CAPSLOCKED:
WHEN A MAN REPORTS RAPE, THIS IS WHAT WILL HAPPEN

1. HIS FELLOW MEN AND SEVERAL WOMEN WILL CALL HIM WEAK FOR ALLOWING WOMEN OVERPOWER HIM.
2. THEY'LL TELL HIM TO STOP PRETENDING LIKE HE DIDN'T ENJOY IT.
3. SOME WOMEN WILL START TO ARGUE ON THE PREMISE, THAT IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO RAPE A MAN.
4. THE MEN AROUND WILL SAY THEY WISH THE RAPE COULD HAVE HAPPENED TO THEM.

OVERALL, NOBODY LOOKS AT A RAPED MAN WITH PITY. THEY SEE A WEAK MAN. THEY SEE A LYING MAN JUST MAKING UP THINGS. THEY SEE A WOMAN-HATER AND VERY EVIL MAN TRYING TO ACCUSE INNOCENT WOMEN OF A CRIME THEY DID NOT COMIT. OUR MODERN DAY FEMINISTS MAY INSTANTLY CLAIM THE WOMEN INVOLVED ARE THE VICTIMS, AND COERCE THEM INTO CLAIMING THEY WERE THE ONES THAT WERE RAPED. THE MAN WILL BE MOCKED AND RIDICULED ON ALL SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS. IS IT THE POLICE? THEY'LL ASK HIM TO LEAVE THAT HE DOESN'T HAVE A CASE.
IN SOME COUNTRIES, IF A FEMALE RAPIST GETS PREGNANT FROM RAPING HER VICTIM, THE VICTIM HAS TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT FOR SOMETHING HE DID NOT CONSENT TO. ELSE, HE GOES TO JAIL FOR GETTING RAPED.

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS TO MALE RAPE VICTIMS.

Ariza:
I have always been concerned about Male Rape/ Male child molestation too but there is nothing I or any lady can do. Or how do you fight for people who don't feel cheated or harmed or concerned about the situation? Some don't see the injustice, some do not even believe Men can be raped. To them as long as there is "erection" it isn't rape. Sometimes ago, a thread about a guy that was raped some years ago graced NL front page and I was shocked by the comments made by NL posters, majorly Men themselves. I was devastated! Of course I engaged some posters but it was a lost battle. Very annoying!

Yes the society is really a sick one but little do we know that we and our actions make this society.Investigate Rapists, question them and you will realize how much harm that had been done to them when they were young. Most are simply propagating seeds sown into them. How will A male child who was molested, neglected and excepted to grow through it, ever respect a female or her body? A child whose first experience of sexual relief was through manipulations and force will only see these means as ways to relief is sexual urges.
Do you know the pains they go through? And living in a world they aren't permitted to share their awful experience turns them to bitter and vengeful lots!
It's very funny how we neglect Male Child molestation /Male Rape but we scream, wail and complain about Rapists and Pedophiles. Hello? We are only reaping what we sow!... Kick against Rape across all genders then we would have a saner Society!

To the mother's in the house, change your orientation and be your children both male and female best friend. Teach your male child to open up, to express his pains and that it's very okay to cry! Enough of the bottling up just because you want to appear strong! It's killing!

GANAYAD:
Sub consciously as a man your brain is programmed to see sex as a sort of achievement which you can brag about and that makes us cheap only few men can resist a lady's temptation, I think that's why male rape is under reported

GANAYAD:
Op I don't know you but I wish to have a lady with such intellect as yours as my wife,
I want to ask you a question

In marriage who do you think should make the final decisions regarding the home

bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

Jullima:
It’s very sad to hear men brag they started having sex at 12, no, you were raped. I feel not viewing themselves as victims it’s a way to deal with it. I remember when a Hollywood actor came out that he was sexually assaulted, while the metoo people empathized his fellow men made fun of him. Also, some people don’t even believe a grown man can be raped.

Abused men refuse to see themselves as victims, the toxic culture of male masculinity has aided this evil abusers to continue their evil ways unchecked. It’s a sick cycle. Parents, men and women, while you take steps to avoid your girl child been abused please don’t forget the boys.

Oluromantic:
If we have few more women like this, the society will be sane. I agree with everything you said and having this kinda mentality of thinking outside the box or outside what the society sees as norm is the maturity needed for marriage. Unfortunately many young girls just follow the bandwagon's status quo and expect a different result. Little wonder they have problems in marriage.

An additional info I wanna add is that, men are naturally more on the forgiving side than ladies. It could be an additional reason why they let go of some of such experiences especially the petty ones. If men were to press charges (like women do) on every little offenses they go thru in women's hands including marriage, this world won't be peaceful at all. Unfortunately only few women, such as you, know the pain they bear to forgive and let go of many issues, while women keep repeating same annoying mistakes again and again and keep malice over little issues simply cus she's a woman and the society does not support a pained reaction from the man such as harshness or even beating. If the man does that, another extremely breaking step would be taken by the woman which is divorce... Something contrary to the laws of love and forgiveness.

However I agree there shd be limit to what a man shd swallow in d name of forgiveness for the sake of psychological well-being, health and longevity.

In other words, the grievance or the horror level of the abuse is also a determinant. If it's a really demeaning one, the manly forgiving ability may not come to play anymore

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
how is Yahoo boys connected to these, u see sense eeh is not ordinary o

naijatatafo:



Wait!
Did I tell you he was a yahoo boi?

Psub:


No please, it works all over the world as long as you have an internet access.

Visit your play store or app store(IOS) to download the app and follow the onscreen instruction to register.

Hanseel1:



The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits -Albert Einstein.

You were not the only lady who saw the post but you were the only senseless one who can't comprehend without sentiments.


Those stuffs you just typed will return back to you and your female generation.


When guys are raped, harassed or abused I've noticed
that instead of condemning the actions females usually
comment with laughing smiley, calling the guy a pussy
and asking stupid questions like did his dick rise?


You guys used to think it's funny when it involves a male?

fool.

Adebowale89:



you be mumu. tell your sister to dress senselessly in the isolated areas where those hoodlum are littered and see if she won't call their attention


if you're in unsafe society where there are bias justice, you dress modesty and moderate to avoid story that touch the anus

Adebowale89:
someone said maybe she was a virgin and so what? I'm an advocate against rape because is one of our social problem but if her bf disflower her, was her motive for taking her life, then that's plain silly


but ladies that bring their breast out in public are doing it for what? guess to take those twins out for natural air? nonsense
Ur wife will show breast one day

I pray she gets raped


dress properly, keep focus and intelligent guys as friends, don't work late at night, avoid moving alone in isolated areas. if ladies can adhere to these aforementioned, I presume it would reduce the velocity of rape in the society

handsomeguy4kyf:
girls of nowadays self.
so you can't stay without having a boyfriend,
will you die if you stay single, by starving the guy of sex for long why wouldn't he raped you when you're chopping his money but refused to open him the honey pot.
your arrogance killed you not the guy. nonsense and it's ingredients

franchasng:
Strong woman

I even thought it was a stranger that raped her and maybe infected her with HIV, didn't know its the guy she's been chopping his money that decided to enjoy a bit of his sweat; women are too stingy and selfish

Same way, u will hear some married women saying their husband raped them, your hubby raped you WTF!! If I am a judge and u bring such case to my court, I will jail u for 10 years with hard labor, no parole for breach of agreement

If you know u are not ready to dance shakitibobo on the bed, don't date any guy o because there is nothing like no sex relationship, its all lies and lies...if he wants a no sex relationship with a lady, what happened to his sisters, female cousins, or even his female colleagues or schoolmates, are they not his female friends

Nobody should quote me please, I am not feeling too fine since morning

adecz:


Do your arithmetics.

You said N1.40,
while the actual total (as posted by you)
is N1.04.

So, who do we believe ?
You or the "scammer"?

Kingzy4pep:
Alright. Someone already told me where to do it. Will get it done tomorrow. Thank you.

Trinity college Dublin.

CANDYDADDY:






That girl look like slowpoke, down syndrome, her left eye lookin north while the right lookin south

Kingzy4pep:
Please did you certify your documents before applying for admission and if you did, where did you do it?
I'm applying for a program at TCD and was asked to certify my transcript.

Fwesh101:
op did you write any English test? also did you pay your tuition fee before the school gave you the admission ? if yes, what was your bank statement like...looking forward to hear from you

Jaytecq:
interesting... all the best bro

Kingzy4pep:
Why will she? The Republic of Ireland gives 2years extra after studies.