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ogrebuga (m)
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em Ono, So how do women behaves with their mouth?  LMFAO!!!! 
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nwando
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. Bia Nwando I thought you're a man, ever since I've been refering you as a man never knew you're a woman.
yes o Ozioma and femi people are always thinking I'm a man because I have no gender on my kini ROFL. I'm a full blown woman,omoge no be so?
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omoge (f)
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Na so nwanem. really full blown lady  . full on every side from up there to down there  . (make i add jara)
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nwando
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Interesting topic. And BabyOsisi aka Nwando, I hope all your entries will encourage the ''lazy'' ones among us to wake up.
But folks, I have a case in hand where a ''brother'' dated a girl of his dreams while he earned more than this girl. At the time, he was earning just above 100k per month, while the girl had just finished serving (NYSC) and was in the job market. The babe sure agreed to marry my guy, and they were living fine. The girl later got a job with pay almost 3 times that of my brother friend - in thesame company my brother friend is working, after just a couple of months - she sure had the talents, excellent grade from his school in an engineering program. She's damned pretty too. Everyone would like to have her.
Her great job not withstanding, they went ahead and got married. After some time, my brother friend came back to me for advice. He's having a rough time in there with the chick. At the slightest provocation, the girl tells him, he's supposed to know that she's the one taking care of the home and all that thrash - you know how women behaves with their mouth. He isn't planning a divorce, he just wants his marriage to work. At the moment, his wife still earns more than himself, albeit, the gap isn't as wide as before - just a couple of thousands - according to him.
How do I advise my brother friend to make his marriage of 2 years work?
My brother,you see my point. I've heard similar stories time and time again. Most men cannot handle it when wifey makes more. It does something to their manhood and everything the woman says is twisted to mean,she's making shakara because she makes more. Like omoge advised,maybe he should start looking for better opportunities. But I believe a good woman would not degrade her husband because he earns less It's a tough situation.
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nwando
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Thank Jehovah from whom all blessings flow
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omoge (f)
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gloria in excelsis deo  Thank Jehovah from whom all blessings flow
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yimiton (f)
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Marry up huh?  I've never believed in the Cinderella story neighter has it ever been my favourite.
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wendydio (f)
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:)well,i just want to say these: Women want to marry up because most men can't afford to be alone. Men "CANNOT" do without the women. 
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moondust (m)
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because marrying up is a major goal of every single woman
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oziomatv (m)
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yes o Ozioma and femi people are always thinking I'm a man because I have no gender on my kini ROFL. I'm a full blown woman,omoge no be so? Adanne dalu. Ma kedu ka eke si anyanwu that side?
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oziomatv (m)
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Na so nwanem. really full blown lady . full on every side from up there to down there . (make i add jara ) Even you omege ibu onye igbo? nna men you girls are confussing any way onweghi ihe joro njo no na afo enyi. dalu nwinyi be anyi.
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nwando
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Adanne dalu. Ma kedu ka eke si anyanwu that side?
Ekene dili Chukwu. We dey ,na cold and hunger dey kill us I think Omoge's mom is Igbo but her dad is from the West. The girl speaks Igbo,Yoruba,even Awusa sef. She's a complete Nigerian.
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oziomatv (m)
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bia nwando i burukwele oria ndi naija bata ofesi, IF PERSON FOR NAIJA DEY HUNGRY NA HARDSHIP BUT IF NA AKATERIANS NA IM BE SAY SHE DEY WATCH HER WEIGHT. TAKE M EASY A BI NA MODEL YOU BE? FOR OMOGE WEY DEY SPEAK ALL NAIJA LAGUAGES WHY SHE NO ENTER POLITICS?
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me-zainab (f)
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Would you want your sisters to marry down?Conclude your rationale when you must have answered the question.
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vescucci (m)
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Why do women always want to marry up?
uh, because guys always want to marry down? the ego thing!
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omoge (f)
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) Even you omege ibu onye igbo? nna men you girls are confussing any way onweghi ihe joro njo no na afo enyi. dalu nwinyi be anyi.
see me see trouble o 
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omoge (f)
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Nwando, no hungry o as long as we marry up  . but sha, na so we go tell them say we dey hungry for here  or else phone will be ringing around the clock  me am not asking you guys o, you must bring in the bacon. . . not just any bacon (the ikebefull and fattest one)
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Grouppoint (m)
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I hear you ladies, Omoge, Nwando.
But what then happens if, a few years down the line, the husband's fortunes start to dwindle? The bacon come begin lean small.
You go run leave am?
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joshjosh (m)
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apart from upside and downside business in marriage, where is love as a motive for a relationship in our lifestyle? i was discussing with one of my siblings when i was in Nigeria recently and was quite shocked to hear her opinions about marriage being what you can do for me more than anything else
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Bodiga (m)
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is it the yoruba in them? hmm! we will never know, ok! maybe it's the old age thing
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nigboy (m)
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Marriage is a priority to every Nigerian woman. it is normal for a woman to marry up
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nakedworld
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Well this days of ours, we they hear different english which one be 'MARRY UP' everybody don become Wole Soyinka finish
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ariblaze (m)
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sir if you don't
understand what marry up
means maybe its a cue for you
not to contribute to the thread
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afroasian (m)
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as much as women want to marry up, no man wants to MARRY DOWN and descend into povety.
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holythug (m)
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orisirisi 
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yong babe (f)
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God will remove every poor man from my path, AMEN. Y would i want to marry down?? when i can marry UP?? Afta i don live with ma papa come chop him money, una go come expect me to marry down?? God forbid! marring some 1 from ma level is bearable. howeva i must love the guy before i marry, and not just 4 money. any body that says money doesn't mater in a relationships is lying! money buys gucci bags, gucci bags make wife happy, wife makes husband happy, husband and wife transmit happines to kids, all this adds up to one happy family! up up Jesus, down down Satan  Nwando n Omoge i am lovin your posts.
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bikokwe (m)
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wetin dey fear me na the kind of "mountain of fire" prayer all the sister dey pray when it comes to issues like this.they pray with HOLY ANGER something like
where ever he is, right now i command u locate me by FIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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asada (m)
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sir if you don't
understand what marry up
means maybe its a cue for you
not to contribute to the thread
bros abeg!!! no be say na rap you dey rap easy 4 them.
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ariblaze (m)
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bros abeg!!! no be say na rap you dey rap easy 4 them.
and by this you mean?
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afroasian (m)
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@yong babe money buys gucci bags, gucci bags make wife happy, wife makes husband happy, husband and wife transmit happines to kids, all this adds up to one happy family!
I like your mathematics. but what if gucci stops making its bags, what next kai.
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dove22 (f)
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naturally,everybody wants to step up
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okeyz (m)
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wetin dey fear me na the kind of "mountain of fire" prayer all the sister dey pray when it comes to issues like this.they pray with HOLY ANGER something like
where ever he is, right now i command u locate me by FIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 lmfao ol boy no be small thing o ,i think say na only me dey notice am oooo the prayer sef come dey fear me ooo,the guys wey no hold ,fire go burn them abi na wetin? i beg i go do make i hammer ooo make fire no burn me ooo I PRAY NOW THAT MONEY SHOULD LOCATE ME BY FIRE !!!!!!!! THE LADIES SHOULD SHOUT A RESOUNDING AMEN TO THAT !!!!
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