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hi dear,you have to make you are indeed frigid before.there are factors i'd like to call 'symptoms' of frigidity.the main one being lack of sexual desire.in most women,there are times of the month when the libido hits a peak.for some it may be just before or after their monthly flow. A woman is said to be completely frigid if at no time during the month she experiences this rise in libido.
It may be that you feel a certain pain on penetration or at anytime during coitus and so there is a subconcious fear of feeling this pain.this also is a reason for frigidity. whatever it may be however,the best option is to discuss with your husband and talk about it frankly.
Mosr people believe that frigidity is of the mind.this is why i think it should be discussed with your partner.
there are hormonal drugs which can be taken to alleviate this 'condition' .i have some constraints listing them here;and that is aside from the fact that these hormonal substances also have their side effects.they may not be readily purchased OTC. i don't know how good you are with herbal or homeopathic medicine.
there is st john's wort and then again you have the passiflora.these will definitely help if frigidity is caused by anxiety or anything emotional. The good thing about the natural approach is that there is no known side effects.
i hope you are satisfied damilolami.i have other tips,but time would not permit me to list them all.i still think you should have a chat with you ''bobo'' as regards this. relax before a session of lovemaking.i bet you,you'll enjoy it like i do
ciao
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