My Sister's Boyfriend is Asking Me Out

My sister's boyfriend felled in love with me.  After he told me how my sister behaves, that he doesn't like how she does things, l adviced him on how to be following her.  l also encourage him to take heart that one day she will change.

After that time the guy started disturbing me, saying that l'm the one he wanted, that he made a mistake by friending my sister.

Please help me; l don't know what to tell this guy.

Goldenoc dear,
Please  run away from such a guy and tell him to get a life...he will surely destroy you. He has got no conscience and allows his dirty ...............manhood to rule his sanity....................and will never stop at this game[color=#000099].........i bet the next in-line will be your other sisters, cousins and friends and then your mother and grandmother and maybe his own sisters and daughter in that order.
MEN MEN MEN ..........CASTRATE THEM [/color] !

Really the right thing to do is to tell the boy to leave you, firstly because your sister may feel betrayed....."may".. no will feel betrayed if her boyfriend leaves her for you, but then again i think you must feel something for the guy otherwise i do not feel this should be an issue. if you feel something for the guy and maybe you think he is the one....., what can i say. Go for it girl, afterall you're not going to marry your sister. then again u may not marry the boy in question, Hmm. Well the choice is really up to you but know this if you agree to go out with him and he eventually dumps you for someone else. you may have lost a good relationship with your sister for nothing.....

Aqua, hear yourself talking.... can u read what u typed again?How do u feel?
You must think all gals r after recharge cards.if u think all the chicks u date ask u for phone cards then keep it to yourself and don't try to destroy other peoples lives with that.
Goldenoc is talking about her family, life,reputation and all,you're here talking about yeilding phone cards.If u don't have a better advice y don't u keep your hands in your pocket instead of them being on the keyboard typing unhelpful statements....
I AM DISAPPOINTED

l have heard u all thanks for your replies. but l still need more answers because l'm really confused, many people said l should leave the guy, but this guy said he will die if l leave him. and he mean it.

Talk true, u too have an interest in the guy. are u also attracted to him? As far as i know sha no guy ever died from rejection or a broken heart, so if that is your reason. then you have no reason to be confused. but if u think u are also in love with him.... that's a different matter entirely.

So tell us, do you also have feelings for the guy?

My sister why are you asking this question ?  just think about it yourself,  will you be happy if your younger sister is dating your toaster not to talk of your boy friend ?  see what is bad is bad no any other name 4 it ok. Tell the guy to die and go to hell, he is not have any feelings for you he is just looking for fun ok. If you agree to date the guy you are making a big mistake of your life, Please forget about him for life.

Not only that you will run away from such guy, also make sure that your sister is safe from such guy by doing everything possible that your sister leave him.

maybe both of them should let him burn

please,don't be confueseal and make up your mind that your're not going out with him.you'll defintly find someone who will love you more than he does.preferablyu go and teell your mum the whole story she will know how to handle it better.

Ohhhhhh!!!! guys you all are brave guys indeed. thanks for all your replies, l think there is no two options in this matter than to leave this guy even if he wants to die let him die, l have leant he has no regard for my family.

Thank you all for calling me in order.

My dear, that guy is just a player. His not sincere. Tell your sister about the jerk and both of you should confront him about it. His actions show that he does not have respect for you and your sister. His feeling like some player who wants to play two sisters.

I hope you don't even smile with that guy, because his trying to make a fool of you and your sister. The moment you give him the chance to have you, my dear his going to dump you like an old rag and will immediately start telling another girl, maybe your junior sister or cousin, how terrible you are!

Be wise and Careful!

The guy  is a Jerk... a big one for that matter.

Please tell him off. Don't even think of considering him.

Besides you have a boyfriend (saw that in your other post ) , what do you think he'll say about this?

Bottom line, don't do it.

Calm down, bomaivy, I can tell that you've been hurt by gossip in the past.  And welcome to Nairaland, the Internet home of Nigerians and friends of Nigeria!

goldenoc, listen,

A WORD TO THE WISE, IS ENOUGH!!!

I’ve read through and something hits me everyone is just hanging the dude. nd a scenario comes to my head now What if this guy actually loves the younger sister, what if the older sister treats him  like shit or sleeps around on him, or doesn’t give a hoot about him or generally makes his life hell and somewhere along the line there is this young sister that he can actually come to and lay all his woes too and she accepts him, does'nt treat him like shit gives him a shoulder to lay his head on  and somehow they get talking and blah blah blah blah yaw all know what im trying to say , what if the younger sister actually encouraged this attitude and the guy actually fell in love with the girl  WHAT IF this is the scenario then what is the guy a BASTARD then according to all of you, cause all ive seen here is everyone castrating and hanging this guy without actually finding out if the girl in question had something to do with this situation or the real situation with the guy and his girlfriend Please people ask questions then make judgment frankly I don’t trust this situation and it sounds too one sided for my liking