Too Choose Between My Work Or Getting Married?

It's your choice.  The funny thing is that
you can get a better job elsewhere or start your own business,
but you can't get married or find a new husband that easily.
Also, your boss can sack you at any time, for any reason.
A career you don't control is not worth any personal sacrifices.

i concur! Blessing from marriage is worth more than a Job!


Speaking from xperience!,  . just be self employ and get married.

tell your hopeless boss to stop insulting your husband to be.
he is sick. A symtom of a typical one man business or enterprise.


you could still lose your job afterall.

Your husband to be should have answered this question not us,
  he is in position to say dam this job let's get on with our life or dance to the tune of your admirer(Boss)
     Tell us your relationship with your boss cause no smoke without fire.
        you check your husband's financial capacity, if it's strong quit the job

If it happened exactly the way u said it,

QUIT THE NONSENSE JOB.

But I can't beleived it happened like that. I never heard of such tales. I can't beleive a boss will be that heartless. Usually u have extra holidays (days off) given for your marriage. Some bosses even give quite enough days to cover your honey moon as well. Besisdes what about your normal holidays? Why not fix your wedding within your normal holidays if you've got a nice job.

I am in support of what Seun said "you can get a better job after your marriage" but marriage issue is something that comes once in a life time. So count your teeth with your mouth as they say.

I hope your boss is not trying to punish you for an offence.Why don't you try to plead him?if he insist then you can take your decision by going for your wedding and hope to get better job thereafter.Happy marry life

well my own opinion may quite vary from urs.  lets take from both angle (your boss and You) i will say if u have any diffrencies with your boss as in u have any secret afair with him try and call him make him see reasons why u have to go 4 your marriage. And also make him understand that all the relationship stuff has to stop. And if at all u do not have anything in common make him understand that this is your life and if at all he still insist try and make plan B for an alternative that is during the break like xmas break etc u can get things done. but i will always make u understand one thing as your wedding is important so your job too is important DON'T BE LIKE A FOOLISH MAN WHOM AFTER HE HAD TAKEN HIS ACTIONS AND NOW HE START THINKING THAT WHY DID HE TAKE SUCH ACTIONs[b][/b] therfore look before u leap, though u might think u will always get a good job then it turns otherwise just make sure u look before u leap cause this is my honest advice for you. See the truth of the matter is that we men don't like dependent women cause it raises alot of issues, so if u think your Boss is persistent then try and reschedule the wedding to better and convinient date cause i beleive if u don't have anything secret with your boss he will never make such  foolish decisions and insist on it, and if u don't have anything with him try and talk things over with him afterall he is a man. he can always change his mind.

MY SISTER ABEG NO QUIT UR JOB O! JUST TRY AND AND TALK THINGS OVER WITH YA OGA

GOD HELEP You MA SISTER

AND HAPPY MARRIED LIFE IN ADVANCE
 

gosh my oh

i think your boss is a nice guy. i will like to be with someone like that. the beauty ofd it all is that unknowingly he is taking you to your point of destiny as prepare for you by God Himself.
i will advice that you do not say any bad thing against him. be strong and be positiv n prayerful. om the eve of your native law don't go to the office, do your thing n prepare 4 your BIG daz. After the weddin resume work n c what happens. if you're fired, Fine. . YOUR SUFFICEINCY IS IN GOD.

forget about d damn job sis and carry on with your wedding. wish u plenty luck dear

Your boss must be heartless or anti-marriage, except there is something you're not telling us. Otherwise, quit the job and marry your heart throb because your boss will definitely give you the boot.

Just like Seun said you can always find another job but definitely not another hubby so soon.

You can  fix the marriage on sunday. abi you dey work on sunday?
But this your boss must be sometin else.

you think say na everibody dey go sabbath like you ?

@ topic dear girl,go ahead with your wedding.

@poster
Leave the job and go on with your wedding

If you've worked before, you will always get another job. Getting a job is only difficult when you have never worked before and are totally without experience. But since you've already been working, there are better jobs waiting out there for you. If you get married and stay in this colossal jerk's employment, imagine what will happen when you need to go on maternity leave. Dearie, kick that job to the kerb and marry your sweetheart and drive off into the sunset _{Now i'm getting carried away} .