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sir t (m)
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Can you help your partner to wash his/her clothes? If yes, why? and if no, why? If your partner insist he/she can't help you wash your clothes, what will be your reaction? Please, no pretence, say the truth so that we can all learn one or two things here. Hoping to see many contributions.  -- severely edited by Seun (removal of strong sexist bias) -- |
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scambater (m)
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I don't see the big deal, if I'm doing laundry and my girlfriend has dirty cloths that need to be washed I'd do em all. It don't make me less of a man to do my girls laundry.
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moladun (f)
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wat r the means of fiance
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CrazyMan (m)
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Am not a houseboy;
If she’s too lazy to wash them herself, she can look for someone who would do it for her.
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Seun (m)
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I hope you remember that she is not a house-girl either when it's your turn to ask!  |
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CrazyMan (m)
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You’re right Seun, but the duty of the woman to serve the man and not the other way round. The man would show her love, and she would show him that she cares by washing his clothes, cooking for him and so on. |
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Seun (m)
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You’re right Seun, but the duty of the woman to serve the man and not the other way round. Bush man.  Open your eyes, it's the 21st century! And we have washing machines now. |
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CrazyMan (m)
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Ok tell me, would you wash your Fiancés clothes?
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Seun (m)
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I can't wash any clothes - not even mine. My head is too big to waste on washing. Solution: washing machine!
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zignor (m)
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washing! washing!!
Na today? 
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CrazyMan (m)
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I can't wash any clothes - not even mine. My head is too big to waste on washing. Solution: washing machine! Thanks for the solution anyway. |
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sir t (m)
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@Seun thanks for the editing job. But what I realy want to know is ladies view on the issue. Ladies in the house pls respond to this thread.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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You’re right Seun, but the duty of the woman to serve the man and not the other way round.
The man would show her love, and she would show him that she cares by washing his clothes, cooking for him and so on. LMAO,  . your still living in the 18th century. wake up man we are in the 21st century, times have changed. @topic I see no biggie in it. |
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C_JAY (m)
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Seun you were spot on I'd love to help but oops! hand washing and cooking are both big time wasters to me oh, i hope by a few years time neither me nor my chic would be saddled with such menial endeavors cause we'd be busy taking on the world's problems. a maid or technology will suffice, sorry |
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C_JAY (m)
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Seun you were spot on I'd love to help but oops! hand washing and cooking are both big time wasters to me oh, i hope by a few years time neither me nor my chic would be saddled with such menial endeavors cause we'd be busy taking on the world's problems. a maid or technology will suffice, sorry |
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ceceee (f)
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personally i dnt see anything wrong in washing his clothes.i think its one of those things dat are xpected of us anyway.shows we are homely.my view
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Kubed2klin (m)
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There's really no ned for this discussion.
You fools?
TYhink of wasting timje on some better discussions than this,
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sir t (m)
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@ cecee thanks and keep it up. Pls help me educate ladies in the house to see it as a duty.
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phanty (f)
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@ CRAZYKID U SOUND SO OBSOLATE
na your type go give woman belle after she born TEN u go still tell am say "MAMA BUKKY U NO SAY 4 MY PLACE NA ONLY AMALA OR P/YAM WE DEY EAT".
u lld still send her on God forsaken errands wit a child on her back while u re busy readin a newspaper vor playin drafts dats so , gosh
even witout d advent of washin machines m yet 2 hear u state any plausible reason y u cant help her do her laundries.
bsides aw many girlfriends ve u had? eh m sure every1 of dem ve done your laundries at 1 time or d other can u tell me if each of them were created 4 dat same purpose (sighs)
i 4 1 aint gat any problem wit it i really dont attach 2 much impt 2 such tins but dont make it a point of duty.
i know some guys dont like such tins atleast my ex doesnt do even his own washings cos he s allergic to washin soaps nd i dont complain cos wat he cant do there he made it up in d kitchen he likes to go 2 d market and atimes do d cookin so washin his stuffs dont move me a bit.
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sir t (m)
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@ kubed2klin
It really shows whom you are. A responsible and well trained person doesn't abuse other people's view, rather you contribute your own quota or at worst, you keep quiet. Try to learn from this as a word is enough for the wise.
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segsmat (m)
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@ cecee thanks and keep it up. Please help me educate ladies in the house to see it as a duty. Haba!!!!!!! see washing your partner's clothes as a duty in this 21st century?  Men, i'll advice you dont engage urself in washing your partner's clothes especially if you are female cos your are simply turning yourself into a 'fine slave'. and if u do now that u dont have a time-consuming job, remember it would really cos a lot of problems in the future when you stop doing so. My advise? better get a laundry machine or a paid washing service. Now, i'm not against doing the urgent washing o!!! once in a blue moon though |
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Guchis (f)
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I do it for my brothers, so what stops me from doing it for my partner?
No big deal.
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tonib (f)
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personally i dont have a problem washing my spouse's clothes infact it is fun i believe evry lady shld enjoy doing that once in a while for your hubby though when it is too much you guys can wash together or use a washin machine or employ a help but really no big deal.  and as for the guys if you truly luv your wife it's no big deal washing for her |
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Oke_amu (m)
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This thread should be, would you wash your wifes/husbands/girlfriends/boyfriends undies, Most people don't really take their under panties to the public washing machines although I do |
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tayo4me (f)
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There's really no ned for this discussion.
You fools?
TYhink of wasting timje on some better discussions than this,
It shows your level of intelligence. Y d insult now? It would have been better if u did not conrtibute at all. @topic I can wash my partner's clothes, i don't think there's anything wrong in doing dat. |
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emma@emma
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i don't see anything bad in that you people have to stay as one so either person can do it but not to the level of the lady underware.
probably that was the quetion he want to ask.
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Uzzyan (f)
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There is no big deal there. i cant imagine love without u helping out.
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swetangel (f)
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Well, I can wash my hubby's under wears but give a thought to his cloth
just because of other commitment; we have to eat and also care for the
kids,so I guess his clothes goes to the washman or washing machine
including mine, still got my office work to consider.
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zignor (m)
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I will wash the under wear including the wearer
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predi (m)
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i gess its becos yu pple @ crazykid dnt c anytin intrestin in chores like dis , iam not married yet and my g/f alwys comes ova to help me do stuff-she enjoys it cos i make it fun for her, we do the chores togeda and becos i luv to pla around a lot, alot of fun goes into just cookin alone. and we enjoy it, attimes she brings her stuff ova to my place and we do em togeda chasin ich oda around wit her underwears and my boxers or just havin fun while shes cookin. its fun wen yu help ich oda do chores wen yu see it dat way then yu loose d papa bomboi attitude.
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Siena (m)
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Of course I can wash my partner's clothes. No reason not to, unless anyone can tell me any different, with valid reasons? And if her underwear is included, I can hand-wash them too, and if needed, wring the water out of them with my teeth! Kapish? |
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