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stillwater (f)
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Oops sorry gotten what I needed. Thanks everyone
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ifyalways (f)
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are you a male or a female  update your profile first  |
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stillwater (f)
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Geez, it looks as if nairaland is devoid of experts on this post  |
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ndubest (m)
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, It may be from your temperament but even if that is the case, you need to open up by working on it
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.may be you have a "complex" when it comes to your family so
, think of opening up to your female friends, esp the ones you can trust to keep sealed lips
, next you can open up to an opposite sex if u hv any u can trust
, try chatting up with someone on the phone or internet if u are too scared to reveal your identity
, just use a pseudoname and try sharing your world view on your area of interest and see the person's response
try with two or three persons
its a gradual thing and before you know it u can stand on your own and build your character especially in dealing with your family member
lastly you may also check the post on depression just in case u fall into any of the catergories
have a nice day
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stillwater (f)
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, It may be from your temperament but even if that is the case, you need to open up by working on it
.
.may be you have a "complex" when it comes to your family so
, think of opening up to your female friends, esp the ones you can trust to keep sealed lips
, next you can open up to an opposite sex if u hv any u can trust
, try chatting up with someone on the phone or internet if u are too scared to reveal your identity
, just use a pseudoname and try sharing your world view on your area of interest and see the person's response
try with two or three persons
its a gradual thing and before you know it u can stand on your own and build your character especially in dealing with your family member
lastly you may also check the post on depression just in case u fall into any of the catergories
have a nice day
Thank you very much. I'm not temperamental, too quiet for my own liking. I don't have close friends. If someone is getting too close I shy away. This is the closest I've ever opened up and admitting I have a communication problem. |
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ndubest (m)
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, Accepting that you have a problem is a big step in the right direction
, they next thing is working on it
, do your best to open up to someone since u hv already started it on nairaland
, you definitely shy away from people that u know and know u, so try people u don't know and don't allow them to know you either
, that way it will help you to assert yourself and come out of your LIFE MAZE
, best of wishes
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stillwater (f)
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, Accepting that you have a problem is a big step in the right direction
, they next thing is working on it
, do your best to open up to someone since u hv already started it on nairaland
, you definitely shy away from people that u know and know u, so try people u don't know and don't allow them to know you either
, that way it will help you to assert yourself and come out of your LIFE MAZE
, best of wishes
Thank you very much  |
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PTH (m)
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Not a problem IMO. I do have the same issues too and sometimes it can be frustrating but overtime you have to learn to accept yourself the way you are.
One thing though, it may be that you do see yourself as inferior to others. I had that problem when i first entered college but thank God i learnt to overcome it and i grew to be a better person.
Put your energy into something you love doing, try and get out as much as you can. Church, a hobby . . . anything that keeps you constantly in the company of others. Soon u'll start enjoying life and learn to open up a bit more. Dont beat yourself, there are millions like you.
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stillwater (f)
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Thanks PTH
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Gbemyte (f)
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strillwater i can understand your plight but u can be happy as everyone is, just free your mind.I ll like to be your friend. u can get me on 08029094184 or grecheal@yahoo.com |
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