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gud9ija (m)
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100% trust why not? Well i advise you put that into a relationship if and only if you are sure of your parachute! Parhaps u've got the best SHOCK ABSORBER! Guys give it a try!  |
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Millena (m)
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There should be much trust in a relationship to get it going, but You definitely can't trust any man 100%. even the Bible says that it is better to put our trust in God than in man (Psalm 118:  . So, I can't trust myself to give any man/woman 100% trust. That is foolishness. Thats overtrusting em. |
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Elgaxton (m)
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Hmmmm Why not? Trust her 100% as in 100% to do the wrong things and 100% to do the right things  That's women for u! |
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dremoney (m)
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personally,
i doubt the possibility of having an 100% trust for my wife/Gfriend n vice-versa.
sm situations byond her/my control might warrant either of us to cheat/b unfaithful, its onli logical and natural.
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dremoney (m)
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 Thank you jare, looks like you and I are in the minority. I honestly feel sorry for anyone who doesn't have that peace of mind and comfort from having someone you can trust 100% - aren't they always worried and wondering? what a way to have a relationship! small wonder many don't last. cnt help bt laughwhat even made your own case worse is the location, your possibility of loving 100% tonight,wake up d nxt morning n hate 200% hahahahahahahahahahahah |
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sholashola
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I don't think 100% trust is possible. And if possible, it is definately not advisable though trust is a basis for any relationship but it can't be 100%- just God.
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jiogah (m)
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1000% trust HOW? my dear it's tooo risky.but if u'r good at taking risks, no long tin.with the rate at which gals are sharp. You wan kil yr self
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holythug (m)
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haba. . . o boy 20% sef too much u wan die. . . . . . when dey slap it on your face u now run d streets . . .
don't need to finish d statement 
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bodejohn (m)
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There was once a time in the singles' fellowship
of my that church this topic came up as a debate.
It was about love and trust and the one that comes first.
We should approach this with utmost sincerity and
passion as some of what we call relationships today
results in marriage tomorrow. I can't imagine what i or
anybody else should be doing in a relationship which i know
deep within myself that i can not give 100% of my trust.
What goes around comes around, if i am not ready to give
100% i cannot get 100%. As a matter of fact i cannot love
who i cannot trust 100%. It also does not take away the fact
that people change. Should we say because people pass away
in their sleep we will stop sleeping?
if i ever find myself in a relationship where my trust drops to 99%,
i will call the girl and break it up at once.
Not been able to trust our fiancee / spouse is a
sign of the dept of infidelity in our society.
It is just a cover up of our inconsistency to compare
the trust we have to God to that which we display to other people.
They are both not the same. If we cannot trust the people we see,
how much more God that we do not see.
Jesus Christ himself comfirmed this by saying how can you claim
you love a God that you have not seen when you
cannot show same love to people around you.
I have stayed on the two sides i,e being single
and now married and i can say that it is better to get
someone you can trust 100% than jumping from one
person to another in the name of i can't trust 100%.
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macgozy (m)
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Trust no one!!! that's a commandment
60% trust should do 4 both parties
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anyakarl (m)
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In any relationship except in marriage, trust shudn't be even close to 70% because we are all human beings. We could stray at anytime. 4 instance when there is a long distance between d, , anything can happen u won die |
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michelin89 (f)
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It's even impossible as a human to trust another human 100% so there is no room for discussion.
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Jezzy (f)
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Can I trust someone a 100% in a relationship?
Yes.And if I can't,then I won't be in a relationship with him.
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royalyinx (m)
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According to what has happened to me before,i'D just say you should be prepared for anything anytime so its better you trust yourself than to put so much of your trust in your partner
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Tawak (f)
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SURE
INFACT MUCH MOR DAN 100%,IF NYTIN LIK DAT EXIST
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alineh (f)
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 but how will it work out without trust? every person go appear to you according to how you perceive that person.all wetin you go do na to see am for your spirit eye say the person no go disappoint you,dey pray for am so that him go dey focus,because na lack of focus dey make people no dey trustworthy again.Life is spiritual you know. see the best in people and trust them to do what they SHOULD,and not what they want.
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Nmeka (m)
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no, never! u should never giv anybody your 100 percnt trust, it should be okk 4 d relationship, not totally, u cud wreck yourself n thaz what drives people to commit suicide once d trusted one fucks up, me i say no.
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keenchiori (m)
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100% trust on a mortal is far too much. Say may be 60% or, cause when you trust someone, you get tied of them quickely.
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michelin89 (f)
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So much illusion. Idealists!
Be more realistic!
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odiaseo (m)
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no, never! u should never give anybody your 100 percent trust, it should be OK 4 d relationship, not totally, u cud wreck yourself n thaz what drives people to commit suicide once d trusted one fucks up, me i say no. Trust should be 100% in a relationship from both parties if true love really exists. The truth about love is that you empower the person you love with the ability to hurt you the most. We cannot change that fact, it is how love works. However in loving someone, you must give room for mistakes and errors because we are human.Only God is perfect so if our dearly loved ones goofs we should turn to God for strength and not commit suicide |
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Love and trust should go together.and i don't think there is anything like 100% trust sha because whether u like it or not there will be doubts at one point or the other. we are humans so we are bound to have second thoughts i love my swetheart and i trust him to do some things and not to do some but can i really measure the trust by percentage? i don't think so and wont lie about that one love |
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odiaseo (m)
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i don't think there is anything like 100% trust sha because whether u like it or not there will be doubts at one point or the other. I suppose that why dating / courtship is important so one can disperse whatever doubts exist before committing to marriage. If both parties are in a godly relationship 100% trust can be achieved. It is possible not to have 100% trust in a relationship where they are sleeping together. In my opinion why should you trust a person 100% when God cannot trust him/her. If they can sleep together without getting married, what stops them from doing so with someone else or even in marriage. It is the believe that you partner has the fear of God that gives one the confidence to trust 100%. You cannot be with the person all the time so you definitely don't know what the person would be up to or can do. But knowing that the person loves God and fears Him, you can trust 100% |
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wealthyman (m)
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There was once a time in the singles' fellowship
of my that church this topic came up as a debate.
It was about love and trust and the one that comes first.
We should approach this with utmost sincerity and
passion as some of what we call relationships today
results in marriage tomorrow. I can't imagine what i or
anybody else should be doing in a relationship which i know
deep within myself that i can not give 100% of my trust.
What goes around comes around, if i am not ready to give
100% i cannot get 100%. As a matter of fact i cannot love
who i cannot trust 100%. It also does not take away the fact
that people change. Should we say because people pass away
in their sleep we will stop sleeping?
if i ever find myself in a relationship where my trust drops to 99%,
i will call the girl and break it up at once.
Not been able to trust our fiancee / spouse is a
sign of the dept of infidelity in our society.
It is just a cover up of our inconsistency to compare
the trust we have to God to that which we display to other people.
They are both not the same. If we cannot trust the people we see,
how much more God that we do not see.
Jesus Christ himself comfirmed this by saying how can you claim
you love a God that you have not seen when you
cannot show same love to people around you.
I have stayed on the two sides i,e being single
and now married and i can say that it is better to get
someone you can trust 100% than jumping from one
person to another in the name of i can't trust 100%.
well said what more can i add. thanx bro,all the best in your marriage,your marriage will be full of lafta and joy |
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vanstanzy
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[b][/b]100% ???u want 2 giv yourself a heartattack?d 1 my babe handed me is an eye opener,that only GOD ALMIGHTY deserves our 100% trust.
She no f--k up sha!i was just very disappionted and so hurt by her action.Some level of trust is advisable though.
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bissy44 (f)
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Actually to me it depend on both parties, if dey re faithful to each other why not but if it is d other way round it will not be possibe. my bros.
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powerblaze (m)
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I think you guys and some of you ladies are stating the exact reason why you don't succeed in relationships. How can two work together except they agree? Trust is in levels. You can't start at 100%, but that should be your aim, for only then can you find true peace. We just decieve ourselves. We don't trust anyone, yet we want to be trusted. Neva works like that. |
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metro (m)
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I think you guys and some of you ladies are stating the exact reason why you don't succeed in relationships. How can two work together except they agree? Trust is in levels. You can't start at 100%, but that should be your aim, for only then can you find through peace. We just decieve ourselves. We don't trust anyone, yet we want to be trusted. Neva works like that. i concor bro u can't get what u don't av and perfection is not attained in one day |
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GeeCee (m)
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100% trust is an illusion; it never exist. I don't even expect it from anyone.
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holythug (m)
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notin is 100%
but a little ll do
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holythug (m)
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notin is 100%
but a little ll do
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tulk2mi
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Never trust anybody in your life is a usual advice
Many said i trust God 100% , do u really?
If u cannot trust man whom u have seen how can u claim to trust GOD whom u have not seen
God is Love and God trust man despite man's failures
Just as many claim I love my spouse, yet u can't trust him/her a 100%.
True to type many will disappoint u that should not stop u frm trusting. Those who do not trust r merely echoing what they r, not trust worthy "man wey dey kill person with cutlass no dey want make person take pen knife pass im back"
If u truly love somebody u can trust them a 100% just as your kids love u n dey look up to u as there hero with wide trusting eyes. they trust u 100% but as they grow up they come to discover that u don't even trust yourself then how can they trust u.
again people don't stop falling in love because somebody they love broke their heart just as people don't stop goin 2 da hospital because somebody died there, u trust that when your sick n u go there they will put in their best 2 get u beta.
So 4 all those who have been disappointed by those they trust try trusting again maybe we can change the trust no body to trust everybody untill then just be true 2 yourself r u trustworthy?
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