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ofala (m)
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I will start by saying that REAL MEN do not cheat thier partners.Hey what are we talking about here.We need to ascertain the position of the poster for us to be able to know where he is coming from and where he is heading to.There is so much need for people to grow up love-wise.No one is sbove learning,add one or two things to your knowledge bank today regarding your lovelife
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papine (m)
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ITS' NOT A CAUSE, IT'S NATURE
JUST LOOK AROUND, AND SEE WHAT IS GOING ON
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Gabry (f)
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Papine. If you are saying that all female cheats. . . Im very dissapointed with you.
My father cheated on my mom and my mom has never cheated on him in her entire life! My aunt's husband made my aunt pregnant and when my aunt went to give birth in the hospital, he stole all her money and ran away to America. She has never cheated on him sef. Another of my aunt died cause her husband has been feeding her with drugs daily and when she died, he took out all her money bought a car, bought new clothes and gotten himself a Na new wife within 3 weeks! do you want more? I can tell you that in my entire family, they are cases of men cheating on their wife. But did it lead me to hate all men in general? I dont think so.
And I have a princeple to never cheat on my partner no matter what! NO EXCUSE! Whether he killed my mother or he stole my money or he killed me or he kick me off the house and went with another lady. . . it does not matter. Cause as far as I know, Im not the one at fault here and doing all this. Life is too short to even have vengeance. . . U will bring your misery with you to the grave if you continue on living like this. Learn to let it go.
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Pappij (m)
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@papine, u re just a confused guy, lots of issues within u dat u dont av an idea, u dont even sound/write like a player, just a wannabe, u need 2 sharpen your skills esp. d way u write, @ gabrywyl, Rightly put especially d last sentence infact u re wat i am lookin 4 sef, lots of patience and perseverance dat a broda can use,  wat u say, me and u hookin up  |
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Gabry (f)
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Hookin up where? Nairaland?  |
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Pappij (m)
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nah not NL, dis place is too crowded, u know mai name, mai number and addy too, wat u say?, cos am all for dis, lets give dis a shot, neva know wat d future holds |
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Gabry (f)
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Hmmm. . . See your head. I know most people in here do have an affair but they dey look for anotha one in here.
Pele oo. I have a bf. I no want to beat around da bush.
And also I have a NL husband Ituen.
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topup
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**Applaudes the REAL MEN in the thread (who don't cheat and disagree).**
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Pappij (m)
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Hey Gab, Slow down, am not askin u to marry me, and it wont make much sense if i said am single and frantically searchin, just an option am layin before u here, see wat dese broda can do, give him a chance, like i say u neva know, |
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Gabry (f)
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Na waa oo. U have a gf there an you want to try another girl at the same time abi? Did you tell your gf about this? Cause I bet if I tell my bf, he wil vex oo
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papine (m)
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@papine, u re just a confused guy, lots of issues within u dat u dont av an idea, u dont even sound/write like a player, just a wannabe, u need 2 sharpen your skills esp. d way u write, @ gabrywyl, Rightly put especially d last sentence infact u re wat i am lookin 4 sef, lots of patience and perseverance dat a broda can use, wat u say, me and u hookin up if you say i am a confused person,, ok , but only if you agree you are confused too are you here too hooked up all what ? |
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papine (m)
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@gabrywyl gabrywyl gabrywyl im sorry but, that is the fact, and your mom,,, may be she is been repaid back  you never can tell |
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Gabry (f)
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Stop making excuses!
Why join the res of the freaks to be bad since you can start changing by making a difference?
Thats how saints on eath exist cause they make a difference. Thats how heroes exist cause they make a difference.
Why join the rest of the people? This is a task for you on earth so try show to God that you are worth it
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Pappij (m)
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@ papine  came here to contribute my opinion as it relates to dis thread , since i couldnt just see sense in wat u re saying, fortunately an enchantin lady gabriel seems to be thinkin in my line of thots, am enthralled by her basically @Gabriella  (i think) I know get babe o, dats for d record, if u like dnt believe me, cant help u there sha, like i av been sayin, na only way 2 find out, wat do u think??? |
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Gabry (f)
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Ok, I no want to play shakara nor do I want to cheat hia oo. As I mention I have a bf right? And if Nairaland sef I dont mind provided you ask my husband Ituen |
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papine (m)
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@Pappij you see yourself, you are the wise one abi i bet na your type no they see human being with skirt  @gabrywyl since you are now the saint of nairaland, and you think, every body will be like you, you better think again |
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papine (m)
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BUT do you know that if you follow the rules of nature, your body reacts to signals sent to it by you mind ?
it is normal and healthy for a young man to think of girls, weather he his married or not, or he has a girlfriend ,,
it is going to be catastrophic if you are got in the act.
in one word, if a man tells you that he has never cheated on his partner before,,,,,,,,,,,i will tell you that, , that person has serious issue
BUT HE DIDN'T START THE PROBLEM, HE WAS THOUGH HOW TO CHEAT, FROM THE SO CALL
''WOMAN''
I KNOW YOU WILL NOT WANT TO ACCEPT THIS FACT
AND I AM NOT READY TO CHANGE YOUR MIND ON WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN
BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT THE WOMAN STARTED THIS PROBLEM
YOU CAN ASK VICKY
she knows
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Gabry (f)
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Ok how about as a Nairaland partner in crime?  (For the time being cause my Tufe is not back from Medical school yet  ) @gabrywyl since you are now the saint of nairaland,
and you think, every body will be like you, you better think again
Hey! Dont you dare start to claim someone sumthing which they are not aight? BUT do you know that if you follow the rules of nature, your body reacts to signals sent to it by you mind ?
it is normal and healthy for a young man to think of girls, weather he his married or not, or he has a girlfriend ,,
it is going to be catastrophic if you are got in the act.
in one word, if a man tells you that he has never cheated on his partner before,,,,,,,,,,,i will tell you that, , that person has serious issue
BUT HE DIDN'T START THE PROBLEM, HE WAS THOUGH HOW TO CHEAT, FROM THE SO CALL
''WOMAN''
I KNOW YOU WILL NOT WANT TO ACCEPT THIS FACT
AND I AM NOT READY TO CHANGE YOUR MIND ON WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN
BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT THE WOMAN STARTED THIS PROBLEM
YOU CAN ASK VICKY
she knows
Ok, and what do you call those examples which I have given you on my aunts and mother. Its not just one female gotten cheated but alt of the,m and mind you on this earth, Men cheat more tyhan women. . . What do you call all those single mothers? The guy got them pregnant and left them behind for another girl. . . Leaving them to give birth and raise the child by theirselves. . . What do you call that? You are selfish do you know that? You have never thought about all these facts and you self proclaim saying that the females are the one whom cheat and broke your fragile heart. You know if I want think count and think on what men did on earth in general, I swear I might just kill all of them by now. |
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PERVERT9
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i totally agree with you, just like to become a real woman, a wife needs to cheat on her husband what comes around goes around
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eideas (m)
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nothing could be far from the truth,what defines a real man is the ability to remain faithful no matter the circumstances. and by the way ,then in converse to your statement then it means that your girl, to be a real woman must also cheat on you. hope you can say that to all with pride every where you go
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kearra (f)
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I truly believe this man has no sense of self worth, what sort of man could possably think cheating is his god given right, next thing you know hell be saying it OK too beet a woman if she says no to him give us all a break and grow up
I'd like to see how he would react if his woman cheated on him
your no man in my eyes just a selfless child , I want it so I take it is the attitude i get from this
no wonder your so lonely
love gives only to thous who give take it away and all you have is an empty heart
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kearra (f)
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just a second note , I lived with a man who not only cheated on me he beat me , 9 Years of hell yet NOT ONCE did i cheat on him , he took my life my dignity and my respect and destroyed it all I gave birth to his son 8 years later then 1 and 1/2 years later i took his son and i left him behind taking nothing Else,
So in the end he lost so much more. My son and i now live haply, with my new husband it took me 12 years be for i could love let alone trust another man, there not all Pratt's,
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papine (m)
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I truly believe this man has no sense of self worth, what sort of man could possably think cheating is his god given right, next thing you know hell be saying it OK too beet a woman if she says no to him give us all a break and grow up
I'd like to see how he would react if his woman cheated on him
your no man in my eyes just a selfless child , I want it so I take it is the attitude i get from this
no wonder your so lonely
love gives only to thous who give take it away and all you have is an empty heart
what makes you think i ma lonely? and please read the rule of nairaland next time befor you post plz |
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papine (m)
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I truly believe this man has no sense of self worth, what sort of man could possably think cheating is his god given right, next thing you know hell be saying it OK too beet a woman if she says no to him give us all a break and grow up
I'd like to see how he would react if his woman cheated on him
your no man in my eyes just a selfless child , I want it so I take it is the attitude i get from this
no wonder your so lonely
love gives only to thous who give take it away and all you have is an empty heart
you didn't tell me what happen to your first love, you see, everything happens for a reason Ok how about as a Nairaland partner in crime? (For the time being cause my Tufe is not back from Medical school yet ) Hey! Dont you dare start to claim someone sumthing which they are not aight? Ok, and what do you call those examples which I have given you on my aunts and mother. Its not just one female gotten cheated but alt of the,m and mind you on this earth, Men cheat more tyhan women. . . What do you call all those single mothers? The guy got them pregnant and left them behind for another girl. . . Leaving them to give birth and raise the child by theirselves. . . What do you call that? You are selfish do you know that? You have never thought about all these facts and you self proclaim saying that the females are the one whom cheat and broke your fragile heart. You know if I want think count and think on what men did on earth in general, I swear I might just kill all of them by now. i hav told you before stop dreaming, is not good for your health. thats the last warning |
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topup
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BUT do you know that if you follow the rules of nature, your body reacts to signals sent to it by you mind ?
it is normal and healthy for a young man to think of girls, weather he his married or not, or he has a girlfriend ,,
it is going to be catastrophic if you are got in the act.
in one word, if a man tells you that he has never cheated on his partner before,,,,,,,,,,,i will tell you that, , that person has serious issue
BUT HE DIDN'T START THE PROBLEM, HE WAS THOUGH HOW TO CHEAT, FROM THE SO CALL
''WOMAN''
I KNOW YOU WILL NOT WANT TO ACCEPT THIS FACT
AND I AM NOT READY TO CHANGE YOUR MIND ON WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN
BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT THE WOMAN STARTED THIS PROBLEM
YOU CAN ASK VICKY
she knows
What are you talking about?? 'THE WOMAN?' Lemme get my hands on this girl, and make her stop, because I can guarantee you NOT ALL WOMEN cheat. It's not a man thing or a girl thing.
SO papine, do you think that to become a REAL woman, you must cheat on your husband or Boyfriend. I don't get the reasoning behind your statements.
As for the natural natural talk, don't get me started, everything we do is unnatural, because man over time has developed away from their natural habitat and some instincts.
There was a time when we had no clothes and that was natural, to this day, some nudists claim "This is how we should be, naturally." Do you agree with them??
Everything can be twisted in favour of whoever is speaking it, but that doesn't make it true. In the end, this is also my opinion, but at the same time, it is clearly (seeing the response to your topic) - it is clearly an opinion that the majority share.
Maybe you're not advising men to cheat, maybe you are just saying that it is inevitable, well you know what, I still disagree with that.
Society has twisted things, I bet men don't even cheat that much more than women do, and cheating can come in different forms, with this whole 'men think about sex more than women' or 'men have a higher libido' than women, if you go around holding those 'statistics' as facts, then what happens when you find that very sexual woman?? "Oh, she'll never cheat on me, because she's a woman?" lol,
*sighs and shakes head*
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Gabry (f)
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Ok Papine I hear ya so from today onwards. I shall try and cheat on my boyfriend. Yes. . . Cause i do want to be a real women. I should indeed cheat on him. Do wish me luck |
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Phillfree (m)
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Real men do real things,
cheating is fake.
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Pappij (m)
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@ Papine, U see, u aint right afterall, there is so much disapproval in your line of thots, methinks its skewed , anyways on a serious note, be careful about the things u say/write it just might turn back nd haunt u @Gab, am not interested in some partners in crime thingy, neither am i goin to sit nd wait 4 som doc wannabe although i aint goin to rush u either, d cards are well laid now on your table, how is it goin 2 be? |
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Gabry (f)
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Na waaa ooo. Ok, do me a favour by visiting the Dating and Meet up zone section. After u do, tell me what am I suppose to do.
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Pappij (m)
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Wow, Never been there before, really enlightenin, omo, u are one lucky girl so many people after u oooofrom uyimen(d dottin loverboy) to dannyluv, anthonykil, d list is endless, methinks deres a spell u cast on all of us, Meanwhile, u got your work cut out, u gatto make up your mind, the decision is all yours, d good thing is you aint seein on us right now, so u are less under pressure, like i said earlier take your tym alrite, Are u really not a nigerian???, nd where did Ituen get into d picture, Its all good, enjoy |
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