age, kids, and marriage. So when two handsome youngsters show interest and attention, she loses it and starts behaving like a teenager, craving love and chasing shiny new things. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with seeking love and attention at any age. Also, the stress of relocation, especially in its early days, affects marriages, which is the reason why divorce among Nigerians in the UK is at an all-time high( no data to back this; it might be hearsay). You guys might not have time for each other as you used to back in Nigeria, but that is no excuse! Her priority should be different now. Like raising healthy, "normal" kids in a new environment /culture, Mortgage, family vacation, etc, but here she is gallivanting around with low-tier men(any man that can comfortably make disrespectful l comment to a married woman and her husband is just plain st*pid), and been dragged in the mud alongside your family while at it. She is not just disgracing herself but your whole family. She is also a people pleaser; the constant need to be loved and liked is a symptom of Dependent Personality Disorder. Helping others is not a big deal, but going out of her way to please others, even to the detriment of her family, is just unreasonable. Now to the Action Plan. You know your wife better; she is 36 but highly impressionable, meaning she'll take everything she learns on TikTok friends, frenemies, coworkers, and environment and mirror them in her life; soon enough, she'll start learning of the benefit of being single motherhood and "how to deal with men." Seems only Asian(Indians, Bengalis) Women are immune to the influence of the West; even after donkey years, they are still feminine and stuck with their culture. Little wonder why they are prospering. I will be talking in the extreme here, but I hope things don't get to that. - No matter what she does, please learn to remain calm at all times. You'll need a quiet head; never raise your voice nor shout at her - Keep the recording from the car; don't tell her before she misconstrues it, and say to her friends you are tracking and monitoring her - I hope you don't have a mortgage yet? If you do, then if anything happens, she owns that house till the kids are 18. Before you know it, you are paying a mortgage on a home you are not living in - Start upskilling FAST!!!! If you are working in care or a minimum wage job, you need to have a plan to get a professional career that can give you a work visa FAST! Btw Salesforce administration is a skill many people are sleeping on. - Start saving, just in case you need to move out - Network with other men. I find this hard to do abroad. You need a support system of other men; don't just be work > home. This will keep you sane if things go awry The not extreme - Have a heart-to-health conversation with her; explain the pressure of being a new immigrant and how her newfound friends affect your relationship and family. If nothing changes, talk with the married female friend's husband; if there is still nothing, start planning your escape using the steps above. You matter, too! You didn't come to this life to work and be a sacrificial lamb. It would be best if you were happy to give your kids a happy life. Kids should grow up in multiple happy homes rather than a sad, depressing one. Btw, you bleeped up, too; talking with your ex is a no-no; cheating isn't just physical. You know, married men are the number one por.n subscribers, and weirdly, a lot of married men masturbate more than their single counterparts. You have unlimited internet; help yourself, my guy. |
Romance / Re: Men Only! by mrjojo: 3:09pm On Feb 27 |
omochelsea004:Google is your friend,prices are not fixed |
Travel / Re: I Am Considering Japa For The First Time In My Life. The Hardship Is Unbearable by mrjojo: 1:45pm On Feb 27 |
Och77:you can if you are a fraudster, sweet mouthed pastor or a politician. if you are non of the above, Run, it's not too late |
Romance / Re: Men Only! by mrjojo: 1:43pm On Feb 27 |
Armani Acqua Di Gio or Paco Rabane : Invictus or YVES ST LAURENT LA NUIT DE L'HOMME These are sure banker compliment getter use Suremen roll on, and apply vaseline on your pulse point before the perfume Thank me later |
Travel / Re: Advice Me On My 2 Million Travelling Budget by mrjojo: 6:16pm On Feb 21 |
I hope the 2million is in dollar equivalent |
Autos / Re: Kakakiautos - Case Of Fraud by mrjojo: 11:16pm On Feb 20 |
GAZZUZZ: |
Autos / Re: Kakakiautos - Case Of Fraud by mrjojo: 11:16pm On Feb 20 |
GAZZUZZ: |
Travel / Re: I Am Considering Japa For The First Time In My Life. The Hardship Is Unbearable by mrjojo: 10:47pm On Feb 16 |
Nigeria can't get better in this generation, this is no curse, but fact!. 20 -25 years ago, there was a massive japa train. 20 years after, nothing has changed, things have gotten worse even! Don't gamble your life believing in Nigeria! 48 Likes 7 Shares |
Food / Re: Look at the Meal I Prepared With 2000 Naira In This Tight Economy. by mrjojo: 10:15pm On Feb 16 |
Veggies are supposed to be green no? this has obviously lost all it's nutrient due to overcooking. Next time just "blanch" the vegetables in hot water for 2 minutes and put in cold water immediately after, Turn off the heat before putting the Veggies in the sauce. |
Family / Re: What Business Can I Start With 5million? by mrjojo: 7:05pm On Jan 31 |
Convert to dollars and keep |
Crime / Re: Herdsmen Kill Evangelist Segun Adegboyega In His Farm In Oyo, Suspects Arrested by mrjojo: 6:30pm On Jan 31 |
Ed12:becoming?? |
Agriculture / Re: We Can Help You to Establish Cereal, Root,Tuber and horticultural Farms . by mrjojo: 6:16pm On Jan 21 |
engagboola:What is the quote to survey a 2.9hectare farm in ondo state? |
Family / Re: Is My Family Truly Cursed Or Not? by mrjojo: 6:14pm On Jan 21 |
JaskTime7:that's really great, where do you currently leave, You need a plan. First plan Survive - Feeding, rent, internet You had a bike, meaning you can ride as a delivery biker, correct? is there a busy junction close to you? , for morning/night akara/fried yam |
Family / Re: Is My Family Truly Cursed Or Not? by mrjojo: 6:09pm On Jan 21 |
Lifeinlight:when there is a will, there is always a way, I am a living proof of that. |
Family / Re: Is My Family Truly Cursed Or Not? by mrjojo: 5:03pm On Jan 21 |
Lifeinlight:trust me sir, it is!!! |
Family / Re: Is My Family Truly Cursed Or Not? by mrjojo: 4:42pm On Jan 21 |
Lifeinlight:he might be able to get into a full funded msc if his course is STEM related and with a good GPA |
Family / Re: Is My Family Truly Cursed Or Not? by mrjojo: 2:19pm On Jan 21 |
In simple term, your dad failed!! There is no point crying over split milk. You are educated, what did you study? What’s your Gpa?What phone do you use? Do you have a laptop? What do you currently do? Which area do you stay? If you have a phone , a laptop maybe , dedicate the next 7 months and learn python like your life depends on it, heck your life and your siblings depend on it. For daily income to survive, start a small akara frying at your junction if it relatively busy, you can learn python 6 hrs and fry akara at night. This might not be exactly what you want to hear, you are not caused, that is a loser mindset |
Politics / Re: N438m Scandal: I Am A Shareholder Not Director Of The Company - Tunji-Ojo by mrjojo: 8:32am On Jan 09 |
The smart and "honorable" thing would be to resign. The company got the contract solely due to his influence and not through a fair bidding process |
Politics / Re: Suspected Herdsmen Kill 7, Injure Others In Fresh Benue Attack by mrjojo: 8:25am On Jan 09 |
it's hard to keep track of the killings all over the country, A nairaland collating this wouldn't be bad. Once upon a time the North Central use to be very peaceful, What exactly happened? Once upon a time you could travel the length and breadth of the country by road with relative peace of mind, even overnight trips were a norm, My Abuja - Lagos overnight trips are so memorable. It was just me, a good playlist against the calm open dark road, happy days. it a death wish now. Why is there is no state of emergency declared on UGM, Killer herdsmen, Kidnappers, bandit? They are terrorist' and should be rightly treated as such 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Fastest Way To Get Rich In The Uk. The Skill You Should Learn by mrjojo: 8:01am On Jan 09 |
Learn to cook properly and plate |
Nairaland / General / Re: 2024 Is The Year Of Nairaland's Resurgence by mrjojo: 10:53am On Jan 02 |
MindOnMatters00:create a thread, I will be give my input, Free of course |
Family / Re: How Can I Do This by mrjojo: 10:14am On Jan 02 |
Going out with a bang, a bullet to the cranium (head) will kill you instantly before your body can process any pain, or maybe a lethal of morphine you'll go in a state of euphoria but I'm guessing you are just seeking for sympathy and no really looking to die. People who really crave suicide don't post on forums asking they go on google to find out and just do it. Your life is hard, ok? because you are broke? so what ? life is hard! you have a phone, you have internet and yet you are complaining there are people in Burundi that will practical kill to have your life(own a phone and afford data). Kill your self like a coward, no one cares, you'll only scar your mother/family for life, Be a sissy and chicken out or go out find a buiding sites for laborer daily pay job, sell your shoe and buy gala and hawk in traffic a while learning copywriting/coding (people learn to code on their phone) , I sure you are too lazy to do this. The only excuse you have is ONLY terminal illness PS, no one is going to ask for your account and you have no value whatsoever to offer illunimati (you have to be a person of value or great riches to even be invited to apply) it not a ritual human killing cult as you've been made to believe, but you wouldn't know when you''ll rather gamble with your phone instead of use it as a tool to enlighten yourself 1 Like |
Family / Re: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by mrjojo: 2:23pm On Jan 01 |
Ikaeniyan0:no , not when it affect you or your family |
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