Why Am I Often Approached By African Men? (An African-American Woman)

      NO AFRICAN MAN WILL EVER TAKE YOU SERIOUS AS LONG AS YOU ARE DIVORCED, NO AFRICAN MAN WILL EVER TAKE YOU SERIOUS IF YOU HAVE A CHILD FOR ANOTHER MAN, THIS STEP FATHER SHIT AIN'T HAPPENING, AFRICANS TAKE MARIAGE SERIOUSLY. THEY DON'T WANNA THINK THAT THEIR WIFE WAS MARRIED BEFORE TO SOMEONE ELSE WHO DID STUFF WITH HER 24/7, HOW CAN SOMEBODY FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEBODY LIKE THAT, YOU SAID YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN BUT YOU ARE DIVORCED, READ YOUR BIBLE PROPERLY.
      NO AFRICAN MAN WILL HAVE A CHID AND WALK, YOU CANT COMPERE YOURSELF WITH AN AFRICA WOMAN, IF AN AFRICAN WOMAN GETS MARRIED SHE WOULD STAY COME WHAT MAY. FOR BETTER FOR WORSE IT IS, AND IN DEED IT IS, THE RESPONSIBILITY IS BOTH ON THE SIDE OF THE WOMAN AND THE MAN, IN AFRICA WHEN PEOPLE GET MARRIED IS FOR LIFE, PERIOD.

Ms Chelley, all i gat is one question

Do you have a nice booty ?

end of the road i guess?

big boooty atrracts african mehn!

i hope ozoneflake isnt offline because am after. Stick 2 one topic now. You only drop crabs everywhere n escape

Eudora why watch my back. Read the post, she is a woman of good breed and she is also well off. Been a divorcee what do you think African men want from her? Please read the post well and stop watching my back. Ill get you into trouble . Please read the post by NINETOFIVE.

                                                                                                   I  am a nigerian man with a lot of educated African American friends that definately do not think like you. To stereotype African Americans as only dating africans out of desperation is just worng. The few in the family that raise their eyebrows to their family marrying an African are just ignorant. Every culture has its good and bad. stereotypingis born out of the fear of the unknown and can also be attributed to attempts to validate yourself and hide your insecurities by demonising a group of people.

I hear some African Americans critisize the white man for stereotyping them with a lot of derogatory things (I am ashamed to mention) only for the same people to turn around and stereotype people they share the same roots with. This is very hypocritical, shallow and outright disgraceful                                                                                                                                                    very well said.

@Chelley, There's nothing exciting or interesting about this post. You seem to be an attention seeker. Perusing through the entire thread reveals a woman who knows the answer to her problem, yet wouldn't want to accept the reality.You are lucky African men are still interested in you at 35. After seven years of marriage and divorced, you should know you gotta big problem at hand.

@ BigSis, You are not just a charlatan, but highly egocentric. Bracing through your thread exposes your inferiority complex. To be honest, you don't sound an American. I'm not even sure you live in the States. Bring up your picture let's see what you got. Come on!   You have the nerve to open your volume of garbage to insult Nigerians in a Nigerian forum. Can you do that in your East African country?

Go look at the photo of Mokwuosa, read through her threads and learn from the Diva. She's a true African who wouldn't sell her PRIDE because she lives in LA.

Sister Mokwuosa and Iyke-D had already dealt with this post. Ya'll need to accept it or get lost.

@BigSis, do you know how many black American ladies in my Church who had tried every thing possible to get my heart in marriage?. I've seen some desperate black American ladies too. They are everywhere. There's a case I'm handling right now involving a black American female soldier going crazy for a Nigerian brother. The Nigerian boy doesn't want her, but she's doing everything to get the guy acceptance. What makes you feel all Nigerian are desperate? Please get a life and stop being naive and shallow minded.

I would suggest black Americans women consult with as many Black Americans women as possible who have had the experience to give the the "what to look for and how not be taken!" 

I have know too many women who have been robbed, and royally screwed over.  You better watch you back.  Don't go into these situations blinding.  These men got some serious game.

It is all about you.

I've always been told that I am a beautiful and intelligent girl by both nigerians and african american brothas but nigerians seem to be the more respectful guys. You sound a little like me except I'm muslim. Since I've been in the nigerian community I have recieved a lot of love by their men. I guess thats why I seem to look past african americans now. I think that its true that our true African self shines enough to attract men from the motherland. I say be happy and embrace it.