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chocolatey (f)
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@ poster
You see, women have this "thing" for their exes, the feelings never really die (i'm talking from experience), so your girlfriend asking to go to her ex's house is not a good thing at all.
However, her asking doesn't exactly mean that she's cheating (yet), so don't break-up with her based on that.
Instead give her more time and watch her closely before you decide what to do.
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odiaseo (m)
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In relationships you thoughts can be clouded by emotions. It is very obvious that she doesn't value you relationship with her neither has she given you her heart fully.
don't let family pressure or expectation be a factor in your decisions, it's your life and future that matter. You say you love her, but it takes more that love to keep a marriage together. It must be built on total trust and a commitment to change.
My advice is that you take a step back, have a heart to eart talk with her and give yourselves time to evaluate the relationship. It is better to have a broken engagement that a broken marriage. Don't rush things
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hacker777
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thanks so much everyone for your advice. you've really helped me in one way or the other.
more comments and advice are still being expected from good people like you.
please do help me out with the best of advice.
also nairalanders lets be as objective as possible.
god bless you all.
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ahmedng
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my man, i can confidently tell you that she is seeing that same ex of her's all that she is taking permission to do, she has already done them or intend doing them, she just wants to see how crazy you lover boy will react, i don't think that girl loves you, and is like you are really loaded, i think she is in for the financial benefit, i was in a very similar situation, but man i did not hesitate at all, immediately i discovered she was a liar, i dont give chances for lies.i will advice you to follow your HEAD not your HEART, i know your problem, from all u ve read frm the contributions so far, i can tell u that inside of you u are convinced, where the problem is in taking a decision is that you are following your heart, GUY you are a MAN and MOST act like one, u should even do wht will hurt to prove you are a man, and that is breaking your own heart, its hurts you just have to do it, u will get over it over time and move on.
dont wait till you see her with the GUY before you take a decision, be wise and take the bull by the horn.
Smale
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zheroes (m)
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4 real?  yes for real. whats stamp duty? its tax imposed on a legal document, in most cases you cannot impose yourself on a girl when you havent done that(sex), but when you have you can to a large extent impose yourself on her, then you can say she is cheating on you. |
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Bubba
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dat gal as far as im concerned is not it.
flee from evil now or walk into destruction.
i dont mean to sound so cold but the truth is usually t bitter
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Iyanlax
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@ Hacker777. You must stop living in DENIAL. You already know what the deal is, you must stop trying to make excuses for her behaviour. Dont let her spoil you visions and expectations of a healthy and respectful relationship. She's not ready for what you got to give, it hurts, but not as much as it would if you continue to overlook her behaviour. Peace
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frankbonus (m)
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@poster from all indication you are in love with this babe probably for the fac that she claims to be virgin, but my question is that soposing by any means you come to discover that this babe is not virgin as she claims to be will you like to continue the relationship? will you still love her as muchas you do now? if yes to the above question all you nd o do is to tell her tha jusst as an average man you are the jealouse type so she should avoid the issue of seeing ex next time. even if she has gone it may not mean they are having sex as others thought. it may just be a kiss, but will you take her like that if yes keep the fire burning man
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manoy (m)
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Permission granted.
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boye1
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i dont normally post replies but for this one i want to
i only have one question
when did u start your training?
if the answer is within 6 months ago
then my friend read between the lines
women they never change.
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sexytitan (f)
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Show her love and care before the slated time that she wouldn't even want to go anymore. But whatever happens, DONT LET HER GO!
What does she wnt to do there anyways?
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bennygee (m)
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@ poster
guy how far? u don nack that chick
listen to the words of wisdom.
if u never nack that/any chick
u no get mouth for where she dey.
the earlier the better or someone else will be doing the job.
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hacker777
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more replies needed please.
thank you
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squad1
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LOLLLL
what a topic
@Poster: Eventhough there is no more replies on this tread over a year, i just want know what happened between u and the girl at last,
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FL Gators
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She doesnt respect you. . . . from what you wrote up there
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Macgreat (m)
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@poster
Look for the EXIT!,
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Scooby1 (m)
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people i am confused, though i have known her to be a very good liar infact she deserves an award at that, but like tuface said nobody holy pass. @poster you still trying to build a relationship with a pathological liar, according to you she deserves an Oscar  . My friend a relationship without trust is like a house without foundation so think hard and do what is best for you! Peace |
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kpolli (m)
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bros am her ex abeg no leave am, i cant afford her bills anymore, |
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~smurf (f)
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^^^lolz! ;d ;d :p
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Druss (m)
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i guess u r on sitp , i need to come to edjeba to bitch slap you - no bring that kind stupid logic into company business - how u take pass srd sef?
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