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mamaput (f)
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There is nothing to get worked up about . They take 50€ for a job done. The Police here are also aware that these women have used their hair and nails to swear juju. And that they even put the house of their Family at stake. Its something that every one knows,
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romeo (m)
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they take 15€ here for doing what they call "todo incluido" which means all inclusive i.e blow jobs,massages and the main show, but most of them are turning to day jobs now because there is not much money involved, the reason is that they are having tough times having to compete with girls from Brazil and other South American countries who are very beautiful and also with girls from eastern Europe who are very cheap (and they are whites), the churches here belonging to Nigerians don't say anything against forced prostitution all because they'll loose their entire congregation for doing that and thats a funny fact. most of my friends are happy now because the summer is here and many Nigerian girls will come to our island of Mallorca for summer hustling and that means too many girls for the boys  because they will need lodging and the boys are ready to offer shelter to girls for sex, the language is like this " ol boy you need one babe? because my girlfriend sister dey come from Valencia and she no get where she go stay, make i connect you? "
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chinani (f)
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How do you know all this (i.e., prices, services) romeo? 
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geweldige
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how does he know all that, because he is one of their customers
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Old Glory (m)
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@Chinani
I think you might have a problem with understanding what you read. You changed "Bini" For "Blacks" and called it a racist statement. I am not sure where you are coming from, but i guess i cannot do the reading for you. I was not joking our making fun of anyone. I was just wondering how come Bini/Edo women have the most numbers of prostitutes in Italy/Western Europe. It is like asking why Ethiopians and Kenyans from a particular tribe do so well in Marathons. I bet over the years these women have mastered the skill of satisfying men, that is why they are in demand in those parts of the world. Please do not insult me for any reason whatsoever. If you read my post, and came to a different conclusion, then that is on you. There is nothing racist about what i said. Do you know what tribe i am from? I think you might have just been passing aggression on my from something else. Check yourself .
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Oracle (m)
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HEY ROMEO I GUESS THEY ARE CALLED putana RIGHT?
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romeo (m)
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HEY ROMEO I GUESS THEY ARE CALLED putana RIGHT?
they are called "PUTAS" how does he know all that, because he is one of their customers
I KNOW ALL THIS BECAUSE I LIVE IN SPAIN AND I HAVE SOME FRIENDS FROM BENIN, . How do you know all this (i.e., prices, services) romeo?  every young man knows this  i mean every young man , i can't be an exception!!! and i have ears and eyes
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kimba (m)
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@all, abeg, leave Romeo alone o, wats your problem, Romeo lives in Spain in the land of the Bini girls,  nothing personal Romeo, just had a good laugh. @OldGlory U must also have noticed the new exploding trend of Bini men also prostituting themselves in parts of Italy and Eastern Germany. It is a shame all over, but i hear in Benin it is not a big deal. Are you serious about this one too? I mean, if Bini Men are high on demand in Europe, then why are we talking about Bini Women. Birds of the same feather, flock together. And then in Benin, here in Nija, na normal stuff for them, perhaps, its in their genes? as in, theyve got a high-level of testosterone and serious libido, abi.
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chinani (f)
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@ Old GloryNo, I can read quite well thank you & I wrote exactly what I intended. Since you missed my point, I was showing you that saying that Bini women have an exceptional bedroom qualities that make them "superior" prostitutes is an ignorant and racist statement. Just as ignorant & racist as the statement I wrote in about "Blacks". Yes it was intentional. And if you "wonder why" then why not read or explore the link I provided instead of posting your bemusements. Yes, all are welcome to their opinions but at times, it seems that ignorance is a choice. Where am I coming from? Well, from me. Silly answer, but the only one I can think of. I'm a straight shooter. When I don't like a comment or think I can add something, then I speak up. If I'm wrong, then I'm wrong. I admit it. But, no, I don't think I'm wrong. Also, my p.o.v is that of an educated woman. This may differ from someone else's p.o.v b/c of gender (experiences) and education (not to say I am more/less educated than anyone but I do subscribe to very particular schools of thought). Alls well, didn't mean to be harsh but if I'd have let your comment fly, then I'd have been a hypocrite. Check myself? At this point, that isn't necessary, but any intelligent person needs to from time to time. When was your last appointment? @ romeoWasn't trying to give you a hard time. I was "with you" until you started quoting prices and talking about migratory sex workers. I tend to roll my eyes at bullshit like that. I take people w/ a grain of salt on a regular basis so living in Spain does not make you an expert in my opinion. I mean, the only way to be an expert on this subject is to be the sex worker, the John, or a fulltime student/apprentice.  Alls well.
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Old Glory (m)
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@Chinani
I will have to let you continue shooting, you have confused me even more at this point. I lost you in the first paragraph but keep on keeping on.I guess i am racist then.
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mamaput (f)
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When i worked for the asylum center, the Nigerian women were mostly Ibo's , Delta or that edo Bini side. Ibo's claimed stories like forced marrage or circumcision Delta what ever story and Bini Edo all were picked by police on the road and admitted to be prostitutes
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chinani (f)
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@ mamaput
Big ups for working at the asylum center first off. But are you saying that all the women were prostitutes but only the Bini women admitted it? Is the center one that you go to when first entering the country or just to get legit papers??
@ Old Glory It's whatever dude. Let's get back on topic.
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mamaput (f)
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I don't work there any more, It was the Center you go to first to claim asylum. But these girls are schooled to claim asylum ,then when they get caught by the Police. You see many people don't know that they must claim it once they get caught without papers thats why they get deported on the sport. What am saying is that most of the edo girls were caught with out papers when the police raided the place they were working. But unofficially the others went to claim it when things were getting too hot for them. There are women who come on their own and there are those that come in in the hands of Nigeria Mafia.These are are mostly Edo girls young pretty ,slim girls.
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Greatpeter (m)
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Italian police asked Benin Girl "What do you do for a living"? she said "I build and dismantle erections"  Prostitution? 
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Rottweiler (m)
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I guess the Bini girls were the first to discover the profitability of the trade overseas. Now other tribes are suffocating the market! Take it or not. They even advertise themselves in the dailies in south africa. I met a couple of the bini girls in Paris some time last year. They were putting up with a friend who happened to have married a fragile old French man. Men, I learnt a lot from them.
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romeo (m)
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@ romeoWasn't trying to give you a hard time. I was "with you" until you started quoting prices and talking about migratory sex workers. I tend to roll my eyes at bullshit like that. I take people w/ a grain of salt on a regular basis so living in Spain does not make you an expert in my opinion. I mean, the only way to be an expert on this subject is to be the sex worker, the John, or a fulltime student/apprentice.  Alls well. you can't give me hard time here, and you don't need to be with me on any issue at all, all you have to do is just say your mind and I'll say mine and the same applies to everyother person here lol, and all this bullshit of being an expert? you live in Texas and i am Europe and i can see this girls all day, all you do is read and quote websites here. you don't know anything about this girls, but i know them and some are my friends and one is here in the house reading this thread
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Old Glory (m)
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Lolol @ Romeo
I guess we have to yield to you, you are in the Eye of the storm. Good post. Do you know why this profession is dominated by Bini women or girls. Do u have an idea of their ages? And are they strictly serving the "White Italian/European men" or will they do anybody for money?
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romeo (m)
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This profession is dominated by Bini girls because it's rapidly becoming their culture, the families, friends, parents, siblings and almost the entire Bini society see no bad in this trade as long as money come in
they mostly go for any man that is not naija man, and damn it these girls are just kids, but the old ones are still everywhere
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Old Glory (m)
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Thank you much for your info. I must say you are well informed on this issue, and i like your own method of straight shooting,better than other methods.
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Idekeson (m)
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This profession is dominated by Bini girls because it's rapidly becoming their culture, the families, friends, parents, siblings and almost the entire Bini society see no bad in this trade as long as money come in they mostly go for any man that is not naija man, and damn it these girls are just kids, but the old ones are still everywhere
It may be prevalent among Edo people but it will be a far stretch to say "it's rapidly becoming their culture, the families, friends, parents, siblings and almost the entire Bini society see no bad in this trade as long as money come in" I'm not from Edo but my little knowledge of Bini people and Nigerians in general, it will be wrong to claim that prostitution is acceptable by a majority. I am sure most Bini people lead a decent life and do not support prostitution. It's akin to calling every Nigerian 419 (which already happens abroad), when most Nigerians have no clue.
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ono (m)
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Thanks Romeo. Now I know better.
I ain't gonna allow any of my brothers bring home any Bini woman.
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seeker (m)
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 Why do I love this forum?
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chinani (f)
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This thread is unfortunate. It's become a bunch of guys talking rubbish about the girls they paid to fcuk. That is pathetic. Yes, I'm in TX. But where have I been? You don't know rubbish about me, so don't pretend to have an upper hand b/c you pay for sex or know someone who does. It's lame. . . oh, it seems there's no "I must know everything b/c I live in Spain green face. I'll have to ask Seun about that.p.s. I'm gonna save my own time by not reading this shit anymore. A present from me to me.
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Old Glory (m)
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Are we all reading the same thread? Wow This lady is showing some high levels of Ignorance. Who said anything about "Paying for Sex" He(Romeo) obviously sounds like he is giving everyone a better perspective of the issue. And he does not have to give us links, and you can see the level of response he is getting.If the thread is unfortunate, simply ignore it and move on.He has an upper hand on the issue not because he "Paid for Sex" but because he lives in Spain.
@Romeo
Please Ignore her, she must have a hard time with critical thinking and comprehension. No one asked her to post on this topic and her opinions have all been from a website on this issue. Thank you for your first hand account, and if you have patronized any of these sex workers, that is your private business.
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mamaput (f)
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I cannot agree with Romeo. That they dominate the Market dose not mean that they accept it. That Its mostly Bini Girls dose not mean that they are the only one , They do it on an international level and they are sitting at the source , Thats they way they come here. I will say they are bolder than everyother Nigerian woman and they call a spade a spade. What of all the men that come . What of all those that sell them selves to fat old ugly women for paper , is that not the same thing . Left to me one can sell themselves not only for money but noone says anything about the men that are doing the same in an other way
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romeo (m)
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This thread is unfortunate. It's become a bunch of guys talking rubbish about the girls they paid to mess. That is pathetic. Yes, I'm in TX. But where have I been? You don't know rubbish about me, so don't pretend to have an upper hand b/c you pay for sex or know someone who does. It's lame. . . oh, it seems there's no "I must know everything b/c I live in Spain green face. I'll have to ask Seun about that.p.s. I'm going to save my own time by not reading this rubbish anymore. A present from me to me. i think your a small kid and for that you talk like this, your the one that should know everything because u live in TEXAS GREEN FACE, i don't care where u have been!! i move from country to country here in Europe and that is not important. I'll have to ask Seun about that isn't that a girly's talk!! and besides stop reading this thread if u feel bad
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glamrocka (f)
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Wow very interesting thread must thank the poster for raising this topic. However, cos i like to flip the coin can i say its not just bini girls that prostitue, though like i have seen in the news they are mainly in Italy and spain and they are possibly the only one with the answer to the thread . All we can do is guess here, still there are other tribes so to speak all over europe. Its really a shame about these girls and i dont care where they from now(ibo,bini,yoruba and the rest ) Ha! how nice to see everyone bash the poor bini girls, can i ask about majority of Nigerian scamming, fraudulent people we have in Britain?most of who are from the Yoruba tribe?(Its in the news all the time guys,crime watch!).Sorry but Nigerians(yoruba) count for 45% of ppl sacked due to fraud in my work place and the human resources team have had to employ very stringent recruiting measures when dealing with Nigerians, especially non residents. My cousins husband a business analyst with GSK nearly lost his job because of some shady Nigerians. I want to say lets stop this finger pointing palavar , this vice cuts through the whole country, its easy to sit hear and condemn the bini ppl. Maybe they found their niche in europe lol  just like some will say the yorubas found theirs in the US and Britain. What say you?
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ATLANTA96 (m)
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u know what u are doing is real wrong and u are using the bible to cover up your devilish activity, what do u take God for, ?
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okeyz (m)
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hi every one I quite agree wiith romeo ,everything he said about the bini's and their trade in europe is true,but mind u they are other hard working bini;s who have made their mark in different endeavours abroad,but those few has been greatly outnumbered by the majority who go abroad for prostitution.
let me explain here that in Benin it is not a new thing for girls to give them selves to mafias who used them to profit themselves for prostitution ,some go as far as soliciting the help of babalawos so they will not be deported.
It is also a point to note that the families of these girls are quite happy and comfortable to hear that their daughters are prostituting abroad,i have seen many of them and the way they behave when these girls come back with their peanuts ,if when exchanged 4 our miserable naira is a bag load full of money .
They are abusivre arrogant talk to people any how, rent canopies and block major roads with it 4 their parties or ' obito'as it is called in benin, infact how can i describe their altitude to everybody they come across, if the ladies in question wants to shop the whole family accompanies her and she is treated as a queen when she comes back with euro or dollar , believe me u dont want to know about how these girls behave when they come back from these escapades.
Some have children for their husbands and they go abroad for this kind of business only for the husband who everyone knows could not afford a new pair of sandals to be a proud owner of a tokunbo 190 benz. The list is endless,infact they now have an assocation and they binis call them 'AKATARIANS' i.e those staying abroad. i am not trying to use this to spite the bini's but this trend has gone out of hand ,even the italian and spanish government has come to know about the bini's well now .
There is a joke that the italian government now speak the bini language when they want to interrogate these prostitutes and they even greet them in bini langauge when they come across them in the street .
Even till now the girls are been trafficked out of nigeria via neighbouring african countries to western europe,some die on the way and some never make it to their destination and out of shame they remain anywhere they find themselves.
Even the first lady of the state has tried to stop this trend and rehabilitate the girls to no avail,its like the trend has gotten deep into the blood of majority of them especially those from poor and broken homes and some cartels that profit from this trend.
Other tribes do indulge in prostitution but that of the bini's has become alarming and is a kind of stigma to those bini girls that still uphold their honour
Look i can go on and on and what i have to say here will make a best seller book if i decide to talk more ,i was born in benin,schooled from nursery to university level so i can tell u what i have experienced with these people,even the guys are not left out.
i think i will stop here but if u need more info just give me an itch!
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cyl (f)
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People say Prostitution is the oldest profession so it didnt just begin today but to pen it down to one tribe is simply unacceptable.The whole of the world is filled with these women of no substance, Just like the advance free fraud(419) has spoilt our image abroad as Nigerians,so has prostitution so lets not say its only/majorly the binis because they happen to show their desperation.Come to think of it what tribe is most notorious for adultery here in 9ja?definitely not the binis, that doesnt mean that the tribes in question are the only ones that perpetuate the act, what about ritual killings,otokoto and co?that doesnt mean just the ibos are liable so this menace has eaten deep in d fabric of our society,rather than lay blames on tribes and cause stigmatisation,lets pray for our country and not sacrifice some of us.
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romeo (m)
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the question is not if they are bini or igbo( prostitutes), but the question is why are there too many binis? is it because of their culture or society? please comeback and answer me and don't try to play victim
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okeyz (m)
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the question is not if they are bini or igbo( prostitutes), but the question is why are there too many binis? is it because of their culture or society? please comeback and answer me and don't try to play victim
simple as A.B.C  ol boy u too harsh o ,make u no victimize the guy o,
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