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kabo (m)
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My gal is too possessive and i really love her, what should i do?
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almondjoy (f)
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Being possessive is a sign of insecurity and has nothing to do with love. With possessiveness comes lack of respect, physical, verbal and emotional abuse. This lady in question may never respect your feelings and may be used to intimidating and slapping men around.
Any woman that considers you her personal property does not love you. Being possessive has nothing to do with caring.
The bad news is that you love her. I guess the "possessiveness" is the main attraction to you that makes you feel special.
Goodluck!
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Seun (m)
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What is "love", why is it important, and how are you so sure it can't co-exist with possessiveness?
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almondjoy (f)
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Love is freedom of spirit and wellbeing, possessions are owned and can be sold at will. Cannot exist together in any relationship that is healthy.
I would rather be respected, cherished, nortured and pampered. That is love. I never want to be a "possession" or have a possessive partner. I can never grow in such an environment. I do not want to "possess" anyone either. While there should be mutual respect in any relationship, being possessive is not a healthy emotion and is for people who like to be control freaks! Chidish I say. Most relationships with "possissiveness" often have people that are unhappy and feel trapped like prisoners. What a sad way to live. That is not love.
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efuah (f)
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@almondjoy, i can't agree less. I wish i can hear from u each day like my BB  |
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Siena (m)
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@almondjoy, i can't agree less. I wish i can hear from u each day like my BB Aww! Hi LS! Missed you!  @ Militia: Missed you too. Lines of communication are fully open!  |
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Busta (f)
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@ almondjoy
Thumbs up,
Very well said!
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almondjoy (f)
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Thank you ma people! |
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almondjoy (f)
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@almondjoy, i can't agree less. I wish i can hear from u each day like my BB Okay, sis-in-law. Pardon my laziness. This holiday season just makes me so lazy with all the food I have been eating. Aww! Hi LS! Missed you! @ Militia: Missed you too. Lines of communication are fully open! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! Honey, I can't wait! I have so much to tell you!  Stay tuned. This holiday vacation madness will soon be over. Love your car!!!!!!  |
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kunle75
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@almondjoy,
thats awhole lots of words,men u are too much, but i hope u are as good in reality as u are on paper?
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efuah (f)
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Aww! Hi LS! Missed you! Missing u too . . . pls call now (family issues)  Okay, sis-in-law. Pardon my laziness. This holiday season just makes me so lazy with all the food I have been eating. Food u've been eating, take am easy o! dnt start bulging or else my BB will  |
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uspry1 (f)
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@poster
Have you solved what you do yet?
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clemcykul
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well since shes too possessive i suggest u posses her also |
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