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nikke
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we are dating after i left his house on Saturday failed to call me on phone or flash me today is the fifth day i left,does it mean he is no longer interested or what?moreover am deeply in love with him.need your advice.NB it looks as if he charmed me or what because i can't stay without thinking of him although we have not made love.the funny thing there is that i can't call or flash him,want him to call me let it not be am going after him so much.so tell me whats going on?
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arianne (f)
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obviously your love-struck than he is, please don't make a fool of yourself lettin your emotion overwhelm u. men can be like dogs atimes (no offense intended), they need to roam a little before they finally come home. if he wants to be with u, he'll eventually come around. your a queen so i'll advice u sit on your throne.
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nikke
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thanks very much Arrianna,love your advice is a good one.am strengthened now.
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zignor (m)
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If you can't call him, then why are you disturbing yourself 
If you think that you're a queen, then wait for him to call you 
FYI . . .Love is both ways 
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Easybaby (f)
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@zignor
Really? 
@poster
why not call him and know whether he is ok
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nikke
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i believe he is ok,otherwise he would have called to tell me that.
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mellow (m)
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We have slow thinkers and slow actors. He will come around to
acting well inventually.
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rosecare (f)
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if am where you i will not call him i will wait to see what he can do
my sister take heart
you hear
such is life!!!!!!
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kkycee (m)
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it seems the guy sees you as just a friend.call him if you care about him.b/4 it becomes too late
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bennygee (m)
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there's no harm in callin him.
he's just a friend and maybe he's the shy type.
i for one don't really like callin most times.
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rosecare (f)
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sister never mind sit where u re watch the guy what he will do it left for the guy to call you (laugh)  such is life!!!!!!!!! |
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Busta (f)
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obviously your love-struck than he is, please don't make a fool of yourself lettin your emotion overwhelm u. men can be like dogs atimes (no offense intended), they need to roam a little before they finally come home. if he wants to be with u, he'll eventually come around. your a queen so i'll advice u sit on your throne.
Well said, WORD! |
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nekkyo (f)
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if u love him u should be humble enough to call him. as we ladys take our time to start romantic relationships more than the men, some guys too do same b/c some guys can be emotional too and may be he is that type. be humble enough to call him with time he will respond on same frequency with u. i beleive what will be will be.a man u even asked out yourself migth turn out to mary u it doesn't really matter that girlish believe. go for him if u love him because thats what i will do if i were u''''''''''''''''''''''
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kerzakov (m)
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you said you left his house on a saturday. that means he has gotten what he wanted and peharps you are now history. take heart. it happens atimes
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nikke
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i don't think so because i never made love with him.we only romance,so whats it he has really gotten
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Finecat (m)
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@Busta
Are you a feminist ??
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Busta (f)
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@Busta
Are you a feminist ??
lol . . Maybe I am why that question? |
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nikke
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are you following up,hope your okay??? referring to@finecat
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Finecat (m)
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@Busta
Because you seem so pessimistic about guys in general. By the way, are you in any relationship? Just kind of wondering.
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nikke
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that is wot am saying ,my recent guy refuse calling me since over 6days now
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Finecat (m)
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@Nikke
Look here babygirl, Most guys are usually intimidated by females, especially fine females. Take your time with him and don't jump into conclussion, trust me as much as you are thinking about him, his thinking about you too. Be matured about the whole thing and send him a xmas greetings or call him to wish him a xmas wishes. If you feel like this guy is worth your time, pay attention to him unless he mess up. If he is a flower that makes your heart glow, don't kill the flower with the toxic called " Pride " and don't kill the flower with the " Nigerian girl" mentality. Listen less to "Ayamatangas" like Busta and them, they are oozing with that "Nigerian girl pride". Most of them end up losing good things. I'm not saying for you to chase this man but don't drive him away with pride. Reciprocate any good gestures from him with tenderness. Ok Pumpkin?
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nikke
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interesting reply but wot do you mean by pumpkin?
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Finecat (m)
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@Nikke
Pumpkin is synonym for a sweetheart ! It's a slang. OK?
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