Too Choose Between My Work Or Getting Married?

Don't mind the useless Boss. He is nothing than and enemy of progress. If he realy want your progress, he should have adviced you not to joke with your marriage. My dear, forget him and his job. Go ahead with your marriage. you will get better off job.

May the grace of God be with you and your family. HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.

CHEERS
 

IF I MAY ASK IS YOUR BOSS MARRIED ? IS HE NORMAL ?
I THINK HE NEEDS  PSYCHIATRIST.HE IS NOT NORMAL.
DONT MIIND HIM ,GO AHEAD AND DO UR MARRIAGE.
FROM MY OWN PERSPECTIVE I THINK HE NEEDS PRAYERS

 Can i just ask . Was it in your contract that you are to remain single  for some years or whilst in the job? If not you can sue him to court if he fires you thats unlawful sacking  due to discrimination.

Wait sef!  Is it a one man business? Anyhow i think you should talk to him afterall its just friday!. Book the day off . Don't think too much about it. Everybody knows he's the joker!He might just be teasing you to see how you would react. Be calm and put in prayer. All the best!

Well, my mind is wandering if u have been sucking 'mouthfull' from this guy  for him to make this statement or probably he thinks u have not paid back enough for his generous offer before jumping overbaord .
Did he meet u in one public place n offered u a job or your credentials are so bad that he assumes that u can't' meet such benevolence anywhere else? I think i hv askd 2 many questions n ready to ask more if u meet me in person. If u read your bible very much then you should know that there is no limit to what u can do through prayer (whether your answer is yes or no). my advice is that u stick to your wedding and trust God for his blessings which includes a new job.
One more question please ,  do u still hav d motivation to work with him after all this?

Just be cool, don't bother about that. Apply for a casual leave and give him/her the reason, if he insist then let your groom to be know and decide on what to do. But please don't take actions yourself.

I advice you to quit this job without thinking twice. If you stay here and put to bed, there will be no maternity leave for you.

I didnt stumble into this thread,I gracefully found my way in because the topic captured me!!!to  be honest I was of the opinion that the poster should talk things over with her boss instead of just quitting?the boss is human and maybe married so should know what it feels like to be planning/preparing or having a wedding?

For some time now I have been having running battles with the girl I want to marry,she seems to love her job more than me and spends so much time at the office and we barely see each other weekends cause shes either attending one colleagues/friends wedding or the other?

I feel that inasmuch as we appreciate the women folk to be independent and all that,I still believe in the traditional values which to some extent is achaic  ,of a woman being the pillar of a happy home!gone were the days when dady goes out to make the money and mummy stays at home with the kids and takes care of the house but those were the happy days

 MARRY THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS AND BE HAPPY,CAUSE TRULY THERE ARE LOTS OF BLESSINGS IN MARRIAGE,MORE THAN THE CRAPPY JOB OR SHIT BOSS CAN GIVE TO YOU

@presido

that your post na classic

FIX UR WEDDING ON A SUNDAY ABI You DEY WORK ON SUNDAY

lmfao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

your boss na woman? She be Akata? E be like say your boss don dey eye the bobo since. Now u wan go marry am, tie him down for life. My sistah fight back oo once your hand dey clean! Maybe You should try fixing your wedding on a sunday or public holiday. Abi You dey work on sunday? I wish u the best.

If you were a guy, I would have told you to put the job first and postpone your marriage date,
that might sound stupid, but I think as a guy you are in the best position to need the money.
But now wey be say you be woman, It is most advisable for you to send both your boss and his money to blazes and cling to your better half. There is a watchword I learnt that lawyers believe in "If you are good they'll find you.
So if you are good better job offers will locate you.

HAPPY MARRIED LIFE IN ADVANCE OR IN ARREARS whatsoever the case  may be.

What is he up to ?

If your Job is worth more than your Husband u can stay and miss what your life depends upon.
Do you know that after marriage your husband can decided to give a gift worth more the what your Boss is distrubing himself for, maybe set up a bisuness for you. I'm sure your Boss is one of those pay peanut and use u like Indians.

Better give yourself Brain.

Do u have anything with your boss bofore u gave him your IV. i mean has both of u being seeing each other aside office work.if yes then u have open up to your fiancee and if not u have to inform him as well. or on the other way round u quit the  job and look for another job elsewhere because if you have better cert with the help of God u can find another job but u can not easily find another hus and it will be a thing of shame for u and your family because the day is on the way.

That can only happen in Nigeria.   

Happy New Year My Fellow Nairalanders,

@ Seun and all thanks  for your advise and opinions.

I haved worked with my Boss for 11months a week, and he has never breezed anything about relationship and we are not having an affair, i was shocked when he said i will have to come to work on the day of my Traditional marriage, i pleaded for a break that particular day but he refused and said i will have to come to work but it will be half day.

I prayed about it my fiance, parents and pastor asked me not to go to work that day but i went and closed by 1:37pm 24th dec. 2007.

I Thanks God who has perfected all things and who works beyound our understanding by making both the Traditional/ wedding a success.

right now am in my office waiting to hear what my BOSS will have to say.

why on earth would your boss ask u to come to work on your traditional wedding day?
"the man smoke shit, abi e don dey kolo?
well, my advice to u is to quit the job.
u would get a better job.
good luck