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ebumowa (f)
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Of course it is, classic rock is the greatest musical genre ever
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Ruddyface (f)
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@ Ebu Mowa, Thanks. You are a great friend. @ Lechatte, Let's connect. @manmustwac 
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Ruddyface (f)
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@ Gamine, Rather than feeling that you are some kind of shrink, I think you came to this thread to satisfy your curiousity. You probably are doing what many preachers do: condemn on top of their voices, the very situation that they are personally struggling with. Forgive me if I'm wrong. I do not want to start up a fight. 
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Viante (f)
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@Ruddy I'm not actin like any shrink I'm saying things as they are. My curiosity is to understand why you still keep doing what you do. i have no pleasure in looking at a girl, when she has what i have it will be akin to masturbation, eew.  Anyways thats just it, i don't pretend, i love guys too much. even if i did have an attraction to girls, i don't have to act on it because i knw it aint right. 
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KarmaMod (f)
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Didnt you claim you once had something to do with a female when you were younger, Gamine? You claimed you were confused.
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ebumowa (f)
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@Viante: So u and Gamine are the same person? Why the name change? So what is this common 'theme'?
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Viante (f)
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@Karma, where did you see all these claims, where do you people dig up such stuff.  I played Daddy and Mummy with a girl, thats all. @Ebum, i was banned from posting, this is my aux name. i didnt feel like posting that night, so i said when Gamine comes bck i would explain. i didnt want confusion. You keep saying that its just the attraction that makes one homosexual. that cannot be possible, what sorta attraction? it has to be sexual, if it aint your theory holds nothing
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El (m)
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No Bi-sexuals on here? U'all are str8-up lesbians? none of y'all goes both ways? 
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ebumowa (f)
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Mommy and Daddy, lol  . Are u telling me, its only sexual attraction that attracts u to a male? Still, the question remains what does sexual attraction have to do with penetration? All sex isn't penetration, and people like being penetrated because the G-spots (male and female) is located within the body. The G-spots are not the only organs needed to enhance sexual pleasure.
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Ruddyface (f)
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@Viante: So u and Gamine are the same person? Why the name change?
To enable her speak from both sides of her mouth. Take my advice: Stay as Gamine and stop pretending. Viante looks like a monster!(No insult/pun intended). Daddy and Mummy play? Each of us that grew up in Nigeria knew what Daddy and Mummy plays entail. [/i]psssw[i]
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Gamine (f)
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@Ebum  Nope, I'm not sexually attracted to anyone yet. What I'm saying in essence is, if you are talking about attraction to females without sexual tones that is so frickin natural!!!!! and it happens to evrybody!!!! so you are saying we are all Lesbians or smthing?     ?? @Ruddy i see. 
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riversman
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Iyabo once told me she felt wet for her one of the interns at the hospital, it was a gurl too, my ears stood up, but she told me it was just another page from " The Diaries of Iyabo the naija virgim" 
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ebumowa (f)
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@Gamine: I am saying that the attractions of homosexuals, like heterosexuals does not only revolve around sex. I have to like someone that I plan on being with and you always know the difference 'friend attraction' and 'potential lover attraction'.
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Gamine (f)
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hmm. let me get you. You said before that i could be attracted to a girl, sleep with a guy and still be lesbian 
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ebumowa (f)
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Yes, I did. People have sex for many reasons, you don't necessarily need attraction to have sex. That's the point I made about lesbians being to sleep with guys,
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Gamine (f)
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So i may be lesbian right now because I'm really close to this my galpal. enjoy sex with a guy even if I'm not attracted to him. i don't get it at all  This dosent sound legit. Hardcore lezzies will disagree with you.
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ebumowa (f)
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@Gamine: I don't know about hardcore lesbians since I would qualify as one of them. You have to understand that we as humans can receive pleasure from any gender but we differ in our attractions. I am attracted (physically, sexually, emotionally and so on) to the female gender (which is what makes me a lesbian). For example, prostitutes f**k anyone all the time, does that mean they are attracted to their customers? Another example, take sex toys; people use them to pleasure themselves, does that mean they are attracted to their sex toys?
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Gamine (f)
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What this boils to is what i have been saying,
The only attraction which makes being a Lesbian Legit is Sexual.
because all the others are what we experience evryday.
Therefore the Theme
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ebumowa (f)
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@Gamine: Its more than sex attraction(its physical, emotionally and so on) and at least you've acknowledged that there is an attraction.
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Gamine (f)
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oh my days, lets not go in circles. I am definitely attracted to girls on a social, emotional level physical not so much, sexual not there at all. Guys too. Does it mean am a lesbian-in-waiting. 
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ebumowa (f)
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@Gamine: Lesbian-In-Waiting? I don't know but saying things like 'played mommy and daddy with other girls' gives off a huge LP. Humans are socially and emotionally attracted to their gender that is why girls tend to hang out with girls and boys with boys. With a lesbian, just add the sexual, physical and any other attraction you can think of.
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Gamine (f)
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Ebum.
I played that game with a Girl, a, once.
i never gave it a tot, you could say we were "innocent"
Even if i do find my self being attracted to a girl now, Sexually
i don't have to act on it. My bible clearly states that it is wrong
and that is what i live by.
The same bible also tells of other things that arent right, if i can obey those
why shouldnt i obey the one about homosexualism
Homosexual
Hence your theme.
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ebumowa (f)
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Innocent 'mommy and daddy'?, hmmmmm; I have never heard of that.
I am not telling u to act on any attraction, I have never told anyone to act on any attractions, my point has been it is their choice whether to act or not.
I still don't get the 'theme'.
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Gamine (f)
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Its about the Sexual.
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ebumowa (f)
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So your theme is that lesbians are sexual attracted to girls and that they have sex! That's reality not a theme, it is why they are called LESBIANS.
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Gamine (f)
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There is nothing more to a Lesbian relationship outside sex.
Nothing.
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ebumowa (f)
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How would you know? However, following your theme; I would say there is nothing more than sex in straight relationships, nothing,
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Ruddyface (f)
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@ Gamine,
Have you ever had sex before? Sorry if this embarrasses you.
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ebumowa (f)
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@Ruddyface: Gamine says she has never been sexually or physically attracted to girls or guys but she has played 'innocent' mommy and daddy with a girl. However she says that if she ever feels sexually or emotionally attracted to a girl, she wouldn't act on it because it is against the Bible. I wonder if she had ever read her Bible before she played mommy and daddy with a girl?
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Gamine (f)
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let me Break it down for you.
One, Mommy and Daddy, a game where people pretend to be
surprise! Mummy and daddy with kids, y'all are all friends though. we were what eight years old.
Two, Yes, i havent been attracted sexually to anyone, if i do feel any of sorts towards a girl especially
theres no need to act on it, you got that right! i do feel like murdering people sometimes, i don't do it.
@Ruddy, i don't entertain such direct questions on an internet forum.
Also, you can keep justifying your lesbian relationship but its glaring
What is a girl doing to u sexually that a guy can't do and more?
You can only be tagged a Lesbian if you have sex with a girl and you like it
and thats all you want, Which is gross
therefore, Your Relationship is HIGHLY SEXUAL,
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LadyT (f)
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let me Break it down for you.
One, Mommy and Daddy, a game where people pretend to be
surprise! Mummy and daddy with kids, y'all are all friends though. we were what eight years old.
Two, Yes, i havent been attracted sexually to anyone, if i do feel any of sorts towards a girl especially
theres no need to act on it, you got that right! i do feel like murdering people sometimes, i don't do it.
@Ruddy, i don't entertain such direct questions on an internet forum.
Also, you can keep justifying your lesbian relationship but its glaring
What is a girl doing to u sexually that a guy can't do and more?
You can only be tagged a Lesbian if you have sex with a girl and you like it
and thats all you want, Which is gross
therefore, Your Relationship is HIGHLY SEXUAL,
Thats worrying. 
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