She Doesn't Care If He Cheats, As Long As She Doesn't Know

Why do you ask? Are you interested in keeping a string of girls after you get married?

she seems very confident to me. she says she knows a man will always cheat, so shes resigned herself to it. when she was single she dated a few married men herself. she doesn't believe a man can ever be truly faithful. so as long as he keeps it away from her. she 'll pretend it doesn't exist.

da is such a senseless marriage

I don't think I'll ever cheat. I f my wife does I'll be really livid if I get to hear about it. I'll only sit her down and ask her why she did that when I still love her. From there, it depends on her response. . .

What you don't know would not hurt you,  but then again like Rhodalyn said she could  be doing her own thang on d side.

@ Onyibaby
I think that's a misconception. What you don't know can hurt you. Think HIV/AIDS. That's real & I've met women who got it from their husbands. Also an STD like HPV has been linked to cervical cancer. Syphilis can kill you. The list goes on.

Do you really want to leave yourself open to this? I don't think most women would be accepting of this. I wouldn't for one. I mean, I don't gamble with money, so why gamble with my life

@ 2cantango
Your last post was right on the money. Why even be in a relationship? I really don't get it.

if he cheat let it be behind my back

All men do not cheat. Alot of men take thier marriages seriously and work hard at maintaining it. People will be tempted including women.  Your friend was selling herself to the highest bidder before she got married. Her husband probably knows that so he probably has no respct for her. If she had no problem sleeping with married men, I can guarantee you that her husband is cheating thinking in his head that she too is more than likely cheating also.

@poster!

That is a very smart woman!  I like her principles and by all indications, I think she will have a very successful marriage. You never have to worry about a stray dog.  He will always obey his master's whistle.  Dog na dog!


The fact that a dog smells has never deterred people from owning them as pets!

I'm sure she has caught him by now

I'm good jare & u?

thats what I told my bf before. I told him that if he has ever cheated me, ensure that he clear his tracks and dont let me know. Its because I really love him and I could not bare to see the bad side of him. thats why, yeah. . . but this dude dey tell me everything and many times he made me really upset. . .


good. I hope you guys maintain it that way so that we ladies would have space kept for us in heaven when we die. Happy meeting with satan and Hitler. 

It has once been said,'All dogs dey chop shit, na the one wey use am rub mouth na im dem dey catch'.

So in the real sense 'All' men cheat (or so they say) but only those that get caught are labelled as cheaters.

I ain't a cheater though. . .

old post or not, i'd drop mine

@ poster this is what  lot of nigerian women do
this is cos in Naija we make excuses for our men. "its a guy thing" "they are dogs" blah blah

@2cantango its not about whther she cheated in the past or not. in fact experience and life has shown that in most cases its the 'good' ones who this happens to. take an example from my aunt she married her husband a virgin never cheated on him alwasy efficient and all that, but now some 20 years on, he is an aristo father he doesn't 'put it in her face" but he's bin caught a couple of times. i wld spare you the other tales i have.

@ everyone who thinks all men cheat- not all men cheat, you just have to knw that.

anyways if he's cheating on you whether he's caught or not or you hear things from pple the truth is you wld know,  word.
whether you wanna deny it while you know he's cheating which is what most pple do is up to you, but for me oh, karma is it