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Vuitton (m)
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo I'l wash her wintos instead  |
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Guardian (m)
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Egoistic wimps, Mr. Am- a-man, Madame It's his funeral, It wouldn't kill you if you help with domestic chores, as long as you are able. And if you don't, simply because you feel it's his/her funeral or because am bigger than that, I have no issues. But what do you gain ? Money, an Olympic medal or Fame, ? For me I can do anything as long as it doesn't rob me of my health or make me an irresponsible person. After all the essence of coexisting as in a relationship is to maintain stability through mutual understanding in enjoyment and suffering  If you no fit. Jump into the deep blue sea. If you can't find one set yourself ablaze. |
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oziomatv (m)
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For me it's not a big deal I live in Europe the first day I visited my boss house, a man that employs 50 wokers in his company I got surprise to see him washing plates with plaesure, since that day I took it like anything normal doing my family thing. Please lets modernize our AFRICAN IGNORANT that we called culture and know we are made for each other. my ability to do domestic works increase my business capacity and professionality.
LET BE HELPFULL TO EACH OTHER WOMEN ARE NOT MADE TO BE SLAVE RATHER TO BE LOVED BY WHOEVER HAPPENS TO HAVE ONE.
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Uzzyan (f)
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No big deal. We ladies are not mean to be maachines. [quote author=oziomatv link=topic=100089.msg1764248#msg1764248 date=119749 LET BE HELPFULL TO EACH OTHER WOMEN ARE NOT MADE TO BE SLAVE RATHER TO BE LOVED BY WHOEVER HAPPENS TO HAVE ONE. we are not slaves |
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adusol (m)
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yea, its no big deal
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babwilms (m)
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@Seun. Though we are in the 21st century but how many people have washing machines here in Africa. Even here in the west ,you will be suprised that minorities still don't have machines and yes I live here in the west and I do not have a washing machine.
@author. I do my lady's washing sometimes and she does mine most of the time. I do not see her as my slave but my helper.
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chiegemba (f)
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Dont c no biggy dere! if i could i would  |
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TolaR (f)
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I don't have any problem with washing my partner's clothes as long as there's is a washing maching in the house. I can wash with hand if needs be, but machine gives you time to do other things and it washes better than hands anyway.
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Shinatu
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I do not wash my own clothes, so I handle his clothes the same way I handle mine.
Like someone rightly said, there are other things to do with one's time but if you are a man who still
feels this is one of the things a woman is made for,, no probnlem, simply marry a woman who feels the same way!
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amma (f)
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i think it could be cool to wash your partner's clothes (or even undies) esp whn u've got the energy. and i think it's cooler if your partner offers to do your laundry. that's why it's TWO, makes everything easy!!
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seguno2
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@topic oga sir t, he be like say u go ask your granma to find u g/f abi na wife direct for village. Dat one u fit tell am "duties". But sha pray make she no open eye for city wey u dey, otherwise  And there is even a bonus, she no go complain about your wakabout with other women as men who declare duties are prone to do. For me, I have never been in a situation where I need to wash my partner's clothes but I always volunteer to iron them as often as possible/needed. |
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itakiri (f)
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Why nt?I can do it 4 love and what r we friends 4?its nt only 4 enjoyment, its very un4tunate because my guy don't lik keepin dirty clothes,luck me.  |
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aPr
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Yes i can wash my partners clothes . Just like you said my PARTNER we are a team.
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aPr
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Yes i can wash my partners clothes . Just like you said my PARTNER we are a team.
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Soundmind (m)
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Yea, i can do it comfortably. It will even make her to have more regard for you. If you can wash your partners undies, clothes or ven bath him/her, you are building your emotional bank on each other. If you can cook for your wife (once a while), she will ever be tied to you.
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kunle75
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it isnt a bad idea at all as long as its from a genuine heart,go ahead my landers.
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uspry1 (f)
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No big deal, i can wash my partner's clothes using wash/dry machine.
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Uzzyan (f)
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@uspry
Y not the hand
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Osibisa (m)
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i beg tell me the big deal in washing her clothes when i know i love her. make i hear word jare!
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kamura (m)
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Imma wash up her G strings and get 'em ironed sorry, i mean dry clean up her cloths with so much love |
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anurim
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why not? if a she can do same for u. it doesn't matter what u do but what u have in mind while doing it.  |
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yimiton (f)
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Yes, I will as long as he'll do likewise when the need arises.
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meggy
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Yes, no big deal! I can wash my partner's underware.
most men feel arogant to love in this area, forgetting that when you walk up to a her, what you say to her is I love u and not "I partially love u". So I believe when you say you love, u shld show love in everything.
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sir t
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@ All,
Thanks for various contributions. But don't start what you can not finish especially the guys in the house.
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ferdiii (m)
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If the guy has money and gives it out at will, the lady will ever wash his clothes including his boxers (few guys wear real undies thesedays) and it all depends if she is a graduate-mum-at-home ( many of them thesedays) or just a house-wife-at-home type.
Washing machine: you got to get the machine first and generator to power it when you need it. Help:she or he may be going into the real undies, u know where I mean. This is a family problem aside resources being wasted. Because someone is getting fed and paid and gets 'screwing' when the coupledom isn't into sincerity and faithfulness.
Guys should get ready to pay back when their spouses or partners do the laundry and that is not only in bed oh!
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pmdaboh (f)
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@Poster
Loving someone is giving to that person in a numerous of ways. And as Seun said with the invention of the washing machine, throwing clothes inside one and adding washing powder or liquid is easy.
Think of the many wives that, not only bear children and run the home, but also assist financially by working outside of the home part-time or full-time. A wife can say, "it is my husband's job to solely provide for his family--not mine", and she would be within her rights. But with expenses being what they are, most women (at least in America) contribute greatly towards the household expenses and the financial goals of the family by working.
If the husband helps wash clothes, cook, and clean sometimes and the wife works and helps provide fianncial support, then there would be more togetherness. When you draw clear lines of duties and boundaries, it usually brings some type of frustration and resentment towards their partner.
Patricia Daboh
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yewa-man (m)
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why not, if you care and love her,
that should not be a problem.
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jany (f)
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i for one av never done it for any patner but i really don't see anything wrong wit it as far as my patner is ready to return the gesture.
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Cadolso
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@ poster
Personally, don't have a problem with it.
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Shinatu
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@pmdaboh
Very nice analysis.
Have you not noticed that the African society is quick to list what a wife's responsibilities are., but when it comes to the only responsibility an African man seem to have, sentiments begin to fly, you start to hear things like
'He cannot kill himself if he does not have' but no single excuse is acceptable from the woman.
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metodman (m)
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why not, i can wash her clothes , the question u need to ask is if u can wash her gees or pants!! can u ? |
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jewelking (m)
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i just begin to wonder what is wrong in washing your wife's underwear, whatever name u like u can call me but me i can wash her gstring, bra and anything not even with a washing machine but with my hand o. i see nothing crazy about this afterall she's my wife and completely mine and part of me , y so many men are not real here |
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