My Boyfriend's Father And Step-Sisters Are Against Our Relationship

I love ma beau and ma beau loves me.  The problem is his family.  His pop wants him to go out with a Yoruba girl.  His half-sister, my ex-friend, thinks ill tell her secrets to her bro.  She really said some nasty things bout the whole family, but I haven't told a soul and she decided to blackmail me, telling her other sis that i said what i didnt say.

My relationship is at the edge, though ma beau isn't in support of what they are doing.  He keeps supporting me.  They even say i made him leave his fathers house, but every day I get to hear something ill and evil that they have said about me.  It's either I let them hate me or I tell all what she has told me.

What should i do?  I sincerely need your advise.

thing is his pop used to like me before we started dating

he already had someone he wanted his son to date.

so am like an obstruction.though his mom and blood sibblings are in support.

No, don't say what the sis said. Fighting evil with evil is no good.

As long as your man is on your side, girl you're fine.

well if ild tell you my side of the gist,

My girlfriends (6yrs relationship) family are muslims, im a christian, they didnt like the idea of us dating at all. They al told her and even tried to persuade her to date one muslim guy like that, even her brothers wife is still trying to hook her up with a muslim brother in yanke. But the issues is this. she ignored all their talks and still stayed with me. Now, my own family just sprung up one morning and said a pastor praid and said we should not marry,  My mum, dad and two sisters are now against her.

Tell me, what should i do,  well i simply told them, that i can't, i wont and i wouldnt.
She belived in me and stood by me when all her friends and family where against us. Now that im making some small money and looking good, ild now let go NEVER!!, not even for the world,

Girl let your Love see you through. Just pray and hope your man never follows his families choice. As long as he assures you not to worry, my dear, don't worry yourself one bit.
and mind you, don't you ever give him a reason to change his mind (don't cheat on him, lie to him and all the stuffs u know he doesnt like)

Be safe, enjoy your love and MAKE IT LAST 

Try and talk them into it, unless it just means that you guys are not meant to be together and there is another better partner waiting for you somewhere.   

This might be a confusing state for your boo if his still under them (financially)
take your time and play dumb to their nags and if it does fade of you love would av become strongr
Has long has he's with you . you both can go through them.
But use your head in evry step and never ignore your heart
complicated but effective in all issues
But for his sis--- confont her---don't give in to her blkmail.burst your bubble 2 your boo.before her the she would sound silly when she does.
keep those secret of hers it will make her fear u more.

Sure u guys are really good with advice, i'm sure i picked up a thing or two, thanks a lot you Nairalanders really help into talking some sense in some of our minds.

Applause to you all!

to all y'all who av given me advice. tank a' bunsh

waitin 4 God to intervene

Ok u  got some cover then
if you're sure his with you on this.
sail through the ocean there is a shore ahead

Zizzle should just go and sit down. Is it a crime to be in love, if the father doesn't like it then he can marry his son. Who cares!

My advice for you:

If his father comes to beg you in future, tell him you are no longer interested in the relationship, or wait two days to the marriage when he is most enthusiastic about it, then logout. Pronto!

- Angry Kid

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Don't get me wrong but stories like samson and delilah,jacob and rachael,romeo and juliet,bonnie and clyde,  The story prolly didnt end well but they left a legacy worth remembering.You think anyone wil remember them today if the road had been smooth?Even the stepfather of jesus had 2 be counselled by an angel! Baby nothing comes easy.If you believe that love is real then juliet it up.True love conquers all and i believe u guys'll win.
As for those opposing, they'l only end up like romeo's people. Nothing is new here,only that this will be a good romance novella to write and i'm willing to.
Dust yourself up and try again.Pronto!

u can love your boyfriend regarless but evesh the thing no dey work like that for naija, they sometimes determine the outcome of your relationship (it doesnt work like that).

Pray. 

Infact start fasting and praying.                    ;