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nwando
What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« on: December 20, 2007, 12:35 AM »

My my my !
I had a medical assistant from Central America,whose brother was married to a girl that also worked in our office.
The medical assistant told me a secret that had been eating her up.
Her brother had been cheating on his wife and even had a baby by the mistress and the poor  sister in law working in the same office  had no clue.

I felt so guilty that this poor wife had no knowledge of this and everyday I saw her my heart was so grieved for her and I could not tell her a thing.
Thankfully she later found out on her own and told me about it and up till today,she never found out I knew of her husband's mistress well before she did.
so what was the hardest secret you ever kept
jayvin01
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #1 on: December 20, 2007, 12:49 AM »

hmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn my bros knows my ID here Grin.  . . . .  if i say it then my balls are gon fry. . . so lets just keep it *secret!!* Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy no no no f*ck No Tongue
D-reloaded (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #2 on: December 20, 2007, 12:51 AM »

I'm so good I'm still going to keep it  Tongue

What did the wife do?
nwando
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #3 on: December 20, 2007, 12:56 AM »

 she filed for divorce
It was so terrible,I knew of the mistresses baby's birthday parties,the husbands trips out of state to see the mistress.
I felt so awful.
RichyBlacK (m)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #4 on: December 20, 2007, 07:34 AM »

Quote from: nwando on December 20, 2007, 12:56 AM
she filed for divorce
It was so terrible,I knew of the mistresses baby's birthday parties,the husbands trips out of state to see the mistress.
I felt so awful.

nwando,
You are an accomplice to cheating, deceit and heart-break. May God forgive you. Grin

Ask yourself one question: Had the woman not found out on her own, what would you have done?
iice (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #5 on: December 20, 2007, 01:02 PM »

Not so hard for mehold lots of secrets Grin Grin
malaika (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #6 on: December 20, 2007, 01:04 PM »

My best friend's boyfriend was killed in a car accident, her very first love.  Cry  At his funeral I found out that he died while driving back from his other girlfriend's place, and the other girl was also at the funeral crying. My friend didn't know and I kept if from her since I wanted her to have good memories of him and their relationship. Everytime she talked about him I felt bad that I knew he'd been a cheater but decided to keep it to myself for her sake. She found out more than 2 years later from someone else and was very upset. I had to tell her that I'd known all along but didn't want to spoil her memory of him, she wasn't happy with me,  but we're ok now!  Cheesy
efuah (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #7 on: December 20, 2007, 02:47 PM »

I was never able to tell my roommate that her boyfriend is dating my coursemate (cheating/doubledating). . . i cldn't cus i aint an angel of doom/deliverer of bad news! Lips sealed
Busta (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #8 on: December 20, 2007, 05:05 PM »

@TOPIC,

why come out here and spill it when it is supposed to be the "hardest secret i've ever kept??

sorry, not telling.
nwando
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #9 on: December 20, 2007, 06:44 PM »

Quote from: RichyBlacK on December 20, 2007, 07:34 AM
nwando,
You are an accomplice to cheating, deceit and heart-break. May God forgive you. Grin

Ask yourself one question: Had the woman not found out on her own, what would you have done?

no way richy
I was just an innocent girl caught up in a web that was spun by a cheating man.
I couldn't wait for the lady to find out her hubby was a dog
I just couldn't be the one to spill the beans
ifyalways (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #10 on: December 20, 2007, 11:31 PM »

lots but i wont tell Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed
almondjoy (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #11 on: December 21, 2007, 12:11 AM »

Plenty. I can never, ever reveal them oooooooooooooooooooooooh!  Chai!  Even on ma death bed! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm! They are only between me and God!  Impossible. Shocked

E get some things when ears no dey hear a beg oooooooooooooooooooooooooooh! Cheesy
holythug (m)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #12 on: December 22, 2007, 07:36 AM »

its a secret. . . .its still a secret
Finecat (m)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #13 on: December 23, 2007, 02:27 PM »

@Topic

Boy o Boy, this one is tough. I used to work for a telecommunication company and there used to be a husband and wife that works in the same company. They are young couple and recently got married. The wife is my shift manager in my section but the husband work in another section, different shift. This woman liked me so much i could see it all over her face and her husband is a friend too. Before long, i was getting jiggy with it in her office after work in the evening. And she loved it too but i feel so bad everytime i see the husband. It was catch 22 for me because she was very fine and if i turned down her advances, i didn't know what was going to happen to my job. But anyways it's over now and i won't do that again. 
angelchi (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #14 on: December 24, 2007, 07:08 PM »

if i talk am, hw e wan tak be secret again?
holythug (m)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #15 on: December 29, 2007, 08:49 AM »

Deseo que puedà casarme à la mujer más hermosa en la tìerra y hacer otro Trôy  Cool
adeboo (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #16 on: December 29, 2007, 07:53 PM »

I learn a secret everyday at work cause i work with social workers and there are people / families i know that i have seen their files and know whats happening in their homes.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #17 on: December 30, 2007, 08:48 AM »

Then it wouldn't be a secret again.  Lips sealed
goodguy (m)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #18 on: January 30, 2008, 08:39 PM »

Why are all the "secrets" here all about cheating, cheating and cheating?  Is that the only kind of secret you folks can keep?  I need something more interesting abegi. Grin
mama orga (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #19 on: February 05, 2008, 11:48 AM »

 Oops its a secret i nearly said it on nairaland
sorry i aint telling
thats why its a secret
duuuuuuuhhhhhh Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
aisha2 (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #20 on: February 05, 2008, 12:00 PM »

I once went to see a friend of mine who had just given birth and she requested that i get her baby bag from her room for her cause she was still sore from stiches, I got to her room and was looking for the baby bag, when her dog of a husband came and grabbed me from behind and started saying rubbish. I struggled free and held back the temptation of giveing him a dirty slap so my friend would not hear. I calmly went back to the sitting room and since then i have refused to go to her house or tell her, now i hear the goat has impregnanted their housemaid and almost raped her sister. She sent both the sister and housemaid packing accusing them of setting her husband up, I know i should have said something especially when she nags me about not coming to her house but I am a coward, anytime i want to speak up my lips become heavy. 
dellynash (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #21 on: February 05, 2008, 12:53 PM »

i can't say it, it is a secret
jkpretty (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #22 on: February 05, 2008, 02:43 PM »

oh gosh! deadly secrets Shocked Shocked Shocked
abbey10 (m)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #23 on: February 05, 2008, 04:44 PM »

Shagged my relation.
I couldnt tell anyone.
She died last year.
annamaria
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #24 on: February 06, 2008, 05:04 PM »

Quote from: abbey10 on February 05, 2008, 04:44 PM
Shagged my relation.
I couldnt tell anyone.
She died last year.
that's a tough one.
My family members don't know I lived in Ghana and returned to Nigeria and lived for about 2 years before eventually going to England. No one in my family knows till today. Only my ex's family know.
+osisi
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #25 on: February 06, 2008, 05:10 PM »

Quote from: annamaria on February 06, 2008, 05:04 PM
that's a tough one.
My family members don't know I lived in Ghana and returned to Nigeria and lived for about 2 years before eventually going to England. No one in my family knows till today. Only my ex's family know.

na wa.
+osisi
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #26 on: February 06, 2008, 05:11 PM »

Quote from: abbey10 on February 05, 2008, 04:44 PM
Shagged my relation.
I couldnt tell anyone.
She died last year.

please don't tell them at all.
It'll reopen wounds.
annamaria
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #27 on: February 06, 2008, 05:36 PM »

Quote from: +osisi on February 06, 2008, 05:10 PM
na wa.
Wink What is the war, my dear? This is the vault of secrets, init?
spoilt (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #28 on: February 07, 2008, 04:24 AM »

my best kept secret will die with me. I relocated to keep this secret safe. i refuse to be hypnotized, go under anaestasia or drink too much just so i don't get woozy and blurt it out. Ive justified my actions to myself. I just don't need to get anyone's ears burnt with my secret.  Undecided
4Him (m)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #29 on: February 07, 2008, 07:12 AM »

a secret i will take to heaven with me.
There are peeps here who can easily decode it if i said it. Yes you pataki.  Tongue
didiomos
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #30 on: April 13, 2008, 06:23 PM »

secrets!!!! opps sorry some close freinds have my id.  Lips sealed

on second tots i ll register again wit another id.

i will back when am done!! Grin Grin Grin
spoilt (f)
Re: What Was The Hardest Secret You Ever Kept?
« #31 on: April 13, 2008, 06:48 PM »

why do you guys give others your nairaland Id?
No one on the face of the earth knows my Id so i can blarb about whatever.  Cool
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