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girl22 (f)
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Like I said earlier all poor people don't get financial aid. I've people both black and white who have gotten turned down for financial aid and it wasn't beause of they're grades either.
To you stupid people that keep complaining about Americans can get welfare and financia aidl. Everybody doean't get it. Some people get turned down. BOTH black and WHITE. How many times do I have to say that? Every poor person doesn't get helped. BOTH black and white.
Let me repeat it. THEY GET TURNED DOWN,THEY GET TURNED DOWN,THEY GET TURNED DOWN.
Why because I know people black,white, asian who have gotten turned down. Lord have mercy
Just like in sheltors for homeless people. Some people get turned away because they're full. Are you going to criticize all homeless people? No. Its not that they're lazy. They got turned down.
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wendymanda
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@girl 22 you are correct that some people get turned down for welfare but some that get it become so dependent and useless without it. I worked with man that had the audacity to say he wants to find a girl on welfare so she can support him from welfare. Also you have to understand you brought a hot topic to a Nigerian forum so you really don't need to result to name calling as a form of defense becuase you feel outnumbered. In the point of racism I personally think African Americans are more racists and more open with their racism at that.
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stillwater (f)
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To you stupid people that keep complaining about Americans can get welfare and financia aidl. Everybody doean't get it. Some people get turned down. BOTH black and WHITE. How many times do I have to say that? Every poor person doesn't get helped. BOTH black and white.
Let me repeat it. THEY GET TURNED DOWN,THEY GET TURNED DOWN,THEY GET TURNED DOWN. And how will you change this without the ordinary piece of paper called a degree?
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girl22 (f)
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In the point of racism I personally think African Americans are more racists and more open with their racism at that. Lat time I checked African Americans weren't financing tribal wars. But anyways white people think Africans are primative. I've heard white people say that Africa would still be a desert if it weren't for colonisation. I've heard white people say that Africans are ugly. That Africans didn't have the intelligence to civilize themselves. black savages that run around nakes. That colonisation brought civilization to Africans. They call you monkeys and everything else. Same white people that smile in your face. White people talk about you behind your back. African Americans do it in your face. African Americans are not the most racist darling. We just don't hide it 
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davidylan (m)
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Lat time I checked African Americans weren't financing tribal wars.
Whites arent financing tribal wars either. So what really is the point? But anyways white people think Africans are primative. I've heard white people say that Africa would still be a desert if it weren't for colonisation. I've heard white people say that Africans are ugly. That Africans didn't have the intelligence to civilize themselves. black savages that run around nakes. That colonisation brought civilization to Africans. They call you monkeys and everything else.
African Americans say the same thing. I can't count the number of times AAs have asked me if we live on trees and wear clothes in Africa which they all assume is one large country. Whites can be excused . . . African Americans pretending that they are better by virtue of being descendants of slaves is simply ridiculous. Same white people that smile in your face.
White people talk about you behind your back. African Americans do it in your face.
And somehow we shld be grateful for this? African Americans are not the most racist darling. We just don't hide it  Its laughable when you even make the connotation that African Americans can be racist. Racist to who? Last i checked you people were worse than 3rd class citizens in this nation no more than 40yrs ago. Funny that African Americans are not even racist to the very whites who enslaved them and treated them like animals in the 1940s only to turn their noses on the new generation of continental Africans. You have no history, no culture, no language and you dare laugh about being open in your racism? We are the same race, you can decieve yourself from now till next yr . . . to the white man you are nothing but a tolerated inconvenience . . . if they had their way you would all have been shipped back to Africa long ago.
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girl22 (f)
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You have no history, no culture, no language and you dare laugh about being open in your racism? We are the same race, you can decieve yourself from now till next yr . . . to the white man you are nothing but a tolerated inconvenience . . . if they had their way you would all have been shipped back to Africa long ago
During slavery times newborn children wrere taking away from their Africans and sold away. So if we were sold as children to other white people and taken away from our Africans parent How in the hell do we supposed to know our culture.
By the way white people would never send us back to Africa. We boost the nation's enconomy picking cotton and sugar cane. We built the white house and a black man designed Washington DC.
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davidylan (m)
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By the way white people would never send us back to Africa. We boost the nation's enconomy picking cotton and sugar cane. We built the white house and a black man designed Washington DC.
you seem to suffer from a bad case of selective memory . . . how do you think the Sierraleoneans and Liberians got back to Africa? The reason why you are not back in Chad or Niger republic today is simply because it was financially unwise for the white man to do so and not because you were of any value to him. You built the white house but NO black man has ever been landlord there. . . you designed Washington DC but it is controlled by your white masters. You boost the nations economy by picking cotton and sugar cane in chains . . . you seem to have no shame.
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Tonim (f)
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You built the white house but NO black man has ever been landlord thereyou designed Washington DC but it is controlled by your white masters.
You boost the nations economy by picking cotton and sugar cane in chains . . . you seem to have no shame.
Very very well said davidylan. 
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girl22 (f)
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White people own your eceonomy too. So we are both in the same both. England, America,France,Russia,India and China. Get rich of you resources. Why you have tribal wars,famine,AIDS,high illiteracy rates, high poverty rates and so forth.
We're both in the same boat.
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romeo (m)
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You are yet to comment on the African inventors i posted up there!! 
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D-reloaded (f)
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girl22, are you done embarrassing yourself because seriously you're boring First you complained that Africans havent "invented anything", some people actually bothered to entertain you with some links. You ignored those and have decided to change the topic to race bashing. Get OVER yourself But anyways white people think Africans are primative. and you bloody akatas don't? Do you know the garbage I had to hear when I was in elementary school? About my food or the hair styles or whatever? All this was from the black americans, I was CONSTANTLY fighting in school because of you ignorant tarts. My friends were mainly hispanic. The best thing my parents ever did was sending my siblings and I back to Nigeria for secondary school and not have to deal with YOUR people's crap. Now these same ignorant slores are the same one that come up to me asking about my native attires and how I make my food and the braids I have, hypocritical idiots. The same part is you people STILL do this malicious taunting to Africans even today despite the wannabe afrocentrics running around with their Badu headwraps thinking they are fooling anyone I was watching this blind date show. Black couple. The Guy was from Ghana and the girl, black american. Once he told her she was Ghanian, she immediately started talking to him in the "Coming To America" accemnt. It was so embarrassing. I am willing to bet most BAs think all Africans are from Zamunda
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davidylan (m)
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White people own your eceonomy too. So we are both in the same both. England, America,France,Russia,India and China. Get rich of you resources. Why you have tribal wars,famine,AIDS,high illiteracy rates, high poverty rates and so forth.
We're both in the same boat.
that is the racist propaganda AAs try to flaunt about when they have nothing else to say. We control our own economy . . . perhaps you didnt know that the Chinese and the Japanese are also responsible for the keeping the US economy afloat too eh? You talk about us having the highest rates of AIDS infections, illiteracy rates and poverty rates . . . the funny thing is that even within the US . . . AAs have the highest rate of all that you mentioned there! Such a shame!
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De1 (m)
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stillwater (f)
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Lat time I checked African Americans weren't financing tribal wars. But anyways white people think Africans are primative. I've heard white people say that Africa would still be a desert if it weren't for colonisation. I've heard white people say that Africans are ugly. That Africans didn't have the intelligence to civilize themselves. black savages that run around nakes. That colonisation brought civilization to Africans. They call you monkeys and everything else. Things like these don't bring Africans especially a naija person down. We were taught to have dignity and pride in ourselves even in the midst of blatant ignorance, . And that is something majority of African Americans wish they had but can never have. Same white people that smile in your face.
White people talk about you behind your back.
African Americans do it in your face.
African Americans are not the most racist darling. We just don't hide it. Gosh you disgrace me. Should we cry because of the stupidity in your writings  ?Let me tell you to a Naija person coming to America racism is the least set back to his success. While you guys are talking and being racist we are grasping what America has to offer. Continue scraping the crumbs of welfare and child support.
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lazy (m)
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@poster
This thread is worthless and does nothing. It just shows your ignorance.
I would ask you to do some research before you post things like this because it makes Africans in the Diaspora look ignorant.
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wendymanda
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@ girl 22 you are here yabbing about how whites say this behind our back and AAs say it to our face, I guess you want a standing ovation. Funny thing about the aforementioned AIDS, historically balck colleges have an extremely high HIV rate. So instead of going to school we know what those with akata mentality are doing. Also many continents are tormented by AIDs but it is easier to zoom into Africa as the scape goat.
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Ndipe (m)
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Some of the comments on this board are appaling. Davidylan, for once, what's your gripe with AA? Not all of them are in prison for goodness sake. You guys have got to realize that the laws leading to the high rise of AA males in prison is simply unfair and racist. I don't support drug use, but I have been following on the news that the sentences meted out to a black caught using crack is harsher than that of a white using the same drug, in as much as it is called Cocaine. I don't know too much about it, but Rangel is calling for a change of the law.
Now, another news. A black man was recently freed from jail in Dallas, after spending about 2 decades in prison for a crime he did not commit. Blacks have gone through the highs and lows in the country. Yeah, they build washington DC, as you Davidylan wrote, but you called them tenants. But would the system allow them to be landlords? Turn around and compare their experiences with some minority groups in Nigeria. Like the Ijaws who are the oil producing tribe in the nations, but are forced to rely on peanuts/handouts for their survival. Life is not fair. We need to have an open attitude towards black Americans. In as much as they are one or two generations away from Africa, still, some of them have a genuine desire to be affiliated back home, but lack the resources and information about home. Yeah, they are some who are racist towards us, but there are some Nigerians/Africans who are racist towards them.
By the way, if it wasnt for MLK, I am certain that the progress attained by immigrants would have been impossible. Nevertheless, black americans, as dire as their situation may be is one of the wealthiest black nation in the world. can you beat that?
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davidylan (m)
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Ndipe, much as i respect your oppinions i think you are merely playing to the gallery. Perhaps you need to re-read girl22's racist comments to continental Africans to understand where most of us are coming from.
I have no "gripe" with AAs, i only have a problem with people who associate my continent (which they ignorantly assume is a country) with poverty, disease and backwardness.
Black America may be the wealthiest group of black people on earth but it has precious little to do with their own industry but more to do with their accident of birth.
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romeo (m)
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Some of the comments on this board are appaling. Davidylan, for once, what's your gripe with AA? Not all of them are in prison for goodness sake. You guys have got to realize that the laws leading to the high rise of AA males in prison is simply unfair and racist. I don't support drug use, but I have been following on the news that the sentences meted out to a black caught using crack is harsher than that of a white using the same drug, in as much as it is called Cocaine. I don't know too much about it, but Rangel is calling for a change of the law.
Now, another news. A black man was recently freed from jail in Dallas, after spending about 2 decades in prison for a crime he did not commit. Blacks have gone through the highs and lows in the country. Yeah, they build washington DC, as you Davidylan wrote, but you called them tenants. But would the system allow them to be landlords? Turn around and compare their experiences with some minority groups in Nigeria. Like the Ijaws who are the oil producing tribe in the nations, but are forced to rely on peanuts/handouts for their survival. Life is not fair. We need to have an open attitude towards black Americans. In as much as they are one or two generations away from Africa, still, some of them have a genuine desire to be affiliated back home, but lack the resources and information about home. Yeah, they are some who are racist towards us, but there are some Nigerians/Africans who are racist towards them.
By the way, if it wasnt for MLK, I am certain that the progress attained by immigrants would have been impossible. Nevertheless, black americans, as dire as their situation may be is one of the wealthiest black nation in the world. can you beat that?
The Ijaws are not the only oil producing tribe in Nigeria if you care to know. @topic There is racism and injustice in America to blacks but are continental Africans not blacks? They get their own fair share of the injustice but that did not deter them from pursuing their goals, there are thousands of continental African professional living in the US and racism and injustice did not stop them, why can't the AA's use the same opportunity?
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Blackcat (f)
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I have thought hard but won't say anything for now.
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lazy (m)
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The Ijaws are not the only oil producing tribe in Nigeria if you care to know.
@topic There is racism and injustice in America to blacks but are continental Africans not blacks? They get their own fair share of the injustice but that did not deter them from pursuing their goals, there are thousands of continental African professional living in the US and racism and injustice did not stop them, why can't the AA's use the same opportunity?
Like I said to the poster about the topic and how ignorant it was. This statement is full of ignorance as well. Now lets be real, there are many African Americans that have college degrees, nice jobs, and owners of business. They are not stopped by injustice and racism. My question is this: Why are African Americans trying to say they are better than Nigerians and Nigerians saying they are better than African Americans? (I know with this thread that African Americans started this but still) This is just lunacy! LOL! Both have good aspects and both have issues they need to work on. Please get over this!
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D-reloaded (f)
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There is racism and injustice in America to blacks but are continental Africans not blacks? They get their own fair share of the injustice but that did not deter them from pursuing their goals, there are thousands of continental African professional living in the US and racism and injustice did not stop them, why can't the AA's use the same opportunity?
I wonder
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romeo (m)
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Like I said to the poster about the topic and how ignorant it was. This statement is full of ignorance as well.
Now lets be real, there are many African Americans that have college degrees, nice jobs, and owners of business. They are not stopped by injustice and racism.
My question is this: Why are African Americans trying to say they are better than Nigerians and Nigerians saying they are better than African Americans? (I know with this thread that African Americans started this but still)
This is just lunacy! LOL! Both have good aspects and both have issues they need to work on. Please get over this!
I wonder what you mean by that!! If education is not compulsory in the US so many of AA's youths will not go to school, I know many of them have degrees and a good percentage of them for that matter, but what that lady girl22 is echoing here is very normal in them "that certificates are useless"
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lazy (m)
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I wonder what you mean by that!! If education is not compulsory in the US so many of AA's youths will not go to school, I know many of them have degrees and a good percentage of them for that matter, but what that lady girl22 is echoing here is very normal in them "that certificates are useless"
I am not saying that they don't have issues and I will concede that African Americans have in their culture an attitude of celebrating ignorance. With that said, I see statements (huge generalizations) flying back and forth from both sides. In girl22 first post she was basically saying what have Nigerians (or all continental Africans) given to the world. Which is utter lunacy and shows that the educational system in the States is awful. I hope she understands that she is basically talking negative about herself because most of her ancestors come from Africa! <shaking my head> Your statement I felt was another generalization as well because like you conceded that there are many African Americans that have college degrees and good jobs. I agree that present in the culture is a celebration of ignorance but that is an issue that African Americans need to work on. I just think the whole thread is pointless and not really saying anything but huge generalizations of both sides.
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Jafarre (m)
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AA's didnt invent any of those things lol. harlem is a hell hole because retarded AA's followed that silly man martin luther king and destroyed their own businesses and large economy to integrate. now they are poverty stricken ghettoes or places being gentrified while you guys move back to the backwards agrarian south.
booo@ silliness
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Blackcat (f)
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AA's didnt invent any of those things lol. harlem is a hell hole because retarded AA's followed that silly man martin luther king and destroyed their own businesses and large economy to integrate. now they are poverty stricken ghettoes or places being gentrified while you guys move back to the backwards agrarian south.
booo@ silliness
Please take it easy. Calling Martin Luther King into this matter is like taking this thing to a whole new level oh! Hmmm remember these A.A's are our brothers and sisters. Sold out by our own Ancestors. 
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girl22 (f)
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African Amerians did invent those things.LOL Look I wan't trying to diss Africans. Its just that I was upset that alot of Africans were downing Africans Americans on this board. I have nothing against Africans. I agree integration was stupid. Because African Americans didn't build up their communities. They just moved into the white communities.
I know alot of Africans invented things. I was just upset at the time I was typing. I didn't mean those things I was saying. I was just fustrating at some of the negative things I read about black Americans.
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londoner
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Girl 22, just one question, how many White American sites have you gone to to communicate your greviances with the way they treat/ed your people? The way they have refused to give adequate credit to all the Black American inventions you listed here? The fact the Whitehouse , although according to you, built by Blacks, remains the WHITE HOUSE?
Your comments are misplaced, and misdirected. Surely your gripe should be first and foremost with your own fellow countrymen. You need to then ask yourself why you instead opted to come to a Nigerian site and tell us so frankly what you think of us.
You can easily insinuate that African are useless, never contributed to the world, are basically primitive because you too have been taught that of all the races and nationalities the African occupies the last place. I see this assumption in almost all you have written here. You need to review your own conditioning first.
I don't think its right for Africans to look down on African Americans, but you have to face one truth, the lazyiness, violence, irresponsibility displayed by some is and will never be praiseworthy, just like it will never be in Africa.
No amount of inventions will change that fact.
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girl22 (f)
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I don't think its right for Africans to look down on African Americans, but you have to face one truth, the lazyiness, violence, irresponsibility displayed by some is and will never be praiseworthy, just like it will never be in Africa.
Okay I have one problem with that statement. White people committ more violent crimes than black people. Well the last time I checked the statistics they did.
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I-man (m)
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There is racism and injustice in America to blacks but are continental Africans not blacks? They get their own fair share of the injustice but that did not deter them from pursuing their goals, there are thousands of continental African professional living in the US and racism and injustice did not stop them, why can't the AA's use the same opportunity?
The continental Africans that migrate to the West are not a fair representation of continental Africans. Migrants are often well educated,wealthier and more ambitious than their peers back home.So comparing migrant continental Africans with the average African-American is ridiculous. If you want to compare like for like,compare the average African to the average African-American .The reality is that African-Americans are what we will be if we were shipped out in similar circumstances and continental Africans are what African-Americans will be if they were never shipped.The whole debate is silly.
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londoner
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@girl22, yes they probably do in number, but I don't know if they do in proportion to their representation, notwithstanding the fact that they are well represented in other more positive areas of society. I'm not just talking about crime, there is crime everywhere, but the truth is often a hard pill to swallow for anyone.
Some of the things I have witnessed from being around a few ethnic minority groups in the states, just highlighted some of the stereotypes AA's, I think we should do more to agknowledge the origins of challenges which seem to be present in the AA community also. To bury your head in the sand is not the way to go. You can't afford to do that, the crime, drugs, breakdown of the family is not something that community at large can absorb and doesn't seem to be counteracting enough.
Its like saying that, because they are so many great Africans in many fields, that we don't still have to admit our obvious shortcomings.
No immigrant, be they African or otherwise will ever be able to understand a Black American or indeed any other ethnic group seemingly refusing to take up educational opportunities laid before her/him.
When you break it down, you probably don't understand it yourself, if you come across it.
Its good for you to offer up information about the achievements of AA's , but you do a disservice to those people if you use it to accuse Africans.
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lazy (m)
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The continental Africans that migrate to the West are not a fair representation of continental Africans. Migrants are often well educated,wealthier and more ambitious than their peers back home.So comparing migrant continental Africans with the average African-American is ridiculous.
If you want to compare like for like,compare the average African to the average African-American .The reality is that African-Americans are what we will be if we were shipped out in similar circumstances and continental Africans are what African-Americans will be if they were never shipped.The whole debate is silly.
Thank you! This is most intelligent thing I have seen written in this thread.
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