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ilugunboy (m)
Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« on: January 06, 2008, 07:04 PM »

I realized that some couples can afford to stay without talking to one another for days after a quarrel, while others cannot, even for hours.

How long can you stay without talking to your spouse after a quarrel?.

Also, I noticed that men will rather (out of ego) want their spouse to be the first to break the ice.
davidylan (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms?: How Long
« #1 on: January 06, 2008, 07:11 PM »

I once tried 24hrs . . . she broke the ice but was i mighty relieved. I don't think i would have gone another 12hrs without speaking to her.
almondjoy (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms?: How Long
« #2 on: January 06, 2008, 07:19 PM »

Anyone that keeps malice for more than one hour is a sorcerer!!!!!!
amsky (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms?: How Long
« #3 on: January 06, 2008, 07:25 PM »

almondjoy i always find your posts funny.
@topic.it's hard to keep malice with your spouse especially if you are close.i tried it with my husband for 5hrs and i almost died. i had to go and beg even though i was not to blame.
24hrs ke?Huh na die o.i beg who will scrub my back when i'm having my bath Huh i beg i no fit. Shocked
Nmeka (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #4 on: January 06, 2008, 07:32 PM »

malice aint easy to keep 4 long, well it all depends on if the two of u re stayin 2geda then there is a problem, because me 4 one i dunt kno how to kip malice with a luved one, in will  d first to talk.
Caradona (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #5 on: January 06, 2008, 08:01 PM »

As for me, I try using Eba to lure him and if that fails.
then the last resort, will be,  to use Sex to break the Ice. He usually pass out after that.
And when he wakes up everything is back to normal Grin Cool
frenchman (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #6 on: January 06, 2008, 08:08 PM »

I have done it for over two weeks before, though not easy but sometimes a man's ego and a woman;s stubborness can prolong matters
Nmeka (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #7 on: January 06, 2008, 08:11 PM »

eba ke? na wah for you ohh, speakin abnt sex, i think i like your typ of woman, wow i wish i had one like u, who uses sex to make up, i will never b sex starved, nevaa, do u think we cud hook up?my num is 07034344875, i am dead serious, lol
The Sly
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #8 on: January 06, 2008, 08:33 PM »

like 3days  Cool . . . for sum personal reason. . but she came back cryin on the phone  Embarrassed Embarrassed. . .
toyinrayo (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #9 on: January 06, 2008, 08:38 PM »

Quote from: ~Sly~(*_*) on January 06, 2008, 08:33 PM
like 3days  Cool . . . for sum personal reason. . but she came back cryin on the phone  Embarrassed Embarrassed. . .

like w/e. . . . tani? Tongue
ifyalways (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #10 on: January 06, 2008, 08:38 PM »

Quote from: almondjoy on January 06, 2008, 07:19 PM
Anyone that keeps malice for more than one hour is a sorcerer!!!!!!
LMAO .lol

@topic i think it depends on the level of the relationship and the persons involved.
some folks are great when it comes to malice,they can even keep malice with their parents/kids and feel unperturbed about it.
Again,if its a relationship where 1 or both parties,readlly does not love each other,they can always keep malice without stress.

for me ,i can't keep malice ooooh.we might quarell/have misunderstanding but am sure it wont last for a day,i would come begging.infact,i can't keep malice with a loved one.  Kiss
The Sly
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #11 on: January 06, 2008, 08:43 PM »

Quote from: toyinrayo on January 06, 2008, 08:38 PM
like w/e. . . . tani? Tongue

omo iya elelubo ti o wa leyin ile mi ni  Tongue
toyinrayo (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #12 on: January 06, 2008, 08:46 PM »

Quote from: ~Sly~(*_*) on January 06, 2008, 08:43 PM
omo iya elelubo ti o wa leyin ile mi ni  Tongue

eyaomo elelubo ati omo alakarayou guys are good for each other  Grin Grin
The Sly
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #13 on: January 06, 2008, 08:50 PM »

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eyaomo elelubo ati omo alakarayou guys are good for each other  Grin Grin

se bi iwo ni egbon mi. . .  so mama wa lon ta akara ati dundun na   Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy . . . tsew!!   
toyinrayo (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #14 on: January 06, 2008, 08:53 PM »

Quote from: ~Sly~(*_*) on January 06, 2008, 08:50 PM
se bi iwo ni egbon mi. . .  so mama wa lon ta akara ati dundun na   Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy . . . tsew!!   
kon se iya kan lo bi wa o,  se daddy o so fun e ni? iya eleje gbigbe ni mi o Tongue
The Sly
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #15 on: January 06, 2008, 08:56 PM »

Quote from: toyinrayo on January 06, 2008, 08:53 PM
kon se iya kan lo bi wa o,  se daddy o so fun e ni? iya eleje gbigbe ni mi o Tongue

iya ka na lo bi wa o  nitori e ni orun awa mejeji fi gun bi orun tolotolo. . . . Cheesy
blackgucci (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #16 on: January 06, 2008, 08:59 PM »

two years
C_JAY (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #17 on: January 06, 2008, 09:03 PM »

Research suggests that anyone who keeps malice has the tendency to butcher his/her partner Grin Grin Grin
toyinrayo (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #18 on: January 06, 2008, 09:06 PM »

Quote from: ~Sly~(*_*) on January 06, 2008, 08:56 PM
iya ka na lo bi wa o  nitori e ni orun awa mejeji fi gun bi orun tolotolo. . . . Cheesy

LOL. . shut it
The Sly
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #19 on: January 06, 2008, 09:13 PM »

Quote from: toyinrayo on January 06, 2008, 09:06 PM
LOL. . shut it

make me!. . .  Cheesy  tsew!
blackgucci (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #20 on: January 06, 2008, 09:18 PM »

Quote from: C_JAY on January 06, 2008, 09:03 PM
Research suggests that anyone who keeps malice has the tendency to butcher his/her partner Grin Grin Grin

u mean butcher! like cow?
Quote from: toyinrayo on January 06, 2008, 09:06 PM
LOL. . shut it

am sorry but we are lost!no be yoruba land before o!
Iranoladun (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #21 on: January 06, 2008, 09:26 PM »

Grin Grin Grin
Quote from: ~Sly~(*_*) on January 06, 2008, 09:13 PM
make me!. . . Cheesy tsew!


You and Toyinrayo sure know how to make someone laugh-Omo Iya Elelubo and omo Iya Alakara!!!!!!!!!!! I cannot stop laughing,

Seriously, are you guys into comedy or what???

Back to the topic:  I cannot keep malice for more than few hours; by evening time we just have to make up.  My husband and I eats from same plate and share so many things together.  We just couldn't survive malice for long!
The Sly
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #22 on: January 06, 2008, 09:32 PM »

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Grin Grin Grin  [color=#770077]You and Toyinrayo sure know how to make someone laugh-Omo Iya Elelubo and omo Iya Alakara!!!!!!!!!!! I cannot stop laughing,

Seriously, are you guys into comedy or what???


nah! not really,  . . . . .  shes my 47th wife!  Cool
toyinrayo (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #23 on: January 06, 2008, 09:34 PM »

Quote from: ~Sly~(*_*) on January 06, 2008, 09:32 PM
nah! not really,  . . . . .  shes my 47th wife!  Cool
jay. . . repeating that am your wife 47 times does not make me your 47th wife. . . or even your wife at all Tongue
The Sly
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #24 on: January 06, 2008, 09:38 PM »

Quote from: toyinrayo on January 06, 2008, 09:34 PM
jay. . . repeating that am your wife 47 times does not make me your 47th wife. . . or even your wife at all Tongue

nah! u just can't say that now  :Dnot after when u already got me 16kids  Tongue okan je wipe eti wan dabi eti eworo ni. . i no no who them resemble self . . . .  Undecided
toyinrayo (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #25 on: January 06, 2008, 09:41 PM »

keep talking about your elubo girl. . . na wa o
cute9jaguy (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #26 on: January 06, 2008, 09:44 PM »

toyin and sly,you guys should start your own tread ok
The Sly
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #27 on: January 06, 2008, 09:46 PM »

Quote from: toyinrayo on January 06, 2008, 09:41 PM
keep talking about your elubo girl. . . na wa o

ill be back. . .  Cheesy

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toyin and sly,you guys should start your own tread ok

!!!!
toyinrayo (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #28 on: January 06, 2008, 09:48 PM »

Quote from: cute9jaguy on January 06, 2008, 09:44 PM
toyin and sly,you guys should start your own tread ok

LOL. . ,  sorry o



@postseun dnt tell me you dnt see me replying to the topic

hmmmm. . . i don't think i'll want to  Embarrassed
cute9jaguy (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #29 on: January 06, 2008, 09:49 PM »

i can't keep malice for long,with outsider? ok,with my woman,for where?i keep to only one girl so who will help me? Grin
toyinrayo (f)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #30 on: January 06, 2008, 09:50 PM »

Quote from: cute9jaguy on January 06, 2008, 09:49 PM
i can't keep malice for long,with outsider? ok,with my woman,for where?i keep to only one girl so who will help me? Grin
Jesus!!!!  Tongue
cute9jaguy (m)
Re: Not On Speaking Terms: How Long?
« #31 on: January 06, 2008, 09:52 PM »

Quote from: toyinrayo on January 06, 2008, 09:50 PM
Jesus!!!!  Tongue
what happened to Jesus? leave him out of this o o o
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