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pyramid777 (m)
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Hi people, i really need your advice fassst because it seems my flat mate who i've been squating for the past 2 1/2 years is really showing a lot of negative attitude towards my fiancee due to the fact that i jilted my former girlfriend who is his candidate for me & also the same tribe with him. It's really getting very intolerable & i don't know if i should tell my flatmate to quit my house because we both work in the same bank & we've known each other since our nysc days even though he is ibo & i'm yoruba while i have been dating my fiancee for about six months now. I really love my fiancee & my flatmate has proven to be a very good friend on different occassions, what do i do  Who do i turn against or support, i don't want to take any decision that i might regret ! |
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$ammy (m)
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My friend,I don't see this as an issue,If he doesn't like her,then he should go to blazes or are you planning to still stay with him even after the marrige.Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.I don't think in this case his opinion should count as he is neither your father nor your mother
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stefykarl
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Hey!
I don't see this a problem because is your life unless you have a secret affair with him and i don't understand how your friend should be squirting with you for 2 $half years is weird men. if you are straigth he is moimoi case
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uspry1 (f)
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Probably your flatmate is totally jealous of you getting fiancee while he does not have one. Why not you be matchmaker finding a mate for your flatmate in order to leave you and your fiancee alone?
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kunle75
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yes you're rigth @sammy,
But why don't u feel a bit diplomatic about it since he said they av been 2gether for a while ,the poster shld call his friend and let him realize that he is entitle to his own choice then if he remain adamant then he can the go blazes.
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Busta (f)
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Who u gon marry?
ur fiancee or ur flat mate?
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yimiton (f)
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You aren't going to live with him for ever neigther is he going to be married to your wife with you.
Ignore him and go on with your life.
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aysometin (f)
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@ sammy, Thats my opinion as well. Flatmate ke? ?? When parents have not talked. Abeg leave story jo. |
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sweetberry (f)
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tell him to butt off your life or he should give you a valid reaon for not wantin you to be with her.
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