http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-9396.0.html en http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-9396.0.html#msg262952 30 Mar 2006 17:43:52 +0100 http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-9396.0.html#msg262981 abi she fear photo as if it will steal her spirit]]> 30 Mar 2006 17:51:54 +0100 http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-9396.0.html#msg264735 I always have to think of this song that Elvis sang
you look like an angle but you are the devil in disguise.
Stronghead no be small.
When she was 4 years old she told me she hates me.I asked her to look for a new mum she started packing.I told her she did not come to me with anything . She started going. I told her she was born necked.She took off her clothes and left. It was Winter snow was laying outside i had to give in and go get her.

When she was 7 the teacher complained she needs extra invitation to do anything.
EG the teacher sys class stand up and Melli you too (because Melli would not stand.
Class bring out your maths books ,  Melli you too.
I got home i asked her, she looked at me with big eyes and says"My name is Melli not class"


Melli is good in school and she but she dose not want to attend the school were people with good grads go to .
Melli starts getting bad grads on purpose and dose not even complet the tests.
Yes she got what she wanted someone told her smart people are ugly and she did not want to land in the school of the ugly.

She brings home her report card. I look at it .
She says to me very proud "My Notes have never been this bad."
I opened my mouth i closed it. I say to her you can start being good again.
she makes big eyes and says  No they will send her to the ugly school.
I say no  i promise you they will not she says ok.
I go to the school and they tell me they wondered what was wrong she was just submitting her work incomplete and they will give it back to her and she will write everything right

They others say i pet her.
I  tell them she is War and even if i beat her she will cry throw up ,bleed through her nose, get an Asama attack and still not do as she is told.
But once in a year we fight.

I come back from work , i find a note from Melli . She is at a friends place and no one should eat the food she left in the microwave.

the notes always end with I love you.

I love you too melli.]]> 31 Mar 2006 16:41:26 +0100 http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-9396.0.html#msg265996 When she learned how to talk her mouth did not close she even talked in her sleep.
She even walked in her sleep but that has stopped.
3 times she has slapped me in her sleep.Sometimes i ask was she just pretending.?
Anyway she is growing tall her aim is to be the tallest here and to have the biggest bubs.
!2 years old and growing out of bras faster than i can say jack R.
But now she dose not talk too much  she dose not give me any problem .
I was so proud of her the day the school phoned me to tell me she beat up somebody.
This somebody had told her her mum was a  aschwo  for some years and this day she did not take that shit anymore.We did a small party in the house and i phoned all my friends.
Nato is not a pain in the ass for me but for her little sister.
"Melli do your homework, Melli brush your teeth , Melli take your bath , Melli!!! haba
I keep telling her thankgod you are not my mum give your sister a break.

Nato cooks with love when one sees her in the kitchen she really takes her time with what ever she cooks or makes unlike me that slaps every thing on a plate.

Natos hobby is in the youth center she even takes part in the organizing now.
And my printer suffers.]]> 01 Apr 2006 14:32:26 +0100 http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-9396.0.html#msg266073 01 Apr 2006 15:28:51 +0100