Visa Lottery Reveals Wife's Infidelity

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kemlion,

no be you wey write this before -


which one u dey? your pix for ya profile dey show woman. but you dey talk above sey you need woman for romance for north?

you be lesbi? abi hermaphrodite? or yahooze?

You really think it is only in Nigeria?

Some of you hate Nigeria so much you would attribute any evil to the country 

Thier form would have shown that the children were adopted. I guess that at the point of adoption, some forms would be filled to take over the children from their homes. Such forms ought to be attached or presented at the point of querying the parenthood of the children. Adoption, yes. But there must also b a proof of adoption.

@poster
if i was the husband
i would present all my documents together with the children that are mine secretly while assuring the woman i would take care of everyone, then i would get everyone to the airport under the pretence we are all travelling, from there i would seperate the sand for the garri, i doubt the woman would want to raise an objection but if she does SATAN WOULD RAIN HELL FIRE ON HER HEAD

make all man carry him cross, the children get papa afterall, and if they wan travel, mke them papa go win visa lottery or buy one at OLUWOLE, goodluck to them

 No two ways to it, divorce is d answer here

For concealing and deceiving me all the years
its a betrayer of the highest order
,  and the kids,i it will break my heart to kwn am not their biological father. Finito

female cheat and then a DNA is done an dia kids, BOOOM !!! what was done in the dark comes to light

Men cheat and .  .   .   .    !
too bad, i my nxt world i sure will be a man

I have witnessed such before in real life. These things do happen. I'm even thinking of doing a blood test each time I have a baby, just to make sure.

@blacklion,

I'm not saying that the zombies at the US embassy can't go against what they published on their website and so make DNA testing mandatory instead of voluntary. What troubles me is why they would be denied visa if the DNA of a child does not match that of the father but matches that of the mother. There are many possibilities here:

1. The woman cheated on the husband and got pregnant with the said child
2. The man is not really her husband but a boyfriend she wants to elope to America with
3. The woman divorced the biological father of the child and remarried to the said man
4. The child was adopted (it would be an unusual coincidence for the child's DNA to "match" that of the woman, except the biological mother of the child is an identical twin of the woman)

Why would they be denied visa on any of these grounds? 

richy, u're right. it just that our people have really abused this visa lottery thingie very badly. i personally know of people who did the stuff i posted up there. its real sad that the innocent ones get punished for the misdeeds of others.

some of you talk the way you do because u don't have kids - u havent rocked your crying baby to sleep, fed her and watched her make a mess, helped her walk, helped her run, taught her her letters, felt your heart constrict when she said 'dada' the first time, soothed many scraped knees, cleaned many baseless tears, but had to take her doll as seriously as she would, followed her progress, have her break your heart and still be your source of joy, want to give her everything you have if u think it'll make her happy, or successful,

only to be told she isnt your daughter after 25 years of being the no 1 man in her life with all the attendant responsibilities. it's not as simple as return her to her father. i tell u even if she's a trouble kid, you will be torn as to whther to return her to her father who didnt quarrel with her over the second ear-piercing or the tattoo on her shoulder. he doesn't even know her favorite flavor of icecream. believe me, if you're a reasonable man by nature, you'll get over it for the sake of the love u have for that kid. it wont be the same with the woman, but people have been known to make even greater sacrifices for the ones they love. don't be quick to push people away, is my philosophy about relationships and friendships.

the woman on her part now needs to come totally clean and pray very hard that she wont lose her long years of investment in that marriage. how they will recover from that sour, only God can tell.

its so bad that i know of someone who applied for visa lottery with keloid scars on his cheek. after submitting his lottery application with his passport photos, he later had the keloid removed by a plastic surgeon in dubai. can you believe that when the visa lottery notification came, he was rejected by the us embassy as a fraudster DESPITE presenting medical documents and letters from his doctors in naija and dubai? the guy was totally shattered

I don't think that the marriage will hold , ever again !

first he should try to know the number of children that are his, and after that he should instruct the woman to take the other children to their fathers respectively because it is very possible for the pther children too to belong to different men.
after that, if he thinks he can still cope with the dirty woman then he should travel with her.and if he can't, he should just travle with her because of the permit and on geting there, they should both part ways.

na wa o, see how the men especially are quick to judge the woman!

am not saying cheating is right under any guise at all but lets look at things this way,  alot of men cheat on their wives, they have affairs and some lead into having children by other women BUT the woman at home (if she gets to know) is expected to accept the news in good faith and keep loving the man! See, the feelings are all the same , a woman feels hurt and alot of distrust for her man if she finds out about his infidelity BUT for the sake of the children and everything else , she's expected to remain in the marriage?! A man , however, is expected to 'put away the whore'! No one is above mistakes , we all pray to be able to avoid temptations when they come but we should be ready to forgive the ones we profess to love when it really matters!

In as much as I agree that its not the fault of the children, the man still owes it as a duty to them (d children) to find out who their biological father is and their biological father wants to be a part of their lives. If the man isn't interested in claiming paternity , then he can keep on as their father, afterall its not only your biological children that can call you 'daddy' (some of us call our pastors 'daddy' ke!). Who knows , the children might turn out to be the best out of all his kids!

This is why you go check before you open leg.
Women need to worry espically in Nigeria.Man who no trust the child is his does not even need permission like abroad but can take the child sample and sent it off for test.