Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?

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Iranoladun (f)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #160 on: January 12, 2008, 10:41 PM »

Quote from: saucekid on January 12, 2008, 07:29 PM
now this is the reply i've been waiting for

will you be my galfriend?
*i never reach to get wife*

OK, send me your dossier so that I could connect you to a babe!   Grin (for a fee of course!)
princekay1 (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #161 on: January 12, 2008, 10:53 PM »

saucekid,
need a wifey?
call: Alake Kokoye on 08023744818
be ready to marry sha!
coolkaboom (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #162 on: January 13, 2008, 02:14 AM »

i no know about u guys, but in an ideal situation, isnt my boo suppose to be my best friend? so if my babe is my very best friend, it simply follows that she'll be ridin shot-gun.

in less than ideal situations, if d babe na just company 4 d night (runs, fipa, belewu and all other category),na back seat straight.
saucekid (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #163 on: January 13, 2008, 04:17 PM »

@ rokie,
na 3 times you call me
@ iranoladun,
no worry,i no fear *but you no fit do am free*
@ princekay
i thank you well well,tell the babe to call me

@ all
i'm leaving off to yanke,i don't know when i'll be back again
saucekid (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #164 on: January 13, 2008, 04:19 PM »

na my grandmama go still seat for front
una know say when she kpeme,i go find replacement
augustluv (f)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #165 on: January 13, 2008, 08:41 PM »

i will allow his friends sit in front unless he ask me to.afterall they won't sit there for ever.
michelin89 (f)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #166 on: January 13, 2008, 10:35 PM »

I have never attached importance to the seats, but seating at the back makes me sick.
beumi (f)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #167 on: January 14, 2008, 01:23 AM »

for me oh, am cool wit the back seat, i love the way he struggles to concentrate even when talking bizness with his best friend who is seating in front with him.because he would keep on asking if am comfortable and notices any little thing i do , even from the front seat, and when we are together alone atleast his friend won't be there and i will always av his undivided attention
msanda (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #168 on: January 14, 2008, 01:31 AM »

Quote from: beumi on January 14, 2008, 01:23 AM
for me oh, am cool wit the back seat, i love the way he struggles to concentrate even when talking bizness with his best friend who is seating in front with him.because he would keep on asking if am comfortable and notices any little thing i do , even from the front seat, and when we are together alone atleast his friend won't be there and i will always av his undivided attention

@beumi

 Kiss
I like u o jare. Nothin beats a woman that's fully assured of the power she has on her man. There's no need to struggle.
Eclairs
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #169 on: January 14, 2008, 05:40 AM »

who ever gets there first. Both of them are just as special as each other.
iceland (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #170 on: January 14, 2008, 09:15 AM »

Quote from: beumi on January 14, 2008, 01:23 AM
for me oh, am cool wit the back seat, i love the way he struggles to concentrate even when talking bizness with his best friend who is seating in front with him.because he would keep on asking if am comfortable and notices any little thing i do , even from the front seat, and when we are together alone atleast his friend won't be there and i will always av his undivided attention
Baby! you are a real lady,the  type everyman should dream of having.That was an excellent response.it shows you are mature,cool,calm,intelligent,long suffering,patient name it!, you are heading for an excellent marriage.God is with UYou know what u want,i hope you have him already Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool
ijeybaby
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #171 on: January 14, 2008, 11:57 AM »

As for me i will prefer my guy's best friend to sit in the front seat. But he should try and pretend as if he is going to back seat and allow me to tell him to go to the front. Respect is a reciprocal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok.
bidex (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #172 on: January 14, 2008, 03:29 PM »

well, i can because of a woman and disrespect my freind,  i'll make the two of the toss a coin before getting into the car.
richylaw (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #173 on: January 14, 2008, 06:06 PM »

The lady , if not abnormally possesive should give regards to my friend. If she sits at the back, that does not mean she is an outcast, I know an understanding lady will always reason along this way. I think the only ideal time the so-called friend may be obliged to sit at the back is when she is also a lady!
chinnex (f)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #174 on: January 14, 2008, 06:44 PM »

wel, i have come across this before, his friend wanted me 2 sit at the front seat but i said No;he should sit at the front,.that doesnt stop me frm being his girl,  i juz hav 2 give him that respect at that time.its no big deal.if am with my boo and my galfriend and am the one driving, my man stays at the front seat.since d conversations flows verywel no probs,understanding matters.
kamura (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #175 on: January 14, 2008, 07:30 PM »

ma grandma sits in front,

ma girlfriend and ma boo go sit for back sit Grin
michelin89 (f)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #176 on: January 14, 2008, 07:33 PM »

Quote from: kamura on January 14, 2008, 07:30 PM
ma grandma sits in front,

ma girlfriend and ma boo go sit for back sit Grin

who be that one again?
stag (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #177 on: January 14, 2008, 08:22 PM »

my girlfriend sits in front. i don't expect my friend to struggle over such trivial issues. he knows where he should sit when my girl is around because i know where to sit in his car when his girl is aboard. except , of course, he was already sitting in front when we pick her.
yemivictor (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #178 on: January 15, 2008, 12:00 PM »

@ Topic,

They can both sit on the bonnet while i speed away gleefully! na lie o!   Grin

But really! Truth is, my girlfriend should be humble enough to be able to sit @ the back atimes, while my best friend don't have any sha o! should be wise enough to know what to do in such situations without being told! i.e sit @ the back!

I don't know what's with the front seat anyway! I mean, i know wives (not girlfriends) who sit directly behind their husbands for various reasons and i'll name them:

1) For fear of her life! husband na speed demon!.

2) Nursing her baby (breastfeeding). front seat not safe for babies!.

3) For convenience sake! (probably now used to it from prolonged period of nursing)
yemivictor (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #179 on: January 15, 2008, 12:11 PM »

Quote from: stag on January 14, 2008, 08:22 PM
my girlfriend sits in front. i don't expect my friend to struggle over such trivial issues. he knows where he should sit when my girl is around because i know where to sit in his car when his girl is aboard. except , of course, he was already sitting in front when we pick her.

Trust me! There are some very nasty girls out there that'll still insist on the front seat! whether u dey there before una pick am or not!

IT HAPPENED TO ME!!!

Some girls just feel because they've started giving their "so called boyfriends" BJs means they're now married! Huh
dakmanzero (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #180 on: January 15, 2008, 03:22 PM »

If na runs, chop-and-go, then she will be in the FRONT

Because I will use *eyes* to tell my friend, 'dude,  no burn my cable o! I suppose chop tonight!' and he will understand and choose the back seat JEJE!!!! also, if he was there first, I will signal to him before she gets to the car and he will politely open the door for her. My GUYS and ME have an understanding as per babes!!!!


HOWEVER, if na the wife-to-be candidate ladyfriend, get this,


SHE WILL SIT WHEREVER SHE WANTS! and let me get something across straight: ANY woman thats insecure about her standing with me is TOTALLY disqualified from wife candidate material! The wife knows when I need to discuss serious stuff with my dudes without having to stretch neck across the backseat, and will do the right thing without being asked,  EXACTLY THE WAY MY DUDES WILL BEHAVE when the gbelehu is involved!

In short (mathematically speaking)

wife > my dudes > gbelehu

where > means 'greater than'

And so, gbelehu must take front seat nomatter what, dudes will take front seat when wife allows it. SIMPLE!!!!!


Kemjisuper (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #181 on: January 15, 2008, 03:34 PM »

Well, I'll just sell my car and get a powerbike. Problem solved!
ov
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #182 on: January 17, 2008, 12:58 AM »

abeg make everybody just enter molue, keke napep or el rufai bus.
Benzene
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #183 on: January 17, 2008, 04:20 AM »

It is nauseating to note that we have many unreasonable babes in Nigeria of today and particularly in this house. On the issue of who sits in the front seat, I don’t think there should be any controversy about it. It the guy’s best friend that should seat there for very important reasons, though few. I am sure nobody in the house can give me any good reason a girl should take the front seat. I must say here that it is only materialistic, showy and nagging girls that will feel bad when they do not take the front seat. The only selfish reason babes will take the front seat is to make the world know that have a guy they exert (undue) influence on.

When you talk about a guy’s best friend, they are usually his, old-school mates, childhood friends or even colleagues at work. These relationships are normally mutuality and synergistic, at times more than a brother-brother relationship. This relationship is often older than a mere relationship. I must say here that a girl-friend is girl-friend and never a wife no matter how long, close or what the intentions are.

Making the girl seat at the back seat tells people around that you are fully in control and that you have a down-to-earth girl. Babes should strive to occupy the boy-friend’s heart, not front seat. For guys, please note that you will be portraying yourself as weak-hearted man and “woman-wrapper” by giving your babe the front-seat at the expense of your best friend. The way you treat your best friend is the same way you will treat your brother and any girl that does not like your high-priority for you best friend will for sure have problems with your family.

All the babes who strive (drag) to take the front seat at all times tend to show how desperately they want the guy and it is not-ladylike. I will gladly give any girl the front seat if she buys a car for me. It’s good for your best friend to take the front seat so that you can put heads together positively if anything comes up while you are on wheels. Your babe cannot do better than that, she will only deceive you.

If you no fit control your girl-friend, you cannot control your wife. Do not prioritize your relationship.  You might be breaking a bridge by treating your best friend with contempt. All “girl-friends” come with the exit door wide open!!! Scratch your girl-friend and you will see a witch, scratch your best-friend and you will see a philosopher. Sitting position does not matter much but it teaches a lot of lessons and given an impression you. Let’s close this forum here and talk about other issues.

One love brothers!!
Make una take time babes!!!
Benzene
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #184 on: January 17, 2008, 04:26 AM »

Make una no mind my spelling errors in the previous posts. Babes should understand that decisions concerning their stay and welfare are discussed with the best friends they drag the front seat with. No be so??
topeorekoy (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #185 on: January 17, 2008, 11:42 AM »

Really, it depends on who gets there first. u can't expect me to pik up my pal first on my way out and then my chik, and u expect me to tell my pal to go to the back? na, that aint good. my chik onws the car and we go out often 2geda. my pal will just be there on few occassions and i don't think she sheld raise an eyebrow over that

if she stays in the front, what does it mean? a seat is a seat. so who ever sits in the front 1st will seat there
Benzene
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #186 on: January 17, 2008, 02:11 PM »

@ topeorekoy

It is important that you get the context before you make a comment. It is not about picking up your pal while your babe has already sat on the front seat. The context is that both your babe and your pal are in the same place and you want to take them out.

Please correct your thoughts, you do not own your car with your babe, and she does not own it alone, unless she contributed money to enable you buy the car. In your context, she can demand a part of the car when she quits.

A seat is a seat but who seats where matters and the sitting position often gives an impression, good or bad. After all, there is an owner’s corner car….hahahaahah!!! Please do not give your babe an unnecessary sense of belonging. It does not make her love you the more if that is what you crave.

If you give babe an inch, she will take a mile. Try to be mean at times, there are better ways to be nice other the seating arrangement. If you like the babe so much, then go for marriage. Don’t bug your men with chick issues.
TOYOSI20 (f)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #187 on: January 17, 2008, 10:01 PM »

Your girlfriend of course because best believe it your so called friend will waste no time and I mean no tome at all telling you to sit at the back FAST!!!!!!!
michelin89 (f)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #188 on: January 17, 2008, 10:19 PM »

Nor be madam dey sit for the back?

Ladies, make una choose oo.  Grin
fashizzle (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #189 on: January 18, 2008, 09:18 AM »

Get them to arm-wrestle. The winner gets to sit in front with you,
segunpc (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #190 on: January 18, 2008, 02:31 PM »

them go toss coin!
lungwun (m)
Re: Who Sits In Front: Your Girlfriend Or Bestfriend?
« #191 on: January 22, 2008, 12:55 PM »

If i do not plan to marry the chick, then my friend will sit in the front of the car. if we are alone and i pick him up, then commom sense should make her move to the back seat. and if she does not, i will tell her. i am not really a bad guy but the fact that chicks make u feel u owe them a lot for allowing you to sleep with them really ticks me off. and besides its now in the constitution bro's before h.'s.  Cheesy
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