Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50

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britgirlee (f)
Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50
« on: December 23, 2007, 09:05 AM »

Hi Guys

In your relationship short or long term do you find that you pay for everything?

* Culturally Men are normally subjected to this but as time evolves this can also be associated  with Women*

I will  give examples:

Do you pay for all the meals every time you go out?

Is your partner always asking you to pay for things eg jewelry, clothes and shoes,etc

Are  you expected to pay the rent or mortgage on their property?

Do you pay for their education fees?

Do they drive your car or expect you to buy them one?

Do you feel like their personal banker and are you VERY HAPPY with this situation after all its your Duty .

OR

Are you quite happy to split every expense down the middle to ensure fairness

Your views please Nairalanders  Wink
lai-lai (m)
Re: Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50
« #1 on: December 28, 2007, 01:05 AM »

it simply depends on how close d couple are, they are supposed to be one but these days, no one trusts the other 100% so one is already calculating for the future in case,
britgirlee (f)
Re: Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50
« #2 on: December 31, 2007, 10:48 AM »

Quote from: lai-lai on December 28, 2007, 01:05 AM
it simply depends on how close d couple are, they are supposed to be one but these days, no one trusts the other 100% so one is already calculating for the future in case,

You can rest assured some women/men have already done their research on the individual and have calculated how they are going to provide for the future Shocked
iice (f)
Re: Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50
« #3 on: December 31, 2007, 01:08 PM »

Well that was illuminating Undecided
lai-lai (m)
Re: Are You Expected To Pay For Every Thing In Your Relasionship? Or Is It 50/50
« #4 on: December 31, 2007, 11:26 PM »

@britgirlee
they call it backup, its just too risky especially with the rate of breakups nowadays
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