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Bhola (f)
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Since there is a thread on why u want to get married, I guess there shld be one, on why u don't want to get married.
ok, little break down, I know for a fact that it is not written any where that one MUST get married, so why is it that when you tell people u don't intend to get married, they start running their mouth.
The same way the person that wants to get married have reasons why they want to, the person that don't want to get married have reasons as well.
Myself for one, don't want to get married, if I have my way. I strongly believe people should get married once they are ready to fulfil their various roles in a marriage.
Anyway, if you really don't want to get married, let's hear your reasons.
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Bhola (f)
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So, I take it that, everyone here wants to get married. No sworn single guy/single?
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knighthood (m)
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I think i agree with you, life is all my decision making.you can decide you don't want to marry but i guess you have add a bad experience of either witnessing one or your relationship with your man was not pleasant.
I want to say that the purpose God on this earth is for us to worship him and if you really want to obey the commandment of God u need to get marry for you to give birth to young ones who will continue to leave as God as design.
I want to say i am not all that strong in my faith but i believe deciding not to marry does not worth it.
I am a man who can treat a woman the way she want to be treated that is one all the ladies i have ever dated always pray i marry them but the fact is that i am not ready for such thing now.
Men generally are afraid of commitment and this is not helping matter because age is not on the female folk.
I will like to advice that if really it is as aresult of bad experience about marriage please try me, you will love to even maryy me!
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Femonjay
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for procreation and companionship even some culture demand it and its biblical as well.
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crazykid (m)
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God said in the holy bible that a man would leave his father and mother and get united with his wife.
so i see no reason why i shouldn't get married
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Soin
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Why get married when I'll get divorced later? Besides, why do I need a ring to prove my love? Marraige is totally unnecessary and too expensive. A complete waste of my time.
I don't want to get married AT ALL.
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ngojoygurl (f)
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I wonder what is making you to take this type of nonsense decision. God said we should go into the world and multiply, replenish and subdue the earth, why do u want to change it and put yr own law?
Any thing that is making u to take this type of decision doesn't worth it, i tell u.
No matter what has happened to you before baby, is not the end of the world, dust yourself up and face what the future holds for u, get married because is God's law and purpose for our lives!
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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WHY I WANT TO GET MARRIED Because I need a man by my side, to share my joy, pains, ideas, sorrows, sad moments, happy moments. I need someone to walk with, to grow with and to die old with. I want to have children. I love children. I want my house to be filled with the laughter of children playing around and jumping around. I also don't want to raise these children alone, I need a man to be by my side, and support me in raising these kids. I need them to feel a sense of belonging; I need them to feel the impact of having a father around. I can't start naming the reasons I want to get married, they are so numerous.   WHY I DON"T WANT TO GET MARRIED I believe everything in life has got an advantage and disadvantage. Though my reasons are less compared to why I want to get married. I don't want to get married Because, no matter what anyone tells me. You loose a lot of your freedom. Compared to when you’re single You can't really make decisions only for yourself; you have to consider your spouse and kids The quarrels that come with marriage, because there is no perfect marriage Though children are really wonderful and loving, they can be troublesome and a burden a few times. and also, Maternity room  em that one is 
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oIo (m)
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The summary of it all is - R.E.S.P.O.N.S.I.B.I.L.I.T.Y
It stares you in the face. U either shy away by covering ur face or stare back at it!!
Marriage is a Noble thing - ", shall a Man shall leave his parents and CLING to his wife, and they shall become one"
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Joey82 (m)
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This isn't different from d thread "Why are u still single"
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theopops
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This isn't different from d thread "Why are u still single"
People can be single for a moment, but still decide to get married. I think this post is about people that do not ever intend to get married. I do not want to get married, because I love to sleep alone. Funny enough, while I was growing up, I hated sleeping alone. The irony of life! |
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