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kennyhunnyinn (m)
Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« on: July 26, 2005, 06:36 PM »

Wel this is just about me because I am in a relationship now, and my girl is of the view that you could love 2 people at the same time.

But I told her its not possible because you might be in love with 2 people that you would not want to break their heart by saying to this one, "leave", but I still stand that even if you are in love with 2 people there would still be that 1 person amongs the 2 of them that would make you feel that sense of naturality, freeworld and happiness you know because I have been in that kind of relationship before.

I really want to hear people's opinion, you know.
hot-angel (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #1 on: July 26, 2005, 06:43 PM »

You can't love two people at the same time.  But you can over-like 100 people at the same time.  If love is what love is, then I don't think you can love two people at same time.

Just my opinion.
lordimpaq (m)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #2 on: July 26, 2005, 07:37 PM »

Well, you can't.  In fact I am in a dilemna right now.

Its quite difficult - two girls like you, you like em both.  They've both got the character that you want in a woman/lady.

What do you do.  Toss of the coin?
Seun (m)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #3 on: July 26, 2005, 10:13 PM »

hot-angel said, "if love is what love is, then I don't think you can love two people at same time."  What is love?  Are you sure you know the meaning of love?

If I love two women equally I would choose the one whose values are most similar to mine.  The one who sees the world the same way as I do.  The one whose dreams and ambitions are compatible with and complementary to mine.  Love is an emotion that comes and goes with the passing of time; one needs to have a sound practical foundation to build a relationship that will last a lifetime.
hot-angel (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #4 on: July 26, 2005, 10:32 PM »

I know the meaning of love. It's just what you said you would do.

Look at it this way, from what you said seun, Pratically you Over-like two women, Then you will choose the one that has everything similar to what you have and also the one that sees the world the same way you do. Whichever one you choose is the one you love. That's just it. you can't love both of them equally, one has to have what you want more than the other.
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #5 on: July 26, 2005, 10:51 PM »

Well, in my opinion, I think it's not possible to "fall in love" with 2 people at the same time.  That's um <I don't know the word).  Well anyways, all you hav to do is choose.  You can use 'ini menie mini mo' or something.  I know it's hard and all because I've been in those shoes before but you just have to make it work.

"Just choose which ever one you like best.  This is kind of a whack question, but anyways all decision is left to you" Wink
the fox (m)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #6 on: July 27, 2005, 12:05 AM »

  well i honestly believe that it is impossible to love two people at the same time.its not just possible
dejumotalks (m)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #7 on: July 27, 2005, 12:54 AM »

Well loving two people, I think I am in that kind of fix right now because I seem to love these two beautiful beings - one is with me and the other is far away from me.  Guys sincerely I am kind of confused because I don't want to break anybody's heart.  Please i need replies.
legry (m)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #8 on: July 27, 2005, 09:18 AM »

Of course you can love two people at the same time. You just have to choose who is suitable for her position   Wife or Mistress
lordimpaq (m)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #9 on: July 27, 2005, 10:12 AM »

Quote from: legry on July 27, 2005, 09:18 AM
Of course you can love two people at the same time. You just have to choose who is suitable for her position Wife or Mistress

yeah rite..........wife and mistress...you're absolutely joking
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #10 on: July 27, 2005, 11:01 AM »

why would u use one as your "wife" and one as "mistress"..don't phunk wit anyones heart..i don't agree wit that fact anyway..
bumbum (m)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #11 on: July 27, 2005, 11:15 AM »

emma4form@yahoo.co.uk,                                                                                                                                                             u can not love 2  people at the same time, because u will not know
who to love more and u can cause trouble between them .and u may end up marring the wrong
gay ,so also for you to know who love u sincerely.
                                           from
                                                   bumbum.
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #12 on: July 27, 2005, 11:22 AM »

er..rite..u either play one and love de other..vic versa anyways
legs (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #13 on: July 27, 2005, 12:49 PM »

"bumbum"? hmm... your user name is rather....  Roll Eyes  unique.
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #14 on: July 27, 2005, 01:10 PM »

er..yes.."bumbum", wot does it mean? Cheesy
angela k (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #15 on: July 27, 2005, 01:29 PM »

Yes, you can be in love with two people at the same time. I am an example. I am in love with my boyfriend and at the same time in love with my God. Grin
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #16 on: July 27, 2005, 02:55 PM »

yea..but that is different types of love
mosiate (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #17 on: July 27, 2005, 03:35 PM »

it's not possible to love two people equally at the same time.you must defintely love one morew than the other.
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #18 on: July 27, 2005, 03:43 PM »

yes..that is write..
take one and loose de other that is all..its just like sayin "is it possible to have 2 hearts"..can't love 2 people at de same time
stababy (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #19 on: July 27, 2005, 04:30 PM »

thank God u said a relationship,if it was marriage for life self,people marry more than one wife,but as we all there is something called polygamy
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #20 on: July 27, 2005, 05:16 PM »

 Undecided
hot-angel (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #21 on: July 27, 2005, 05:42 PM »

Bottom line.

YOU can't love two people at the same equally.
twinkledew (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #22 on: July 27, 2005, 05:49 PM »

lol. angel k. i like the way u dropped your comment. drop it like is hot.lol
hot-angel (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #23 on: July 27, 2005, 05:51 PM »

It's hot For rizzle.
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #24 on: July 27, 2005, 05:59 PM »

its heezy for sheezy y'all
hot-angel (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #25 on: July 27, 2005, 06:58 PM »

haha.... snoop doggy dogg.
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #26 on: July 27, 2005, 07:06 PM »

hehe...yeah!.

damn rite

u like snoop dogg?
hot-angel (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #27 on: July 28, 2005, 03:04 AM »

i love him... he makes me drop it like its hot!!!!!!!!
shockreaction (m)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #28 on: July 28, 2005, 08:57 AM »

The polygamous relationship has always existed... *cough*
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #29 on: July 28, 2005, 12:38 PM »

hehe..drop it likes hot!! Grin[haha u crack me up]..but hes addicted to drugs..
and hes a mother f***ing pimp

polygamous..! we talkin about a relationship here not marriage
Latoya (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #30 on: July 28, 2005, 12:50 PM »

That is very funny nike4luv i am not trying to be mean but..... it is funny."DROP IT LIKE IS HOT" Grin
nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?
« #31 on: July 28, 2005, 01:33 PM »

you damn rite bet my black @$$ it is..welcum to nairaland girl
its tight in here Wink
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