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kathyekiti
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@jansop I suggest a pregnancy test first and if that is negative, wait until it is past the time of your period and take another pregnancy test. In the meantime, start taking some prenatal vitamins. Good luck
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tlpel (f)
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Am a first timer on tis particular page and am i so glad to come across tis. I am 32yr and i v bin married for almost 2 yrs now. I v never bin pregnate, my perod use to b regular until abt oct last year wen it started by changing dates. I didnt c my period in nov and saw it early jan. i have sen a doc and have even done HSG and the Homonal count test. My Hsg reveled dat my womb is ok,but my homonal count is not good at all. My hubby also had a test which shows dat he's ok. i weigh 80kg and am 5.8 tall. am on drugs since i complaind to my doc but i still havnt seen my period. My doc scared my by saying am close to menupose? Can u advice me pls. and i v done preg test which is neg.
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jody (f)
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thanks doc i am happy to hear this but i dont still understand. my joy will be complete when i am pregnant. I have a question to ask . i have this niece of mine that sees her period for more than 7 days. it started when she was 12 years old she flows heavily now she is 19 years old and since last month 17th Of March 2009 till date she is still flowing till today. doc pls advise us on what to do? expecting your reply soon. thanks
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jody (f)
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pls can you look at my hormono test result and Hsg Test. you didnt analysis it for me if it is ok. this was the mail i sent earlier
@katty
i did my HSG test on fridY. it was really painfull.this was the result given to me
the uterus is outlined and it is wit um normal limit Bolu fallopian tubes are outlined, normal peritoneal spillage is seen bilaterally. conclusion- normal study.
the 2nd hormone test values
lutenizing hormone(HLH) 12miu/ml Ref.Values 4-20 follicle stimulating hormone(hfsh) 9 miu/ml Ref.Values 4-20 prolactin 36 miu/ml Ref.Values 6-24 females progesterone 19 miu/ml Ref.Values 5-36
i was told that the prolactin is to high and i was given prolodel(Bromocriptin.ut mesilic) to be taken for 30days. then stimulation of the breast was equally advised to be stooped.i have started taken it but it is really given me some discomfort . I hope this will not affect me from getting pregnant on time.
and my husband 's own @Katty
My husband did sperm count test twice immediately after our wedding and the last one this year i think last month . according to him the first test they said he had infection and was given antibiotics. he said the only thing he could understand from the test is Abnormal sperm 80% while normal sperm 20%. the second test done reads ad normal sperm 60% while adnormal 40% but he still has infections. Will try and get comprehensive result from the hospital tomorrow but can you say anything with the above result. ecoil infection i taught this is not suppost to be in the sperm?what drugs can he take because i feel the infection is causing the ad normal sperm to be high i.e it is destroying the sperm.
God bless you
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ammamat (f)
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thanks so much , i will go for the test, but plz i want to ask, the third day of the cycle u are taking about is it when am still menstrating or after, coz at times it dose not even last upto 3 days so i do not know if 3 days after, 3 days before or 3rd day wen am still menstrating, And plz is it the blood they will use to carry out the test or urine. Thanks.
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jenaniston
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dear kathy,how i wish u r in nigeria.u need to see wat these doctors r doing to us here all in the name of money.i got married in jan 09 and we decided to start having kids right away,my husband stays abroad and so we see once in a year.he left end of jan and i didnt take in,cos i knew the chances of that happening r slim,i wasnt bothered.but immediately my husband left i decided to go to a doctor to make sure i dont have any problems cos my husband has one kid from a prevoius marriage.i went for HVS and was told i have staph aureus but i didnt even listen to them.the main thing i want to tell u is that i went to one high profile hosp and there i met the MD.he refered me to scan and he was the one that did the scan and he told me that the abortion i did in 2004 was not well done and so i have fluid collecting behind my womb infact he told me my womb is infected and that i should bring 100K-mind u he said the 100k is for starters that i might have to bring some more money.cos i need very heavy antibiotics intraveinously for 3d and then surgery to evacuate my womb.i cried like i have never cried b4,but tank God for friends i was adviced to seek for a 2nd & 3rd opinion.i went to another hospital and the doctor scaned me and told me my womb is perfect,that he is only seeing a cyst that he will give me antibiotics and it will go(mind u i didnt tell him anything) i went to a scan center again and the result was the same only cyst seen,no fibriod. and to think that that first doctor is an elderly man,even older than my father.i have lost faith in our nigerian doctors pls i hope to still go for hormonal assay and hsg to be certain.i dont know when am ovulating or even IF i ovulate.i will really like to take in when next my husband is around which might be anytime.what advice will u give me thanks.
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jenaniston
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dear kathy,how i wish u r in nigeria.u need to see wat these doctors r doing to us here all in the name of money.i got married in jan 09 and we decided to start having kids right away,my husband stays abroad and so we see once in a year.he left end of jan and i didnt take in,cos i knew the chances of that happening r slim,i wasnt bothered.but immediately my husband left i decided to go to a doctor to make sure i dont have any problems cos my husband has one kid from a prevoius marriage.i went for HVS and was told i have staph aureus but i didnt even listen to them.the main thing i want to tell u is that i went to one high profile hosp and there i met the MD.he refered me to scan and he was the one that did the scan and he told me that the abortion i did in 2004 was not well done and so i have fluid collecting behind my womb infact he told me my womb is infected and that i should bring 100K-mind u he said the 100k is for starters that i might have to bring some more money.cos i need very heavy antibiotics intraveinously for 3d and then surgery to evacuate my womb.i cried like i have never cried b4,but tank God for friends i was adviced to seek for a 2nd & 3rd opinion.i went to another hospital and the doctor scaned me and told me my womb is perfect,that he is only seeing a cyst that he will give me antibiotics and it will go(mind u i didnt tell him anything) i went to a scan center again and the result was the same only cyst seen,no fibriod. and to think that that first doctor is an elderly man,even older than my father.i have lost faith in our nigerian doctors pls i hope to still go for hormonal assay and hsg to be certain.i dont know when am ovulating or even IF i ovulate.i will really like to take in when next my husband is around which might be anytime.what advice will u give me thanks.
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Sweetypie
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Doc, tanx somuch for the work u r doin,
my prob is, wen ever i am having sex with my fiance, i always feel very dry despite all foreplay, makin it very painful for me. it also does not allow me enjoy sex with him, despite dat we ve bn tryin for me 2 get pregnant,
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chicstwins
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Hi katty, please i would like to know if there is any drug that can enable one conceive twins, im 28 and a mother of a 2year old and want to try for another baby but really do want to have twins i dont have problem with getting pregnant though. what can i do?
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Anamelechi
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Thank God for you. Please doctor i have a problem, My MC is 28 days and it is regular. My problem is that 4 days after my menses i normally have heavy blood discharge for 1 day or 2 with dark colour and bad odour. I went for a text and i was told that i do not have infection but i don't believe them. This has lasted for at least 3 years now. Am married and i wish to be pregnant soon But i don't know if this will cause any harm to me. Please doctor i need your help. Tell me what could be the cause and what i will do to stop it.
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largie (f)
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hi dr kathy !I am happy to let you know i had my baby girl on the 7th of march and she is doing very fine.i wish we could create a link to share pics at least you will be able to share our joys more.GOD BLESS YOU The induction was another story but the bottom line is that myself and the baby are healthy
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kathyekiti
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@tlpel
I'm not sure what your doctor was talking about since I don't have your numbers. Is it possible for you to get the results and post them for review? Were the tests taken at a particular day of your period?
@jody Your niece should go see a gyn for a full evaluation
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kathyekiti
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@ammamat
The first day of your menses counts as day 1 so you will have the test done two days later
@jenaniston Unfortunately, your ordeal is not uncommon. HSG is way overused in Nigeria in my humble opinion. You don't need it. I would advise that you find a reputable gyn who will be able to give you clomid to coincide with your husband's visit. The problem with HSG is that even if the tube is open, the tube could still be damaged. Also make sure to start taking prenatal vitamins. Do you have a monthly period?
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kathyekiti
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@sweetypie I would suggest getting a water based gel like KY jelly. Do NOT use vaseline or oil based lubricants
@chicstwins Unfortunately, I can't think of a drug that will guarantee twins.
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kathyekiti
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@anamelechi This is normal and should not affect your ability to get pregnant. Good luck and start taking your vitamins
@largie
CONGRATULATIONS!!! MORE GREASE TO YOUR ELBOWS!!
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ilikebeans
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hello kathy, please i have about three questions. i am a female, 24 years of age. please my questions are: 1. a few years ago, i noticed a small sore in the inner sides of my labia, i.e. when you open the lips out and look in, around the tip, maybe just above the clitoris. at this time, i had a bad habit of wearing damp underwear. i eventually stopped that, but the sore never went away. it only hurt a tiny little bit at the time. over the years, the same place has evolved into an even bigger sore. to make matters worse, i also have fissures or what seem like tears (looks like a knife or something sharp was used to create slits there) on my labia minora. in these fissures, there is usually a white substance, sort of like a wet powdery thing. i have been to doctors and gynaecologists, but they can't seem to figure out what's wrong. lately, about 2 years ago, i started having pains around my pelvis, thighs, legs, and the pain doesn't seem to go away. i don't have arthritis, as i have been tested for that. sometimes i feel like i am having a throbbing pain, shooting through my labia with every pulse. it's like it shoots from my labia and then spreads to the pelvic region/thigh. i'm very confused. i have been tested for infections like chlamydia, but result was negative. was tested for other bacterial/yeast infections (don't know which ones right now, to be exact sorry), but the results were negative. i have also gone for ultrasounds, which have revealed nothing abnormal. please what do you think all this might mean? please bear in mind that i have never been sexually active. my periods are very regular. they occur between 28 to 30 days apart, last about 4 to 5 days, and are neither heavy nor light per se, just normal. 2. my second question is that i sometimes have lumps (kind of like small boils) around my labia majora. sometimes i have them on my inner thighs. they come maybe once in two or three months and i would have one or sometimes two at a time. usually, these lumps/boils have a mixture of blood and pus in them and are very sore to touch. please what is the cause of this and what do you think i can do to remedy it? 3. my third question is that i noticed from when i was very little that everytime i urinate and put my underwear back on, that there is a very foul smell coming from there. this caused me a lot of discomfort growing up. over time, i came to realise that i can make use of panty liners, which i use now. this has significantly helped to control the smell, however, it still means that every time i don't have a liner available, i still have that really horrible smell. even though i try to wipe myself as dry as the desert, i still am not completely dry. i notice that it is not my urine that has the foul smell, but somehow the combination of the urine residue, which is not absorbed by the toilet paper and my skin is what seems to produce the odour. i have never heard of anyone complain of something of this nature before, so what do you think this might be? thanks a lot for your anticipated help 
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ilikebeans
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oh, i forgot to add that i don't use body washes with soap or any fragrances. i noticed that when i use these, the pain on the sore in my labia minora is further exacerbated.
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marc247
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Dr , please find it in your busy schedule to tell me what to do .I have been married for about a year now and my wife has not conceived for once.
Please look into this questions just some few seconds after intercourse ,my sperm just drips down out of her private part and i think this is the problem ,that is that the sperm does not stay long within her to be able to fertilize the ovum,but your professional advice will be required .She says that her womb needs resetting , that her friends said that there are hospitals where such things are taking care of .She is afraid of going to the hospital even to take medicine is a big problem,what do i do .
thank you for your replies
michael
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marc247
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Dr , please find it in your busy schedule to tell me what to do .I have been married for about a year now and my wife has not conceived for once.
Please look into this questions just some few seconds after intercourse ,my sperm just drips down out of her private part and i think this is the problem ,that is that the sperm does not stay long within her to be able to fertilize the ovum,but your professional advice will be required .She says that her womb needs resetting , that her friends said that there are hospitals where such things are taking care of .She is afraid of going to the hospital even to take medicine is a big problem,what do i do .
thank you for your replies
michael
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teetee2 (f)
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CONGRATULATIONS!!! Let us rejoice with mother & baby
Titilaelae delivered a bouncing, handsome and beautiful baby son's on Saturday April 18, 2009. God is good and faithful, she had a safe delivery and mother and baby are doing very well.
All expectant mothers, we are sharing ours soon in Jesus name, Amen
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jenaniston
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thanks doc kathy, i must say i dont understand my period,it varies;sometimes 30,days,32,33,34 35.the last one was even worse i saw it on feb 10 and the nextt on march 29.i ve been pregnant before but i wasnt married then so i had to have a d&c.but i really want to have a baby now.i want to be a mother.am 30yrs old.i think i will go with clomid when next my hubby is coming back.pls do u have any other advice? may God continue to increase and favour you for waht u r doing here for us.
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sparta (f)
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@ sparta As long as it is uninfected, it will heal without assistance. The vagina heals very well
Hi again doc,
I appreciate your reply but the cut is more than six months now. Every other part of my body heals so well but this one is taking so long. Is there something i can take to make it close faster .
Thanks
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chrystee
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Hi Doc,U r a blessing to us in this forum and i wish u all the best things in life and God's blessings.I'm 23 and have been sexually active for 6years now with one particular person thoughout this time.3 years ago i was diagnosed with PID from a pelvic scan and a HVS revealed that i had staph aureus.The symptoms i felt were prolonged periods,pain during sex and after urination,blood after urinating and the urge to urinate again just after urinating,pelvic pain,vaginal odor.I was placed on antibiotics in form of injections and tablets.After i completed my medication,i repeated d pelvic scan and the HVS.The scan revealed the existence of fluid in my porch of douglas but i was told that it was because of the infection and it meant nothing as i took a HVS that said that i was perfect and the symptoms had vanished.One year later,i fell pregnant,something i couldn't achieve for 3whole years of unprotected sex,no form of bcp although not actively TTC.I had an abortion which i regret but soon after the abortion,i began to feel dull intermmitent pains on my lower right abdomen with lower back pain too.Asides that i dont have any other symptoms but my last two periods lasted for two days only instead of the usual four although they appear normal in colour and consistency and volume.They come at the right time give or take 2days earlier or two days late and i usually have painful menstruation on CD 1 but this time,it was not more painful than usual but was tending towards my lower right abdomen.I'm seriously worried because of my history with infections and i know the effects it can have on fertility.Could i have another infection.No abnormal or foul smelling discharge no pain during sex etc.I've gone for another pelvic scan 3-4months ago which still revealed the presence of fluid in my porch of Douglas but the HVS ruled out the presence of an infection.What d'yu think and why do i find it difficult concieving though i BD only once in every cycle but around mid cycle.I need urgent help because this whole thing's tearing me apart.
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Aladunni (f)
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Well done Dr. Kathy,
I ave been on this thread before with different issues but there is a different challenge now and i will really appreciate your response.
I am 32 years, weigh 79kg, 5ft 5 tall, working class, I got married 3 months ago, I have a 26-day cycle (sometimes less, sometimes more, I will give a 7 months chart ). I have a medical history of myectomy (2 years back).
Kathy, I normally track my ovulation period with the clear, slimmy mucus which dissapeared some 4months back, the whole place seems dry through the month save when my hubby dips his finger during foreplay, it doesnt flow out like before.
Last menstrual period came a day prior and had a regular flow for 3 days but dripping till the 6th day. This present period came on the 26th day with a brownish spotting and came fully(heavy) after 24 hours. The temperature method of tracking ovulation is another thing i do (though not with a thermometer) and this has been constant.
I also have this abnominal pain on the lower left side (been on for more than 5 yrs now). This occurs at different times of the month, sometimes during the presumed ovulation date and runs through till the menstruation starts. Atimes its quite painful, sometimes its just slight and unoticeable.
Then, PMS changes to boils now, Dr. I wish to be pregnant soon. What medical advice do you have for me? Running through this thread, I bought Clomid over the counter from a registered pharmacist (he told me the necessary prescriptions), I have not used it. What do you think?
November 14 December 12 January 11 February 7 March 3 March 28 April 22 (brownish spotting) full bleeding on 23rd
God Bless You
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salsera (f)
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CONGRATULATIONS!!! Let us rejoice with mother & baby
Titilaelae delivered a bouncing, handsome and beautiful baby son's on Saturday April 18, 2009. God is good and faithful, she had a safe delivery and mother and baby are doing very well.
All expectant mothers, we are sharing ours soon in Jesus name, Amen
GREAAAAAAAAAAAAAT NEWS. I actually have tears in my eyes right now, it so good to know mum and baby are doing well. May God continue to take care of both of you. ( i'm tempted to ask for pictures  ) see Doc another success story.
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Fruitsteps
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Well Done Dr Kathy !, thanks for sharing , May your strength and wisdom be renewed
Am new to this forum and i believe you can help me as i am VERY VERY Desperate and need all the help i can get.
Am 39years, never bn pregnant, bn TTC for 10 years. Left country due to this, back home was told unexplained infertility
Here bn told its Endometriosis; heard term 1st time here. Done surgery NHS 6 months ago fibroid, endo, etc Doc here has recommended IVF, currently on waiting list, not sure when, still waiting, am thinking of going private
What are my chances with IVF, Is there a possibility of getting it at 1st try, considering my age What are my chances of multiple birth, is it risky for me , considering my age or am i still ok Do you or your professional colleagues by chance know/heard of the following in the UK
'IVF - Get Live Baby or your full money(%) back in UK' (or something similar)
I know some places in the US offer this but 'cant afford all the expense/total cost now(IVF,travel and accomodation), thanks in anticipation . Looking forward to hearing from you
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Sweetypie
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doc, tanx 4 your reply to my question. there is another one i wld like 2 ask.
i was pregnant last month, but due to some complications, i was advised to remove it. i did the d & c on the 6th of April and my period came on the 9th, altho it was not dat flowing. i had sex with my fiance on the 10th and 11th April, my question now is: is it possible for me to be pregnant, cos for the past 2 days i ve bn feeling very weak and tired. i dnt want to see a doctor yet, cos they might say its d anxiety of gettin pregnant, please your reply as soon as possible tanx
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jody (f)
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thanks doctor, i will take my niece to the gyn. doctor i am worried here. i havent 't seen my period since. i had my period on 24th of march,2009 did HSG on the 3rd of April had some browish discharge on the 10th April, 2009 could the browish discharge be a form of my period because i am expected to see it between the 25th of April to 29th April 2009 i.e 30days circle. I was feeling very sick for the past three days headach, stomach pains and my mouth has being bitter so i went to the hospital. MP test was conducted and they found out i had ,malaria. i am presently takeing the medication for the malaria. can you tell me what to do now or i should still wait for some time to see if the period is going to come? I dont think i am pregrnant because i am still taking the hormone drugs since they said my prolactine is to high. i need your advise . thanks in advance
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oluwawunmi
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Hello doctor,
pls this is my result
iis shows a normal sized nerus with Ap diameter of 3.9mm the echo patheru thomegewus nenel myomelne texlive, there are cyste mastes in both achefa with Ap daimeter str 13mm 16mm.both have regular walls and contain clear fluid.peliv of douyles is normal no free pelve collectin syleid,no fibrod,no cyeris or retained product
note: bulaleral ovaria funtional cyste mases
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wakagirl
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Hello Dr, can you advise of prenatal vitamins to take please? Thanks and God bless you.
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sparta (f)
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I appreciate your reply but the cut (vagina) is more than six months now. Every other part of my body heals so well but this one is taking so long. Is there something i can take to make it close faster .
Thanks
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