Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her

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bricksvill
Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her
« on: January 03, 2008, 08:40 PM »

My girl friend is a very wonderful girl. any man will 'die' just to have her. I think i do really love her: her character, career and family. she's big boosted but small hip. My concern is that i don't feel very sexually attracted to her, maybe because I'm usually very attracted to ladies with mind blowing hips. we've made love couple of time and to her our love making is superb; yes i do love the love making some of those times, but really i don't have the flier i always desire. something tells me if i marry her, i might cheat on her: that's what i don't want to do. please i really need advice from the good girls and guys. how do i tell her I'm not sexually attracted to her without hurting her feelings. i don't want to break her heart.
Seun (m)
Re: Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her
« #1 on: January 03, 2008, 08:42 PM »

Did you not notice this before you started sleeping with her? Huh
adeboo (f)
Re: Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her
« #2 on: January 03, 2008, 08:58 PM »

Quote from: Seun on January 03, 2008, 08:42 PM
Did you not notice this before you started sleeping with her? Huh

Yeh Seun God bless you.
After u have slept with her a 'couple of times' and now u are bored - you want to get rid of her.
Come on now, if u are man enough to sleep with her 'a couple of times' then breaking up with her should be a walk in the park.
Busta (f)
Re: Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her
« #3 on: January 03, 2008, 08:59 PM »

Quote from: Seun on January 03, 2008, 08:42 PM
Did you not notice this before you started sleeping with her? Huh

Good question.

@topic
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The earlier the better. . better now than never
Just tell her.

"babe, am not feeling this sex, lets go our separate ways because there is 100% chance that an going to cheat on u.
jo-z (f)
Re: Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her
« #4 on: January 03, 2008, 09:12 PM »

thats right y'all, 
@bricksville
didnt u see all of that before u started?Huh? thats why they say, never start what u can't finish,  there is definitely no good or better way of telling her that u no longer interested because u r definitely going to break her heart, a piece of advice,  always consider ur level of attraction to a girl be4 u get into bed with her,  Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
jo-z (f)
Re: Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her
« #5 on: January 03, 2008, 09:15 PM »

thats right y'all, 
@bricksville
didnt u see all of that before u started?Huh? thats why they say, never start what u can't finish,  there is definitely no good or better way of telling her that u no longer interested because u r definitely going to break her heart, a piece of advice,  always consider ur level of attraction to a girl be4 u get into bed with her,  Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
smtprince (m)
Re: Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her
« #6 on: January 04, 2008, 05:18 PM »

you are not sexually attracted to her , let me see, first you F, k her, then u enjoy, and she enjoys and now u are not enjoying simple stop F, k her and then she would know but if you continue to F, k and tell her you are not attracted

I would turn myself to a witch,a vampire and a carnivore and swear to devour all that makes you you.


apart from that  " its a free world do whatever you want to do"


seeping some thoughts
Don1DeMaco
Re: Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her
« #7 on: January 04, 2008, 07:03 PM »

them tape your mouth

just tell her simply "babes after sleeping with u i realised I'm not feeling u sextually"
i love u but i know i ll probably have sex with other girls over u, if its ok by u then its all good.
i guess she ll get the message.

tell her like u re telling us now. no long thing

But about hurting her feelings u might be surprised she's just using u too and also on nairaland doing what u re doing, asking us the same question about why your thing is so small and how she likes it big and she is not feeling u too, infact i think i read a thread like that just now. wait let me help u check.
simibrazil (f)
Re: Please Help! How Do I Tell My Girl That I'm Not Sexually Attracted To Her
« #8 on: January 04, 2008, 08:09 PM »

Did you not notice this before you started sleeping with her?

I want the answer too

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Broken up with someone cool just because she has small hips ? ohhhhh come on and you are not ashamed to say that in public ? Is three much

I hope y find some girl with huge hips and shrimp brain for you learn to value people.

Is better get married with someone that you have compatibility one day y ll became impotent or without testosterona it means wish to make love and the only think y ll do is enjoy y family and talk with your wife, if this wife have big rips and shrimp brain your elder life wont be so good.

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You don't have to tell the ridiculous thuth to finish the relationship, just say you want broken up because you are in love with another girl or invent another resonable excuse

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Or pay to her plastic surgery - liposculture - remove fatness from the belle and introduce in the hips
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