How To Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend?

@poster
Wanting out just cos he's cheating is a very easy option
and it is quite remarkable that you are not making a beeline for that route.

So since you are so sure he loves you, confront him lovingly and tell him you both can't sustain the relationship if things stay the same.

And to blazes with what most people think, some men love and cheat at the same time. I've been down that lane before.
Without trying to sound uncouth or brash, we are just too hard wired for sex than most of you female folks can handle (which still does not make cheating excusable)
 
As with most men,  it just could be a weakness on his part, not that he necessarily doesn't care or like you as much.
Therefore the onus is on you guys to address the issue, you both could be better off you'll just never know.

From what I've observed, I'll go out on  a limb to say Love is a mirage, relationships don't last just because of love, they do because people make decisions and stick to them in spite of the challenges.

So the whole point of "cheating is a sign he doesn't love you" really makes me snigger

@ topic aisha has posted abt this her bf before and ppl gave her gud advices,am surprised this same topic came up again
you guy has been cheating on you serially.
you even claimed you caught him red handed,so why are you here crying foul?
its either you leave this guy for good or learn to live with his cheating and keep praying he changes _{which i seriously doubt.} this is 2008 pls,stop boring us with stale news

@all,if a man is in love,he wont cheat.
even if he gets the urge/whatever to cheat,the babes pix wud keep surfacing.
if you love a girl,you have no reason or rhyme to cheat on her and vice versa.NO MATTER WHAT.
ok,perharps you got drunk,weaker vessel and bla bla,you wud feel very bad after the act _{some even go as far as confessing to their babe even when not asked} and wud avoid anything that wud prompt such ocucrence again.perharps the guy doesnt even like you _{not to talk of loving you} ,if he does,i doubt if he wud be cheating on you serially.

Of course they exist. They're called Bastards.



hahaha.  Let her keep crying there. so it's not even her first thread about the dude? Oponu omo.

I'll pass.

hello bigger sis, am really confused here because i really dont know why you would say all that , i choose not to use nasty words here because i believe our characters can be perceived from what things we say and how we say . good day

sigh. . . .orisirisi!. . . zoomed out of thread

do you see life, Esan whe khin!!

The truth is he doesnt love u no more,if he did he wldnt b cheatin on u,no matter wat he says or does,it just over between both of u.Even if he makes amends he is just going to do the same thing all over again wenever it tickles his fancy.
So gurl just forget abt him and move on(no offense to the fellas)but i have to be real ere.
GUD LUCK O!!!

A cheating guy may change, a cheating guy, may never change.

U have two options,1. stay & hope he'll change/ live with it. 2. pack your bags. Its pretty difficult to do the 2nd tho, but might be the best option.

Their r stories tho, but i'll tell u the good one. I have a friend that hoped her guy would change from his cheating attitude, then at school i told her she was too young to go thru such, we told her several times to leave him but she stayed put, saying she can't give it up. But good for her when the tables turned, she was just too sure of him. But believe me she worked hard & the guy is good. His the one doing the chasing now, they r tying the knots this year.

@thief of hearts,
you swear and curse too much.
you really dont sound lady like
more like a trader who's had a bad day at ojuwoye market.
pls keep a tab on your mouth or just keep quiet abeg

When you are able to construct sentences correctly then you can direct your posts to me, until then I suggest you just ignore me while I'll do the same.

These are the same morons that come on my IM bothering me with lame lines of "wanting to know me better", now they want to run their mouths to spew rubbish. Better be quiet before I expose all of you.

"bennygee", can't get cornier than that. Ode.

You people are easily amused.

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@bennygee pls.this is a new year,ok.
let peace reign. 

@aisha like i said before,stop boring us with stale news.a lady that cant read the handwritting on the wall in relationship issues should not get into one.

hey toyin where have you been hiding your pretty face?tot you have gone back to the convent school?
remain sweet. 

@topic whatever,who cares 

ok ooooh.i said nuffing.
glad to hear that you are fine.stay safe.